Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Just cut off a broad from okc
Been out twice n asks me if we're gona be "just friends" :stopitslime:. shyt was mad awkward to be asked that. Told her to chill. Few days later asks me again. :camby:
Tryna get me in a relationship after going out twice :dahell:
 
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Gl4ss said:
Dating a chick now who is jealous of my closeness with my family..specifically my mom. She said it makes it feel like she would never be a priority in my life, but I'm like we've only been dating 5 months. We had a heated debate last night about me saying I'd definitely move my moms in with me if something happened.

She was also heated that I ditched her this weekend and spent Saturday and Sunday with fam..it's fukking father's day for crying out loud. We have like 3 trips planned in July so she can't complain about time together. ima play it cool, but I might have to dead this which sucks because she's a great girl otherwise.
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:camby:

Sorry breh. Huge red flags all over the place with this one. Unless you really sit her down and explain how this is bothering you... and she understands and try's to work on it, nah, she's not the one.
 
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TRUEST said:
my dude, you might want to reconsider your stance on exes. if they're coming back wanting to make amends, it is then you can test out on them the new gaming skills you've learned since they've been gone to see if it works. the only caveat is, u shouldn't do this with chicks u still have feelings for. if a chick does u wrong, and then comes back (and the feelings u had are gone), at least now, this time around, u know never to devote ur emotions to her...regardless of how much she begs. u can deal with her differently. with a nonchalant, unmovable demeanor.

but hey, do whatever works for ya. i just know this whole idea of shutting people out causes u to remain bitter. there have been women that have done me wrong too and i honestly cannot remember their names of the top of my head unless i really think about it. i dont talk about them because they are just a distant memory. when u can recite with a strong freshness of memory everything an ex did to u, it tells me ur not over it.

u basically have to release the hurt and just stop talking about it.
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It really is the healthiest thing to do. Though, it's easier said than done.
 
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No bitterness breh, just like a old job once I'm gone I'm gone.

I don't have feelings for any of my exes, warm or fuzzy or hate etc.


TRUEST said:
my dude, you might want to reconsider your stance on exes. if they're coming back wanting to make amends, it is then you can test out on them the new gaming skills you've learned since they've been gone to see if it works. the only caveat is, u shouldn't do this with chicks u still have feelings for. if a chick does u wrong, and then comes back (and the feelings u had are gone), at least now, this time around, u know never to devote ur emotions to her...regardless of how much she begs. u can deal with her differently. with a nonchalant, unmovable demeanor.

but hey, do whatever works for ya. i just know this whole idea of shutting people out causes u to remain bitter. there have been women that have done me wrong too and i honestly cannot remember their names of the top of my head unless i really think about it. i dont talk about them because they are just a distant memory. when u can recite with a strong freshness of memory everything an ex did to u, it tells me ur not over it.

u basically have to release the hurt and just stop talking about it.
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My ex from college be spitting knowledge to me though.....we cool and she gives me advice on my current situations. The rest...:pacspit:
 
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Emperor_ReinScarf said:
brehs when was your "awakening" moment when you realized everything you were taught was a big ol lie?
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just a combination of how my parents treated me and seeing a 9/11 truther video as a youngin :wow:

everything started coming together when I got to uni and learned about how really women are:jawalrus:
 
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are women freakier when they get older ? or does it just varies?

never really met a freaky young chick who let me do what I want AND with high energy:takedat:
 
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Emperor_ReinScarf said:
brehs when was your "awakening" moment when you realized everything you were taught was a big ol lie?
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21 yrs old but it was weird cause unlike most guys i didnt go threw the "Dark Ages" which is usually when most guys just go off and fukk a bunch women cause one or two women did them dirty. I didnt just go off and fukk a bunch chics which at 31 i still dont know if its a good thing or bad thing.I also believe this why my body count was so low. I spent a lot of days in my head and trying to figure what is wrong with me...little did i know i would later discovery the red pill when it comes to these woman . What hurt the most is realizing these woman dont guve a shyt about your scars. All the things men do to be diserable and women dont have to be a third of that .
 
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Emperor_ReinScarf said:
brehs when was your "awakening" moment when you realized everything you were taught was a big ol lie?
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After I dealt with a bytch that almost ruined my life after I basically took her out of a fukked up situation...

Not to mention i was labeled an a$$hole after all of it..

shyt lowkey bothers me still..:mjcry:

We can never be any sort of acquaintances or anything.:camby:
 
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backinmyday said:
are women freakier when they get older ? or does it just varies?

never really met a freaky young chick who let me do what I want AND with high energy:takedat:
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It depends...

This one chick was so sexually conservative i lost my erection...

She was so sensitive after i ate her out, her legs kept shuttering close..

being that i did 12 hours in a snowstorm and was on 2 hours of sleep, i just didnt have the energy or mindset
 
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360dagod said:
After I dealt with a bytch that almost ruined my life after I basically took her out of a fukked up situation...

Not to mention i was labeled an a$$hole after all of it..

shyt lowkey bothers me still..:mjcry:

We can never be any sort of acquaintances or anything.:camby:
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my experience is the same was 25, never been done so dirty in my life, was finding out like santa doesnt exist
 
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