Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Happens all the time. Women have more options than we do. No big deal really. Unless you make it one.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Going in for the Kill tomorrow brehs 
Rich Spirit
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Going in for the Kill tomorrow brehs
Yeah man, life has a funny way of working out sometimes. Things become easier when you just open yourself up to accepting new possibilities. I had a great uncle who passed away years ago and only had ONE serious relationship from what the fam told me. No kids. She ended up leaving and dude was single after for like 45yrs before he passed. I refuse to leave earth knowing that I only had that connection with one person after living soooo many years and meeting so many people throughout my life. People always wonder why I'm so calm and understanding. It's all because I've learn not to stress the unexpected, I go by the motto "Don't stress problems. Stress solutions" The good and bad is part of life. No one can escape it.
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ya'll ever go through moments where you have an abundance of options and everything just seems to be going so well...then the next minute, literally every single one of your options goes quiet and you are forced to cut them from the team?
When the ego start creeping up
ya'll ever go through moments where you have an abundance of options and everything just seems to be going so well...then the next minute, literally every single one of your options goes quiet and you are forced to cut them from the team?
this happened to me still early in the game thinking too much options can be good and boy was i wrong eventually
i remember this one time i had a team deep as the spurs and warriors shyt was great they knew whats up we aint exclusive you do u and i do me just enjoy each other company (smashing of course happened) i told them all if and when I'm ready to be exclusive u will know but if u show ur female tendencies of being jealous and mad cuz u see me with another female i will drop u real quick dont have time for the drama or b.s.
so shyt went well for like 2 months and they all seen me with diff peeps i was enjoying it
then one day i was at the club chillin with my boy and saw this fine ass curly hair grey eye asian female at the club i was like i gotta holler so i did and was successful we enjoyed our time most of the night mid way thru the night
the unlikely impossible happen shyt was straight out of def jams how to be a player shyt
my starting 5 and half my bench showed up in the same damn spot i was like
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at the same time and my boy was the first to notice since i was enjoying oh girls company so he was like what u gonna do bout this. i knew even tho they knew whats up but al lin the same spot be too much even for them cuz some seen each other before
and i seen 2 of em already conversating off the bat so i was like yup no more deep teams keep at best a 3 woman team tops so i decided that night to clean house of my dynasty team my championship team and just have a big 3 instead with my boy running interference for me to smooth the transition out
what i ended up doing was releasing every female that showed up that night cuz not that they showed up but going by how much i enjoyed the person with the time i spent these were the ones always going out and 2 of the ones i enjoyed the most were at home cuz i had texted them earlier and did again after this shyt happened and told them good night (granted they could be somewhere else or getting their back blown out i wasn't stupid but went on good faith)
anyways it actually wasn't even bad they were a little hurt but were like they enjoyed the fun and time we had but liked the fact i was straight up with them majority offered the fwb or hit them up later if i change my mind later down the line talk but it was smooth sailing and new girl plus the 2 at home became my big 3 for like a couple months and i kept it that way since then whenever i was single and not exclusive shyt was too stressful for that scenario to happen again and it go terribly wrong
i mean i never had issues or arguments the whole time i had a team like that but the fact they showed up in one spot (which was cuz a special event was happening and my dumbass forgot that event would bring people cuz it was a friend of mines that they all knew and assumed i would be their
)anyways it showed me that next time wont be smooth sailing slow ur roll keep it simple keep a small team and manage that
That's why I recommend building a life around something other than women. You can be super deep, but all of those women disappear in a puff of smoke and you're back at square 1 and all of that 'power' you had disappears as well. If one woman is unpredictable, so are multiples.
Really, with women, there's not much you can ultimately control. All you can do is hope one sticks around, and if they decide to call it quits, they leave in a fashion that doesn't ruin your life.
Really, with women, there's not much you can ultimately control. All you can do is hope one sticks around, and if they decide to call it quits, they leave in a fashion that doesn't ruin your life.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
True,
Women start using dudes in friendzone for favors, she will always call you when she needs your help. Dudes in the friendzone usually jump to her rescue when she calls up for that favor, hoping she sees the good in him and changes her mind.
Bless't
Living the dream
Amen. Leave with what you came with and lets call it a draw.
I've seen dudes utterly destroyed by women. Like, a shell of the person they used to be. Walking, talking, eating... but no life. Just a vessel of despair.
Was me at one point, my ex did a number on me. Almost drove me to the brink of insanity.
Bless't
Living the dream
Thats me in a nutshell... Either i got 4 or 5 or NONE... i dont mind it thoya'll ever go through moments where you have an abundance of options and everything just seems to be going so well...then the next minute, literally every single one of your options goes quiet and you are forced to cut them from the team?
Thats me in a nutshell... Either i got 4 or 5 or NONE... i dont mind it tho
shyt is really like the stock market
The problem these days is overall that society is more interested in experiencing people rather than experiencing life with a person.
The average person looks at another person as a brief, 'fun' encounter, throws them to the side and looks for someone else to repeat the cycle with. With men and women having this mentality, it comes as no surprise people don't have the attention spans or discipline to stick together over the long-haul... and once you hit the age where your looks start declining, people realize that all they have left are memories as opposed to having someone to keep making new memories with.
The average person looks at another person as a brief, 'fun' encounter, throws them to the side and looks for someone else to repeat the cycle with. With men and women having this mentality, it comes as no surprise people don't have the attention spans or discipline to stick together over the long-haul... and once you hit the age where your looks start declining, people realize that all they have left are memories as opposed to having someone to keep making new memories with.