Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

That sosauve site has some decent things sometimes

You should not pursue women. If you have the mindset that you are pursuing women, or are trying to get into a particular woman's pants, you will lose.

Rather, you should have the attitude that a woman will be a drain on your life, she will be a lying cheating heartbreaking shrew, and she will lie, cheat and break your heart until proven otherwise. Note the word proven.

Women don't realize they lie. A woman can break up with you, be walking out the door with her new boyfriend, look you square in the eyes and say "I really do love you" and many men will not only believe her, but rest secure in the belief that she will come back to them.


Occasionally you'll see geeky high school photos of people like Paris Hilton, or Tara Reid, and this should be an education to you. The most beautiful woman today could look like a toad tomorrow, and vice-versa.

The right girl for you will soon prove easy to talk to. She will surprise you with how interested in you she really can be. It will gradually, very gradually dawn on you that you don't have to be on your best behavior all the time.


The girl of your dreams may not be the girl you dreamed of. "Love at first sight" is dangerous.



Insecure men date beautiful women mainly to impress their friends. Insecure men want trophy women mainly to make themselves look better. Insecure men want to drive hot sports cars to impress their friends or to pick up chicks. Insecure men want swoopy motorcycles to impress their friends or pick up chicks.

Real men on the other hand, date women who are good companions, who really turn them on because they're interesting and attractive. Looks are very important, but not the most important.

Real men have sports cars because they enjoy tinkering with them on the weekends in addition to being fun with a woman. Real men have swoopy motorcycles because they belong to a motorcycle club, love working on them or race them in addition to occasionally giving a girl a joyride.

The best girl for you is one who could be called 'cute' with a decent body and generally happy personality -- and be open to her arriving in your life. Many guys are so intent looking for that fabulous diamond, they don't see the basket of pearls at their feet.

The healthiest mindset for you to have is that the prettier the girl, the worse she will be, only so that you will not be blinded when someone adorable but less glamorous comes along.

 

[EA]

Right now as I type this, I'm talking to a friend of mine and I swear to the Lord above, talking with her makes me 100% certain that I could never ever ever deal with a girl who's got baggage. These are the type of girls that make life difficult for their boyfriends because they're so damn screwed up & they place that burden on the guy which in turn makes him screwed up.

When I get my shyt together & I'm actually ready to have a meaningful relationship, I'm gonna pray and pray hard that I find a woman with as little emotional damage as possible. Life is supposed to be easy, not emotionally draining.

 

[MikelArteta]

Right now as I type this, I'm talking to a friend of mine and I swear to the Lord above, talking with her makes me 100% certain that I could never ever ever deal with a girl who's got baggage. These are the type of girls that make life difficult for their boyfriends because they're so damn screwed up & they place that burden on the guy which in turn makes him screwed up.

When I get my shyt together & I'm actually ready to have a meaningful relationship, I'm gonna pray and pray hard that I find a woman with as little emotional damage as possible. Life is supposed to be easy, not emotionally draining.

a women in your life should enrich it

if there is one thing I advise every man in this thread, NO MATTER HOW HOT SHE IS, NO MATTER IF SHE IS THE ONLY WOMAN INTERESTED IN YOU, NO MATTER THE SEX, NO MATTER ANYTHING do not I REPEAT do not waste the years of your life with an unstable woman. If you meet one, run away, and run fast.

These women are often some of the most beautiful women you will come across, they got a sob story that will draw you in (divorce, abuse, sexual abuse, severe debt, suicide attempts, "things they cant bring up", never been treated this well before) all bpd (borderline personalities disorder) tendacies, the sex is , they will get you caught up so quick, you can't believe a woman like this is into you, then the facade drops, these women will ruin your life and give you high blood pressure, its like getting gum out of a blonde womans hair how hard it will be to rid yourself once your caught up.

if you take any advice from this thread take this DONT!!! whats worse these women know the games to a tee, like a little chinese kid in the arcade taking everyones quarters, because they have been playing it for years and years, and they have a plethora of men who have they destroyed/attempted to destroy, they will take on the mirror image of the girl you've always been looking for, they will have you in atrance, giving leeway, breaking every rule you swore you would never break

i call them the milady de winter in the three musketeers, a sexy, conniving, broken women who destroyed so many men

 

[EA]

a women in your life should enrich it

if there is one thing I advise every man in this thread, NO MATTER HOW HOT SHE IS, NO MATTER IF SHE IS THE ONLY WOMAN INTERESTED IN YOU, NO MATTER THE SEX, NO MATTER ANYTHING do not I REPEAT do not waste the years of your life with an unstable woman. If you meet one, run away, and run fast.

These women are often some of the most beautiful women you will come across, they got a sob story that will draw you in (divorce, abuse, sexual abuse, severe debt, suicide attempts, "things they cant bring up", never been treated this well before) all bpd (borderline personalities disorder) tendacies, the sex is , they will get you caught up so quick, you can't believe a woman like this is into you, then the facade drops, these women will ruin your life and give you high blood pressure, its like getting gum out of a blonde womans hair how hard it will be to rid yourself once your caught up.

if you take any advice from this thread take this DONT!!! whats worse these women know the games because they have been running it for years of men and have a plethora of men who have they destroyed/attempted to destroy, they will take on the mirror image of the girl you've always been looking for, they will have you in atrance, giving leeway, breaking every rule you swore you would never break

i call them the milady de winter in the three musketeers, a sexy, conniving, broken women who destroyed so many men

I've had my experience with an emotionally unstable girl in the form of my ex and you're completely right. They'll melt your heart with their sob stories and have you so open for them, ready to cape only to mess your head up then leave you after they've got what they needed from you and they'll say "I find myself falling for you too hard and I need get away from you."

All the while, you're standing there like wondering the fukk just happened.

 

[MikelArteta]

I've had my experience with an emotional unstable girl in the form of my ex and you're completely right. They'll melt your heart with their son stories

like a asian kid at the arcade sonning everyone and leaving victims all over the place, they are excellent at it. "Every guy has cheated on me", "i don't tell alot of people this but I was raped/molested/abused" they know how to draw you in and once they have you it's like crazy glue, anything they do they will blame it on the "im just like this because my exes cheated on me, im just ike this because my parents broke up, im just like thsi because I was raped" guilt trippign you back into bee hive.

It's dangerous, and many men no matter how great your game is or how much of a pimp you think you are, you can get caught up easily.

 

[RealAssanova]

a women in your life should enrich it

if there is one thing I advise every man in this thread, NO MATTER HOW HOT SHE IS, NO MATTER IF SHE IS THE ONLY WOMAN INTERESTED IN YOU, NO MATTER THE SEX, NO MATTER ANYTHING do not I REPEAT do not waste the years of your life with an unstable woman. If you meet one, run away, and run fast.

These women are often some of the most beautiful women you will come across, they got a sob story that will draw you in (divorce, abuse, sexual abuse, severe debt, suicide attempts, "things they cant bring up", never been treated this well before) all bpd (borderline personalities disorder) tendacies, the sex is , they will get you caught up so quick, you can't believe a woman like this is into you, then the facade drops, these women will ruin your life and give you high blood pressure, its like getting gum out of a blonde womans hair how hard it will be to rid yourself once your caught up.

if you take any advice from this thread take this DONT!!! whats worse these women know the games to a tee, like a little chinese kid in the arcade taking everyones quarters, because they have been playing it for years and years, and they have a plethora of men who have they destroyed/attempted to destroy, they will take on the mirror image of the girl you've always been looking for, they will have you in atrance, giving leeway, breaking every rule you swore you would never break

i call them the milady de winter in the three musketeers, a sexy, conniving, broken women who destroyed so many men

what some nikkaz sympathize with....i see as red flags.

 

[Rich Spirit]

damn brehs, how do yall feel when yall see your friends getting married left and right? Do you feel any more pressure now that you have people asking you questions about marriage?

 

[Rocket Scientist]

damn brehs, how do yall feel when yall see your friends getting married left and right? Do you feel any more pressure now that you have people asking you questions about marriage?

Nope.I have 4 homeboys in my circle I'm close with,they all got married and have a kid.Of course this makes me the next to,but I don't feel pressure at all.I'm gonna be 31 this summer and I'm more happier single then ever before.Marriage and kids are good but it's really a job and if you ain't ready you ain't ready.

 

[MikelArteta]

damn brehs, how do yall feel when yall see your friends getting married left and right? Do you feel any more pressure now that you have people asking you questions about marriage?

none, when you feel pressure is when you settle and make mistakes.

Everyone has different timing, different experiences, different standards.

If I get married its only going to be once so I gotta make sure its correct

half of marriages end in divorce and you have a 2/5 chance of your wife filing

im not just going to hop in because the brehs are going to

 

[MikelArteta]

They don’t love “you” at all. They love the image of you, what you provide to them that they
want or need, what fantasy number you can help them check off of their internal list.
If you look at a women’s life…her series of lovers that she takes…the high-school
boyfriend, the college professor fling, the Harley-driving boyfriend, the rich stock broker
boyfriend, the solid child-raising husband…
All of the guys she “loves” are just a set of internal fantasy men that she has in her head
from adolescence. When she finds a convenient guy who happens to fit a fantasy, she acquires
him, experiences him, f***s him, whatever, so she can check off one row of her mental list of
fantasy conquest boyfriends. In most cases if you ask her what the guy was actually LIKE,
what he thought, what he cared about, etc, it’s unlikely she even noticed. His actual
thoughts were irrelevant. His wants and needs, his dreams, weren’t something she was even
conscious of, except to the extent that his dreams were part of her fantasy of him. He wasn’t
really a human being at all, in her view.
Many women really view men as horses, and they are the riders. High-strung, maybe beautiful
horses yes, but in the end, just animals to help them achieve their goals.

 

[jadillac]

what some nikkaz sympathize with....i see as red flags.

yeah, imo, anything bad a woman tells you early on you have to take it as a red flag.

If ur with her for a year or so and she's been cool, then she reveals to you she was raped or something, then that's different. At least you know she's not using it as a sympathy ploy, nor is it affecting her dealing w/ you everyday.

most recent girl I was hanging out with said I fit the image of the type of ppl she dates. So this is pretty true.

Some women in general are very vain. It's good if they take pride in their appearance, but when that mixes in w/ their ego, and becomes arrogance it's not good.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup screen screen screen

yeah, imo, anything bad a woman tells you early on you have to take it as a red flag.

If ur with her for a year or so and she's been cool, then she reveals to you she was raped or something, then that's different. At least you know she's not using it as a sympathy ploy, nor is it affecting her dealing w/ you everyday.



most recent girl I was hanging out with said I fit the image of the type of ppl she dates. So this is pretty true.

Some women in general are very vain. It's good if they take pride in their appearance, but when that mixes in w/ their ego, and becomes arrogance it's not good.

 

[FreshFromATL]

Yooooooo these last few post between Truest/Reincar got me dying right now in the office

 

[Tallac]

Yep. My guitar playing bae

She's from my country and I did not even know it. Thank you for putting me on, breh

 

[EQ.]

Prince is 5'3, built like teenager and keeps bagging dimes

If he gets Esperanza Splading & Alex Isley, I might cry

Already did i am sure of it he also had Lianna le Havas