Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

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Love like you never loved before I hate this line, if you had a heart attack are you going to eat like you never had a heart attack before?

Nope your going to be wiser and eat healthy, watch your diet, exercise and not take life for granted

Just like with love, you learn not to take it for granted, you become wiser in whatever way you define love. I'm not saying you dilute the levels of love, more so refining the formula.

Secondly , I'm very cautious who I open up about my feelings, heart to.

Not because of anger or bitterness, but my heart and feelings are not Eeyores tail. I can't attach and detach, attach and detach over and over and over again.

 

[jadillac]

it's funny how after some time goes by you can look back at something a woman said early on when you first began talking to her, and now u see how it shows her true self.

She gave you the clue, and you ignored it. Or you wanted to give her a chance.

I have a gift of being able to peg what kind of person ppl are right from jump, but instead I often dont use it and try "not to judge," when in fact I really should use it all the time when it pertains to women. Follow your first mind brehs

 

[CityGuy]

Brehs I just dont know right now. I'm focusing on myself a lot lately. Reading a lot, working out on free time from work, planning vacays this summer. A lot is improving, Still theres a part of me just not happy with things. I'm a good looking dude with a lot going for me but my ex who I left over a year ago is still happy with the guy she cheated on me with. Females I meet are either book smart but have no personality/boring type. The ones who have a personality will give you the digits, everything will go cool for a week or 2 then they start to flake and the red flags appear.

shyt is just scressful

Not even looking for a relationship or anything, just someone you can kick it with and cut through the bullshyt

 

[MikelArteta]

it's funny how after some time goes by you can look back at something a woman said early on when you first began talking to her, and now u see how it shows her true self.

She gave you the clue, and you ignored it. Or you wanted to give her a chance.

I have a gift of being able to peg what kind of person ppl are right from jump, but instead I often dont use it and try "not to judge," when in fact I really should use it all the time when it pertains to women. Follow your first mind brehs

never be afraid to "stereotype" a woman

like i said women know what they are doing

they will drop like i cheated on a bf but he was a insert every horrible thing, and then the I hope you don't view me differently, this it he first time ive been opened about this

and because shes beautiful you get so caught up.

 

[MikelArteta]

Brehs I just dont know right now. I'm focusing on myself a lot lately. Reading a lot, working out on free time from work, planning vacays this summer. A lot is improving, Still theres a part of me just not happy with things. I'm a good looking dude with a lot going for me but my ex who I left over a year ago is still happy with the guy she cheated on me with. Females I meet are either book smart but have no personality/boring type. The ones who have a personality will give you the digits, everything will go cool for a week or 2 then they start to flake and the red flags appear.

shyt is just scressful

Not even looking for a relationship or anything, just someone you can kick it with and cut through the bullshyt

how do you know she's happy? you don't.

First off stop checking for information, delete her everywhere. You actualyl think if you r ex ws sad and depressed she'd let you know?

I say just enjoy life, stop comparing women to your ex, just be patient quality>>>quanity just have to wait

 

[Ohene]

Brehs I just dont know right now. I'm focusing on myself a lot lately. Reading a lot, working out on free time from work, planning vacays this summer. A lot is improving, Still theres a part of me just not happy with things. I'm a good looking dude with a lot going for me but my ex who I left over a year ago is still happy with the guy she cheated on me with. Females I meet are either book smart but have no personality/boring type. The ones who have a personality will give you the digits, everything will go cool for a week or 2 then they start to flake and the red flags appear.

shyt is just scressful

Not even looking for a relationship or anything, just someone you can kick it with and cut through the bullshyt

lol pretty much where i'm at without the cheating ex

 

[MikelArteta]

lol pretty much where i'm at without the cheating ex

you brehs still young, still some decent brehettes who havent been tarnished yet

 

[Ohene]

you brehs still young, still some decent brehettes who havent been tarnished yet

They all seem to go haywire around age 21.

I'm 23...only so many years I can still creep on these 19,20 year olds

 

[MikelArteta]

They all seem to go haywire around age 21.

I'm 23...only so many years I can still creep on these 19,20 year olds

im 30 = single moms, divorcees, chicks who have been cheated on, emotionally damaged, chcks who want commitment right away and had their fun, sick of teh bar scenes'/clubbing



ah well gym and travel

 

[Youseenmywork]

im 30 = single moms, divorcees, chicks who have been cheated on, emotionally damaged, chcks who want commitment right away and had their fun, sick of teh bar scenes'/clubbing



ah well gym and travel

Yeah they dont get it wait till they turn 30 a bunch of things change ...you mindset for one

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah they dont get it wait till they turn 30 a bunch of things change ...you mindset for one

I wish i had the mind I had now/wisdom 10 years ago i'd be so far ahead in dealing with wmen

 

[A1aaa]

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[MikelArteta]

how do y'all nikkas approach girls in the gym/library/day time venues? i put in work at the gym at my uni on 5-6 times a week so i've peeped the selection... theres one girl in particular, body is and she been giving those coy kinda glances each time i'm in there, but i d k if i should let it rock since i'm in there so often. not tryna get curved at a spot i'm hitting up everyday. i like only having to see a girl im fukkin with when i wanna. in the club i got no problem hitting up these hoes i'll only see in passing. but i swear i've seen 10x finer girls at the library and gym than at the club.. how should i play it?

Just say hi, ask her major or what classes she has.

 

[Rich Spirit]

chick hit me up talking about she's gonna give her ex another chance and that we should stop talking


i didn't even reply back to her

 

[Womb Raider]

chick hit me up talking about she's gonna give her ex another chance and that we should stop talking


i didn't even reply back to her

lol watch her jump back on your dikk when the ex fukks up again.