Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[McPiff]

For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes - James 4:14

Time sure does fly, just seems like yesterday was *insert year*, it almost feels like I can just blink my eye and look at up the calendar and a week or a month is just gone - na na na na hey hey goodbye. So yes, time is way way way too precious to waste because once it's gone it's gone!!!

And if there is one thing I do not like to do at all is to waste the time of anyone nor have anyone waste mine.

Storytime

Recently I semi slipped up, as someone who never ever looks back. I looked back and contacted someone from my past and from my past I mean a good ten years go. Oops my bad yes I make mistakes, should have never done this - I guess I was bored/curious/lonely (edit all of these are horrible excuses) and it took really no effort finding someone in that umm line of work. So gasp shockingly I am remembered, ah my old monosyllabic awkward self is always remembered....

Anyways we communicate back and forth for a while and ah yep there it is, "I always thought of you throughout the years" and other trying to draw me in drivel so to speak. In all honesty, I had no ulterior motives or intention in breaking almost a decade of silence - I slipped up and this is on me. So I had to be honest and "friendzone" (I hate that phrase) so to speak. Yeah of course I could have strung along, lied, lowered my standards, however I already knew it would not be going anywhere so why waste my time or hers.

Stringing along, playing with individuals emotions instead of being honest, instilling hope are all examples of wasting someone's time. Now if you are honest to them and they continue to languish around well meh.

And on the other side we have the languishing ah the unrequited love staying in the friendzone/shadow hoping for an opportunity to be promoted, individuals staying in horrible relationships, individuals being friends with an ex when they want more than friendship. Individuals dealing with "someone who has shown you who they are" but are giving chances after chances hoping they will change. Individuals who settle to avoid being alone, individuals who are options and never priorities...etc. etc.

All of these and many more are time wasters, you look at the calender and its 2011 and before you know it the calendar now reads 2015 and you are stuck in the exact same situation just that now 4 years that are impossible to get back have passed. Instead of perhaps being with the right person/right situation for you, all that time was spent being with the the wrong person and stuck in wrong situation. And that's not even the worst of the worst as you may spend months or even years recovering after the fact when you finally remove yourself from that person/situation. However I say it's never to late to sever the ties and embrace life, continually use your time wisely for the valuable commodity that it is - focus on the good and never waste your valuable time on someone who does not treat you with respect or doesn't feels the same way you do about them. Because ain't nobody got time for that.

the timing of this is just impeccable


say breh do you believe that 2 people who are in love with eachother can meet up again, if they have to break up due to a..lets say a "timing situation" ?

 

[darius19]

if i get in breh

at first i thoguht it was the hospital but nah its offsite and its the financial part, its like 80% women though, if I get in id be the only male in that team minus my brother in law who runs it

damn breh, working with all women is get ready for a workplace filled with gossip and shyt like that

thats one thing i noticed, male dominated workplaces have a much more "get shyt done" type of approach, you don't have to really be friends with your coworkers, just be cordial and handle your shyt not with women-dominated workplaces though

 

[TRUEST]

shorty is in my group and monday class.

that feeling when you think shorty likes you when she doesn't like you like that

I swear its like you can never win outchea breh.

and we from da same country

next time u wanna gauge if a chick really likes u (especially in a setting where u are bound to see them again), here's what you do:

find out something she knows how to do and u dont. and see if she voluntarily offers to teach u.

i.e.

me: i cant swim
her: aww, i can teach u. ( i have fuccked every chick that offered to "teach" me)

i mean, dont just go up to her and blurt this sh1t out. find a way to make whatever conversation you're having lead into that. this method is very innocent and carries lil to no risk of making u suffer an embarrassing rejection which u have to live with everytime u see that person.

when a chick is feeling u, teaching u something she knows well is like a no-brainer for them.

 

[Youseenmywork]

did you hear how patrice o'neal bags bytches off the street? somebody link black philip show number 7. theres one part at 2:21:00 and another story quite a bit before that.

how does he make the transition from emotional angry bytch to getting their numbers?

Patrice oneal is the GOAT when comes dealing with women ...its hard to explain the transition i would say just listen to all 13 episodes and take some game from dante nero as well he has his own podcast also.

 

[360dagod]

damn breh, working with all women is get ready for a workplace filled with gossip and shyt like that

thats one thing i noticed, male dominated workplaces have a much more "get shyt done" type of approach, you don't have to really be friends with your coworkers, just be cordial and handle your shyt not with women-dominated workplaces though

you never lied...

I be subtly trolling some of them at my job...

I don't even bother saying hi to them or looking and they all be trying to make eye contact...

They really care about shyt like this

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup I do but I think the key is not to wait around clinging to hope just living life and if it happens it happens if it doesn't well your living life

the timing of this is just impeccable


say breh do you believe that 2 people who are in love with eachother can meet up again, if they have to break up due to a..lets say a "timing situation" ?

 

[Sk3ptical]

 

[The ADD]

yeah like we had plans to build a lot of shyt together, build a family together, but somehow something is preventing us to move foward and take our relationship to the next level (more me than her tbh)



30

I'm guessing your ex is in that same range.

Without knowing the back story how long do you really think she will wait for you to circle back?

Do what you gotta do but after 6 years and then a break-up that's a lot to expect that it might come around later.

 

[RealAssanova]

next time u wanna gauge if a chick really likes u (especially in a setting where u are bound to see them again), here's what you do:

find out something she knows how to do and u dont. and see if she voluntarily offers to teach u.

i.e.

me: i cant swim
her: aww, i can teach u. ( i have fuccked every chick that offered to "teach" me)

i mean, dont just go up to her and blurt this sh1t out. find a way to make whatever conversation you're having lead into that. this method is very innocent and carries lil to no risk of making u suffer an embarrassing rejection which u have to live with everytime u see that person.

when a chick is feeling u, teaching u something she knows well is like a no-brainer for them.

it ain't gonna be awkward fam. I'm straight. She could've rejected me for a million of reasons. Me and her vibe alot in class and over text so i thought i'd see wassup.

she gonna be back.

 

[MikelArteta]

All relationships will get stagnant at one point. Because of the routine, you can only find out so much about someone go to the movies or dinner or travel so much. Thats why so many people hop from relationship to relationships because they seek the passion the highs. Relationships especially Lt ones take dedication, communication and doing / trying new things to spice it up sometimes.

The danger is that if you broke up because of just being stagnat the cycle will repeat, you'll date someone new it will be exciting the novelty new women first time in six years, everything will be amazing then you'll hit the rut of the routine.

All I'm saying is if she is a good girl and you guys made it to six years no infidelity, you click. Stagnation is something that can be worked upon. The danger is thinking we might meet again and that hope, what if she hops in a relationship you can't compete with that new car smell.

Your old and boring any guy she gets with will be new and exciting.

But again who knows, if your happy it could be for the best. The conundrum we all face

So yeah i'm single now...


home girl and i been together for 6 years +. We decided to broke it up cause our relationship was getting stagnant.
I feel a little bit on the inside cause i had mad feelings for her, but i know deep down inside that Now isnt the right time for me to be in a relationship and i got a feeling we'll meet again


Am i delusional brehs ?

I just wanted to vent somehow cause i'm stuck at work.

 

[McPiff]

Yup I do but I think the key is not to wait around clinging to hope just living life and if it happens it happens if it doesn't well your living life

yeah i dont plan on waiting around cause i gotta get myself together and improve but i know, she's the one i really wanna build with

I'm guessing your ex is in that same range.

Without knowing the back story how long do you really think she will wait for you to circle back?

Do what you gotta do but after 6 years and then a break-up that's a lot to expect that it might come around later.

yeah she's 28..

honestly, I dont know, but hey... i gotta take a chance and see.. and if it doesnt work then... but i'm gonna fight for us.

All relationships will get stagnant at one point. Because of the routine, you can only find out so much about someone go to the movies or dinner or travel so much. Thats why so many people hop from relationship to relationships because they seek the passion the highs. Relationships especially Lt ones take dedication, communication and doing / trying new things to spice it up sometimes.

The danger is that if you broke up because of just being stagnat the cycle will repeat, you'll date someone new it will be exciting the novelty new women first time in six years, everything will be amazing then you'll hit the rut of the routine.

All I'm saying is if she is a good girl and you guys made it to six years no infidelity, you click. Stagnation is something that can be worked upon. The danger is thinking we might meet again and that hope, what if she hops in a relationship you can't compete with that new car smell.

Your old and boring any guy she gets with will be new and exciting.

But again who knows, if your happy it could be for the best. The conundrum we all face

I'm partly responsible for letting our relationship getting to stale. Was too busy trying to create a good situation for us, but i wasnt smart enough i kept delaying a lot of shyt that could've been done differently and shyt but i'm not prepared yet i gotta work on myself and be a better man.

She was hella patient with me

 

[The ADD]

yeah i dont plan on waiting around cause i gotta get myself together and improve but i know, she's the one i really wanna build with



yeah she's 28..

honestly, I dont know, but hey... i gotta take a chance and see.. and if it doesnt work then... but i'm gonna fight to us.



I'm partly responsible for letting our relationship getting to stale. Was too busy trying to create a good situation for us, but i wasnt smart enough i kept delaying a lot of shyt that could've been done differently and shyt but i'm not prepared yet i gotta work on myself and be a better man.

She was hella patient with me

Good luck fam. At least you know what you are facing.

 

[McPiff]

Good luck fam. At least you know what you are facing.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Idk bout the porn thing. I cant say whether it helps or hurts...

JUST met this Blasian Meeting up a Dave & Busters for a drink after I get off work.

Now this chick is def a 8+ A little clingy I'm noticing tho

i wanna hear good news about this. so within 48 hours , u need to be reporting back here about how u handled business with her. dont disappoint me now. ok, let's make that 72 hours.

Hit that shyt! Blasian...She's baaaaad.

Just dropped her off. At the job now. Shes fine as fuuuck

 

[TRUEST]

it ain't gonna be awkward fam. I'm straight. She could've rejected me for a million of reasons. Me and her vibe alot in class and over text so i thought i'd see wassup.

she gonna be back.

dont vibe so much u friendzone urself!