Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The problem these days is overall that society is more interested in experiencing people rather than experiencing life with a person.

The average person looks at another person as a brief, 'fun' encounter, throws them to the side and looks for someone else to repeat the cycle with. With men and women having this mentality, it comes as no surprise people don't have the attention spans or discipline to stick together over the long-haul... and once you hit the age where your looks start declining, people realize that all they have left are memories as opposed to having someone to keep making new memories with.
 

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Yall guys ever notice that extreme hoes literally give off "vibes" that they are hoes. I don't know how to explain it. I don't just mean their actions. I'm talking about when you first meet them. Its like they got this tunnel vision like a regular elite athlete getting ready to focus on their sport....

Draya is the perfect example. before you know anything about them you just take a look at them and watch how they interact and how they express themselves and see it right away

:patrice:

that is why it scares me when guys get tricked into relationships with girls like that and think they found a good girl to show mom
 

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THe best advice I can give is dedicate yourself 100% to self improvement everyday. Gain knowledge,eat right, make more $, workout, sprint, drop the bodyfat, cut the debt down and everything will take care of itself.

Exactly, every day has to be a dedication to changing, improving, getting smarter, fixing weaknesses (that YOU personally think are weaknesses not what you think others perceive are weaknesses), trying to be a good man, and everything will come together.

I may break into an old habit and rack my brain over something stupid (could be women or something else just as trivial) every now and then for a few hours or a day, but then I snap out of that silliness and get focused on my goals. Also as far as women, that regular woman (cause honestly most people are normal, regular, imperfect) you sweating now you gon forget about as you get your shyt together and just meet more people. Or you'll run into her or someone like her once again in the future and your confidence gonna be on 1000% and you will be the one pursued (it's happened to me several times or you decide :what: was I thinking before and leave that alone)
 

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these bytches realllllly aint shyt man...no matter how different one of the other might treat you...they are wired the same...men are better off not getting in relationships honestly

felt this way for years
but i met this chick a couple weeks ago got me feeling some type of way. it's like she stalked my internet history/post history and says all the right shyt all the time
she's 25, in grad school, got her own place, goes to church, doesnt go out, instagram is all pics of her fam and food pics with <100 followers and her ig is private
and shes not fat. and can cook.
:whoa::whoa::whoa::whoa:
been runnin through these okc birds for a while now i figured i was just going to have commitment free orgasms for the foreseeable future, wasnt expecting this :merchant:
 

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There's always 1.

The tootsie roll amongst the pop


felt this way for years
but i met this chick a couple weeks ago got me feeling some type of way. it's like she stalked my internet history/post history and says all the right shyt all the time
she's 25, in grad school, got her own place, goes to church, doesnt go out, instagram is all pics of her fam and food pics with <100 followers and her ig is private
and shes not fat. and can cook.
:whoa::whoa::whoa::whoa:
been runnin through these okc birds for a while now i figured i was just going to have commitment free orgasms for the foreseeable future, wasnt expecting this :merchant:
 
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My gf just told me that I don't make her feel important. :what:

Before I knew it I watch my words come out my mouth like Subzero's ice blast.

" I never gave fukk about feeling important just loved . "
If you want to feel important try for a pay raise at work ."
:whoo:
I watch a single tear drop from her eyes before the rain and walk out into the kitchen to drink some water.

I never thought in my life I would become this cold brehs. I don't regret saying any of that shyt.

I am becoming part of the darkside and I welcome it :lawd:
 

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My current girl is acting up, finding anything and every lil thing to argue about. She now denys me sex . Its gone down to once every 2 weeks from whenever I wanted to.

Its beginning of the end for this relationship, it was a fun 2 years. I wont lie i done a lot of tricking to get her but I since stopped last year. I think she getting bored and expects me to spoil her like before.

However I been hunting nd got a potential but she disappears and pops back up every now & then. I think she got a man. She wants to come out to my place whenever Im ready. We havent done anything yet, but Im assuming when she comes through my spot something could happen.

I need advice brehs.
 

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ya'll ever go through moments where you have an abundance of options and everything just seems to be going so well...then the next minute, literally every single one of your options goes quiet and you are forced to cut them from the team? :damn::mindblown:

Going through this right now. The only consistent one is the crazy hoe from work. I can't get rid of her mayne!
 

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My current girl is acting up, finding anything and every lil thing to argue about. She now denys me sex . Its gone down to once every 2 weeks from whenever I wanted to.

Its beginning of the end for this relationship, it was a fun 2 years. I wont lie i done a lot of tricking to get her but I since stopped last year. I think she getting bored and expects me to spoil her like before.

However I been hunting nd got a potential but she disappears and pops back up every now & then. I think she got a man. She wants to come out to my place whenever Im ready. We havent done anything yet, but Im assuming when she comes through my spot something could happen.

I need advice brehs.
Yea the relationship is about done. I learned that whenever your chick starts arguing with you about anything, it usually means that the relationship has run its last course, so be prepared to make a exit strategy
 
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