Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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She might be but your not a high priority.

Ive realized before when I never initiated and stopped and no lie sometkmes I never heard from them again, or it was months later.



Random, but I feel like if a girl never initiates contact then she's not that interested.....I've dated girls to where I feel like we've gone out, we've messed around but I feel like I'm always the one initiating contact.....

I can't wrap my head around it.
 

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She might be but your not a high priority.

Ive realized before when I never initiated and stopped and no lie sometkmes I never heard from them again, or it was months later.


you see all this...

and then it's your ego that makes you chase.....You say to yourself how could we have spent time together, connected and she never hits me up first.....it's crazy.
 

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Yup, but I did this and did that, she told me this told me that, but your phone remains silent.

You know if you message her she would reply, just been busy with insert school, work

How you were on her mind the other day

And then deflect it on some why didn't you message type ish.

Been there done that.



you see all this...

and then it's your ego that makes you chase.....You say to yourself how could we have spent time together, connected and she never hits me up first.....it's crazy.
 

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Random, but I feel like if a girl never initiates contact then she's not that interested.....I've dated girls to where I feel like we've gone out, we've messed around but I feel like I'm always the one initiating contact.....

I can't wrap my head around it.
It's pretty much the best conclusion you can have. Especially AFTER you two have already hung out?, she's basically not with it like that.

I have a different type of problem these days, these chicks just want to text all day with no real move towards any action. Don't get trapped in textual conversations.
 

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Yup, but I did this and did that, she told me this told me that, but your phone remains silent.

You know if you message her she would reply, just been busy with insert school, work

How you were on her mind the other day

And then deflect it on some why didn't you message type ish.

Been there done that.
:wow: it's so fukkin crazy that I received these EXACT same messages from women lol smh.
 

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you see all this...

and then it's your ego that makes you chase.....You say to yourself how could we have spent time together, connected and she never hits me up first.....it's crazy.

it means she'll call you when the other dudes lose interest in her.

like eeryone says, women are emotional beings. They often make irrational in the moment decisions.

Most women out here always need to be needed. Thus they always need to be the apple of someones attention, always need to be in a relationship. So when one dude stops giving them attention, they start grasping at straws and that's when then they randomly hit up the tried & true guys.

But when you recognize that, that's also when you need to cut her off.
 

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There is always one guy whose a priority, who she's stalking on fb and sending him text messages every day and talking to her girls with

The lebron james
Everyone else is the IRA newble, varajeo, Boobie Gibson etc.

Be a woman's star not her role player.

As always have I'd rather have my dignity

it means she'll call you when the other dudes lose interest in her.

like eeryone says, women are emotional beings. They often make irrational in the moment decisions.

Most women out here always need to be needed. Thus they always need to be the apple of someones attention, always need to be in a relationship. So when one dude stops giving them attention, they start grasping at straws and that's when then they randomly hit up the tried & true guys.

But when you recognize that, that's also when you need to cut her off.
 

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It's pretty much the best conclusion you can have. Especially AFTER you two have already hung out?, she's basically not with it like that.

I have a different type of problem these days, these chicks just want to text all day with no real move towards any action. Don't get trapped in textual conversations.

yeah this too. And it all goes back to attention. They need attention.

That's why they'll say, "I'm getting off online dating sites".....then a few weeks later they're right back on.

This one girl two weeks ago told me "i cancelled my online profile. i asked god to send me someone good so I can get off these datign sites, so i took my page down"

Guess who I saw back on there the very next week :mjpls: With new pictures that she would often text me. I would compliment her on her pictures and she likely used that to boost her confidence. lol
 

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I hope you did the columbo

Chicks want you to call them out as it further inflates their ego that you care.

I'd rather go crazy in my head, write ish down, than give a woman the satisfaction she desires.





yeah this too. And it all goes back to attention. They need attention.

That's why they'll say, "I'm getting off online dating sites".....then a few weeks later they're right back on.

This one girl two weeks ago told me "i cancelled my online profile. i asked god to send me someone good so I can get off these datign sites, so i took my page down"

Guess who I saw back on there the very next week :mjpls: With new pictures that she would often text me. I would compliment her on her pictures and she likely used that to boost her confidence. lol
 
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