ya'll ever go through moments where you have an abundance of options and everything just seems to be going so well...then the next minute, literally every single one of your options goes quiet and you are forced to cut them from the team?
this happened to me still early in the game thinking too much options can be good and boy was i wrong eventually
i remember this one time i had a team deep as the spurs and warriors shyt was great they knew whats up we aint exclusive you do u and i do me just enjoy each other company (smashing of course happened) i told them all if and when I'm ready to be exclusive u will know but if u show ur female tendencies of being jealous and mad cuz u see me with another female i will drop u real quick dont have time for the drama or b.s.
so shyt went well for like 2 months and they all seen me with diff peeps i was enjoying it
then one day i was at the club chillin with my boy and saw this fine ass curly hair grey eye asian female at the club i was like i gotta holler so i did and was successful we enjoyed our time most of the night mid way thru the night
the unlikely impossible happen shyt was straight out of def jams how to be a player shyt
my starting 5 and half my bench showed up in the same damn spot i was like
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at the same time and my boy was the first to notice since i was enjoying oh girls company
so he was like what u gonna do bout this. i knew even tho they knew whats up but al lin the same spot be too much even for them cuz some seen each other before
and i seen 2 of em already conversating off the bat so i was like yup no more deep teams keep at best a 3 woman team tops so i decided that night to clean house of my dynasty team my championship team and just have a big 3 instead with my boy running interference for me to smooth the transition out
what i ended up doing was releasing every female that showed up that night cuz not that they showed up but going by how much i enjoyed the person with the time i spent these were the ones always going out and 2 of the ones i enjoyed the most were at home cuz i had texted them earlier and did again after this shyt happened and told them good night (granted they could be somewhere else or getting their back blown out i wasn't stupid but went on good faith)
anyways it actually wasn't even bad they were a little hurt but were like they enjoyed the fun and time we had but liked the fact i was straight up with them majority offered the fwb or hit them up later if i change my mind later down the line talk but it was smooth sailing and new girl plus the 2 at home became my big 3 for like a couple months and i kept it that way since then whenever i was single and not exclusive shyt was too stressful for that scenario to happen again and it go terribly wrong
i mean i never had issues or arguments the whole time i had a team like that but the fact they showed up in one spot (which was cuz a special event was happening and my dumbass forgot that event would bring people cuz it was a friend of mines that they all knew and assumed i would be their
)
anyways it showed me that next time wont be smooth sailing slow ur roll keep it simple keep a small team and manage that
