Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

You are responsible for you. No one else (unless you have kids/spouse etc.). You are where you are in life due to the sum total of choices you have made since you were a child. You chose this. Can’t change the past but if you want your future to be altered? Make different, more knowledgeable and superior choices – learn from your mistakes. Through my own mistakes I have learned a valuable lesson and that is there is one person I can depend on... myself. So, I started making decisions and selections that best served me and no one else and now I am in a much better place because of it.

Regardless of your age, fearing being alone is no justification to canoodle or cavort with someone who does not respect/value you. Conquer your fear and vanquish it and learn to uphold your own happiness in your own casing, blooming in your autonomy and setting better principles for yourself then and only then you won’t endure receiving pitiable treatment and will never be reliant on anyone to fulfill you. Don't squander precious time on an individual who violates your bottom line over and over and over and over.

 

[Spliff]

Been there fam, very similar situation. Went as far as trying to start the process outside of work but one phone call snapped me back to reality.

That easy kill is hella tempting but nothing good will come from it.

What happened breh breh

Never shyt where you eat.

You can

Lose your job
Fiance psyxgo beats you up or worse

Its not worth it

just dont do it. all i can say

There's zero to gain there. You really want to put your job and or life at risk for some sneaky woman? There's way too many women outside of work to jump into something like that.

Zero chance I'd lose my gig over it and I'd wash her man. Regardless, I hear y'all. Just needed strength in a moment of weakness

The ass so fat and soft tho

I felt it

 

[The ADD]

What happened breh breh






Zero chance I'd lose my gig over it and I'd wash her man. Regardless, I hear y'all. Just needed strength in a moment of weakness

The ass so fat and soft tho

I felt it

Kids crying in the background, excessive talk about the baby daddy among other things

I swear this sounds like the carbon copy. Once I fell back i realized she was game for anyone. I won't lie, if we had ever gotten alone no way I would have not

Might be on child support right now

 

[MikelArteta]

zero?

I've seen it at my work, chick was married had an affair business spread through the office both lost their gig.

Not to mention let's say you smash and then ignore her or whatever she goes to hr how she's been sexuallu harassed see ya

Its always a slippery slope not worth it

What happened breh breh






Zero chance I'd lose my gig over it and I'd wash her man. Regardless, I hear y'all. Just needed strength in a moment of weakness

The ass so fat and soft tho

I felt it

 

[kevm3]

or she could end up 'feeling guilty' and tell her fiance and he comes up there wanting to see you. there are way too many women out there to involve yourself in something like that

 

[Spliff]

I'm getting a good laugh how a bad broad can fukk up common sense.

Saying my situation out loud has me

but in the situation I'm

Kids crying in the background, excessive talk about the baby daddy among other things

I swear this sounds like the carbon copy. Once I fell back i realized she was game for anyone. I won't lie, if we had ever gotten alone no way I would have not

Might be on child support right now

Ya its understood if we ever get alone its a reynolds. I ain't that strong willed. I don't push for it though.

She doesn't hesitate to throw her mans under the bus either

zero?

I've seen it at my work, chick was married had an affair business spread through the office both lost their gig.

Not to mention let's say you smash and then ignore her or whatever she goes to hr how she's been sexuallu harassed see ya

Its always a slippery slope not worth it

Maybe not zero but highly unlikely. This a small private clinic. Trust me it would cost boss money to let me go over her. Plus he loves me, his words. I know shyt can always go left, I'm just sayin.

Either way I hear ya.

 

[Spliff]

or she could end up 'feeling guilty' and tell her fiance and he comes up there wanting to see you. there are way too many women out there to involve yourself in something like that

And then there's that

 

[TRUEST]

or she could end up 'feeling guilty' and tell her fiance and he comes up there wanting to see you. there are way too many women out there to involve yourself in something like that

this is the likeliest scenario. but i'm not gonna be of the mind to tell folks not to "sh1t where they eat". u only live once. my thing is, if u decide to do something like this, make sure the following requirements are met:

1. she's the one chasing u heavy
2. you have prove she's the one chasing u
3. say little, make innuendos but let her fill in the gaps
4. back to number 2, make sure u have proof.. not to be immature and show ur boys or other coworkers, but to ensure u dont lose ur job over it
5. make sure u dont work directly together. that way, u can avoid the awkward situations.

there are many other women out there, but there are very few people u can have a chemistry with. if u happen to have a chemistry with a chick at work, and she doesn't give off any crazy person signals, i say u handle business. but again, to be safe, make sure all 5 requirements listed above are met.

people have met their future-spouses at work. remember that.

 

[MikelArteta]

Like I always tell y'all i see it every day in court, so all that status get your money up means nothing in the end

33% of men divorcing in 2009 had incomes of 75,000 or more, while 30% of women divorce had income between 25k to 49,999

 

[MikelArteta]

this is the likeliest scenario. but i'm not gonna be of the mind to tell folks not to "sh1t where they eat". u only live once. my thing is, if u decide to do something like this, make sure the following requirements are met:

1. she's the one chasing u heavy
2. you have prove she's the one chasing u
3. say little, make innuendos but let her fill in the gaps
4. back to number 2, make sure u have proof.. not to be immature and show ur boys or other coworkers, but to ensure u dont lose ur job over it
5. make sure u dont work directly together. that way, u can avoid the awkward situations.

there are many other women out there, but there are very few people u can have a chemistry with. if u happen to have a chemistry with a chick at work, and she doesn't give off any crazy person signals, i say u handle business. but again, to be safe, make sure all 5 requirements listed above are met.

people have met their future-spouses at work. remember that.

in a scenario where she is married or has a bf/fiance is different than when she is single.

Even then the reward is rarely worth teh risk

1. chatter around the workplace
2. you break up she still wants you, stalks or goes to hr
3. what if she becomes your superior or you become her, again if word spreads conflict
4. if she dumps you and your heartbroken or whatever still have to see her every damn day.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

I think the issue with many people is that they don't really go out anywhere especially if they don't live in the city. So their options are limited and they start going after the girls at work because that's the only women they are coming in contact with. I can't say nothing good EVER comes from it but it's pretty rare. I've heard more horror stories than good ones. I've been there and done that and while my situation wasn't all too bad it can get really ugly for some people. It's probably best not to do it in most cases.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Thinking about it some more.. there are a couple very attractive females at my work and I can see why someone would go for them. They are easy on the eyes, pleasant attitude and approachable but shyt. I'm not even sure there is a right or wrong way to go about it. Like I said, it's something that I dealt with when I was 20 but that was a job I didn't even really care about.

Is there a right way to approach a female at work?

 

[kevm3]

this is the likeliest scenario. but i'm not gonna be of the mind to tell folks not to "sh1t where they eat". u only live once. my thing is, if u decide to do something like this, make sure the following requirements are met:

1. she's the one chasing u heavy
2. you have prove she's the one chasing u
3. say little, make innuendos but let her fill in the gaps
4. back to number 2, make sure u have proof.. not to be immature and show ur boys or other coworkers, but to ensure u dont lose ur job over it
5. make sure u dont work directly together. that way, u can avoid the awkward situations.

there are many other women out there, but there are very few people u can have a chemistry with. if u happen to have a chemistry with a chick at work, and she doesn't give off any crazy person signals, i say u handle business. but again, to be safe, make sure all 5 requirements listed above are met.

people have met their future-spouses at work. remember that.

A couple of my homeboys both met the women they are with now at work, but they weren't working at a job that they ended up being at long term.

Now if this woman was single and solely interested in him and appeared to be stable and they were taking it slow doing the relationship thing, sure you could potentially give it a shot... but if you're up at work just 'smashing hoes', especially one that have men, you're putting yourself in a very dangerous situation

Women are beings of emotion, so as soon as you start dealing with one, she's going to think you belong to her. Stop talking to her because 'she's getting crazy' or because you saw a finer woman, and craziness will ensue. This is really a feminist society, so they have so many cards they can hold over a man's head. She can do the HR thing or go to the boss and say he was being inappropriate. She can tell her fiance 'some guy at work won't leave her alone', or she can feel guilty and say 'some things happened with a guy at work. At the most, the only thing he would get in this situation is some sex, while on the other hand he could put his livelihood and even freedom on risk, and potentially even his life. I know he feels he can whip the dude if he ever shows up, but if he shows up with a gun or knife, that's a different story.

 

[kevm3]

Like I always tell y'all i see it every day in court, so all that status get your money up means nothing in the end

33% of men divorcing in 2009 had incomes of 75,000 or more, while 30% of women divorce had income between 25k to 49,999

If Hulk Hogan or Floyd Mayweather or Mike Tyson can have women problems, I know I can. They have had way more money than any of us here and are more athletic, so realistically, what can we offer that would force some broad to be loyal? Loyalty is a choice the woman decides to make and adhere to out of her own moral nature. Men mistakenly think they can 'game' or 'earn' their way to loyalty through status, muscles, etc.

We all like to think we're some super specimens of games and attractiveness, but the reality is that it comes down to that woman's morality. Look at that Tia Mowry situation. Her dude didn't have much when she met her. Now I don't know their exact situation, but it seems like they've been rolling real cool for over a decade. It all comes down to how much she vibes with you as a man and how faithful she is to her morals. That's why I don't waste time with the PUA nonsense. You can't ever really have a woman attracted to YOU if you're never being you.

 

[MikelArteta]

If Hulk Hogan or Floyd Mayweather or Mike Tyson can have women problems, I know I can. They have had way more money than any of us here and are more athletic, so realistically, what can we offer that would force some broad to be loyal? Loyalty is a choice the woman decides to make and adhere to out of her own moral nature. Men mistakenly think they can 'game' or 'earn' their way to loyalty through status, muscles, etc.

We all like to think we're some super specimens of games and attractiveness, but the reality is that it comes down to that woman's morality. Look at that Tia Mowry situation. Her dude didn't have much when she met her. Now I don't know their exact situation, but it seems like they've been rolling real cool for over a decade. It all comes down to how much she vibes with you as a man and how faithful she is to her morals. That's why I don't waste time with the PUA nonsense. You can't ever really have a woman attracted to YOU if you're never being you.

yup, all money and status attracts for the most part is women who want money and status. yeah you will get more quantity of women but it does not mean quality at all

It's why many athletes marry their hs/college sweetheart, entertainers marry the woman who held it down for them before they had $$ because they demonstrated loyalty.

I see it on this site alot dudes like "man just get your money up, hit the gym, cop that nice car". All of this should be done for you and you alone, not to attract a chick. Status and MOney cannot buy love, loyalty, fidelity.

And the tia mowry situation is perfect, she was a millionaire, dude had nothing not even a car. But she liked him enough. Isn't it amazing when a woman truly likes you for you how gasp that cake is good enough, and all the other frivolous superficial things are just the icing on the cake and some don't care for icing.