Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Every time I read thread i feel down.

We got one life to live part of it we spend growing up. The next we spend trying to find somebody to have kids with, while finding financial resources to protect the kids and women.

And all it take is for the lady to get mad and leave you for all that to be over with. (Kids gone)/(wife/gf gone)/(house gone)

After all that you in ya late 40s , can barley see ya kids every other weekend. Or your wife stay with you and just cheats behind ya back.

What the point?

Would you not rather ,try and chases your dreams, become what you feel make you wanted by masses. Live the life of somebody who the world feel is important....

Then once your 40 and tired of the party , the big shows, the different women you find somebody young late 20s-mid30s to get with have kids. While still having the money/power/fame to live it up whenever you want..


Just

Not like life one way or another but why not try you only got a few years on earth why live it in pain?


Just few word for my Dreamers if you out there. This is not for everybody tho:ufdup:


This is the path I'm taking. Almost verbatim. I'm going to be selfish as fukk, make money, do whatever it is I want to do for a while...

Then, when I have everything in line, stacked and readied... I'll be more focused on finding wifey and having a family. I know it's going to happen. I'm certain. I just am in no rush to see it come to fruition before I'm prepared.

I'm in my prime brehs!

:blessed:

Edit* But I'll be honest, if she comes along tomorrow... and is truly special, I'd try to be the best man I can be for her.
:manny:
 

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baby, that was the old me
this happened to me still early in the game thinking too much options can be good and boy was i wrong eventually

i remember this one time i had a team deep as the spurs and warriors shyt was great they knew whats up we aint exclusive you do u and i do me just enjoy each other company (smashing of course happened) i told them all if and when I'm ready to be exclusive u will know but if u show ur female tendencies of being jealous and mad cuz u see me with another female i will drop u real quick dont have time for the drama or b.s.

so shyt went well for like 2 months and they all seen me with diff peeps i was enjoying it

then one day i was at the club chillin with my boy and saw this fine ass curly hair grey eye asian female at the club i was like i gotta holler so i did and was successful we enjoyed our time most of the night mid way thru the night
the unlikely impossible happen shyt was straight out of def jams how to be a player shyt

my starting 5 and half my bench showed up in the same damn spot i was like :mindblown: and :damn: and :snoop: and :smh: at the same time and my boy was the first to notice since i was enjoying oh girls company

so he was like what u gonna do bout this. i knew even tho they knew whats up but al lin the same spot be too much even for them cuz some seen each other before

and i seen 2 of em already conversating off the bat so i was like yup no more deep teams keep at best a 3 woman team tops so i decided that night to clean house of my dynasty team my championship team and just have a big 3 instead with my boy running interference for me to smooth the transition out

what i ended up doing was releasing every female that showed up that night cuz not that they showed up but going by how much i enjoyed the person with the time i spent these were the ones always going out and 2 of the ones i enjoyed the most were at home cuz i had texted them earlier and did again after this shyt happened and told them good night (granted they could be somewhere else or getting their back blown out i wasn't stupid but went on good faith)

anyways it actually wasn't even bad they were a little hurt but were like they enjoyed the fun and time we had but liked the fact i was straight up with them majority offered the fwb or hit them up later if i change my mind later down the line talk but it was smooth sailing and new girl plus the 2 at home became my big 3 for like a couple months and i kept it that way since then whenever i was single and not exclusive shyt was too stressful for that scenario to happen again and it go terribly wrong

i mean i never had issues or arguments the whole time i had a team like that but the fact they showed up in one spot (which was cuz a special event was happening and my dumbass forgot that event would bring people cuz it was a friend of mines that they all knew and assumed i would be their :snoop:)

anyways it showed me that next time wont be smooth sailing slow ur roll keep it simple keep a small team and manage that :whew:

Where u meeting these girls?

Seem weird all 7 showed at the same spot
 
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THIS IS PURE GENIUSE ....I DIDN'T WRITE THIS . IT'S LONG BUT WORTH THE READ !!

Women are all playing a game. Like a casino in Vegas, they're given chips in the form of sex and companionship to put into games and machines (men) to try to win a good relationship. A good looking girl gets chips that go from 20 to 1, and she has to start out using the 20 only ever going downward to 19, 18, 17, and so on, hoping for a big score.

But, this casino is a special, one time casino. It opens at noon, and closes at 2 a.m, forever. So, they have to collect their winnings by then or leave with nothing and be forced to fend for themselves, broke in the outside world.

Furthermore, once she hits 10 p.m. management starts taking away 2 chips every following hour, but she's not worried about that. That's not for another 10 hours.

So, she learns the rules and is so excited to get into the casino, hoping for a jackpot. She's so sure she's worthy of hitting a jackpot. It will happen for her. She's been told her entire life.

She enters the casino and sees thousands of machines ushering her over all vying for her attention. She is delighted. She's never felt so loved or validated. She immediately walks past the begging 1-5 chip machines, morbidly obese men, fat thugs, funny looking gas station attendants, 35 year old pizza delivery men, and she laughs as she passes them. The idea of her putting a 20 chip in a 1-5 is laughable, she understands this completely.

She then sees the 6-10s men, a lot of them are blue collared, some are college students on the up and up. She's more impressed by them, but she at least wants a college educated man, no she deserves one, she thinks, and she's got more than enough chips to get one.

So, she keeps going. She gets to the 11-15s, college graduates, a lot of confident young men. A lot are just starting their shytty careers, some are more alpha than others. She doesn't care for the nerds, but she finds some alpha med school student at 15 chips. He played college lacrosse too! And he's just starting med school, so he still is only 15 chips for a hot girl like her. What a bargain.

But she decides to continue, she has a few more chips than that, after all. She gets to 16-20. Fairly tall, attractive professionals. A lot of doctors, lawyers and stock brokers. They're mostly in their late 20s or early to mid 30s. They're surrounded by and turning down a bunch of girls offering lower numbers to them, but she has just enough to pull it off if she acts right now! But she sees the back of the casino. There are thousands of women gathered around these machines. "What's going on back there?" She wonders. She decides she can come back to these machines later. It's barely been three hours! So, she's still not at risk for getting any of her chips taken away.

She gets to the back and finds a ton of girls surrounding these machines. There are some movie stars, athletes, authors, millionaires and billionaires at 40 chips, who are communicating with these models and all these other girls who pass by. Then she sees some guys who cost 25-30 chips, and the price is crudely written in pencil on a paper hanging by a string around their neck.

She sees other girls handing them their 20 chip and questions why to herself briefly. She walks up to one of them and asks, "Why if you cost 25-30 are these girls handing you their 20 chip when they can never have you?"

"Price is relative," he answered. "We just priced it at what we wanted. Personally, I'm not really looking for a relationship right now, but if I met the right girl, maybe it could happen."

"Well, what do you do?" She asked.

"I'm lead singer in a band I started." He answered

She didn't question his pricing. He seemed confident he was worth that much, after all. "Do you think maybe we could have a long term relationship?" She asked.

"Anything is possible," he said. "But like I said I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship right now."

She looked past his scruffy face into his dreamy blue eyes and handed him her 20 dollar chip. He looked up at her. "Thank you," he said. "But you lose."

"What!" She yelled, as she could hardly control herself, reaching quickly and grabbing her 19 and handing it to him. "What about now!"

"Wow, thanks again for coming back for more. Unfortunately you lose again."

"Unbelievable!" The girl screamed. "Do you know what you've taken from me?"

"Yeah," he answered. "Your 20 and 19 chip. I don't want you anymore though, so don't bother giving any more chips, but my buddy over there said you're hot. He's a starving artist and he sells drugs on the side. He's worth 22, but secretly I think you can probably get him for 18."

"Is he really worth 22?" The girl asked.

"Well, a lot of people think so," he answered.

She headed over to the guy and immediately handed him her 18 chip.

"Wow, I really appreciate that," he said, "But I'm really doing my own thing right now, and there are others girls who still want to give me their chips, so I really hope you find someone else. You're a nice girl."

"Men are disgusting pigs!" The girl yelled, heading back toward the front of the casino.

She was stopped by the manager and she looked up at the clock. It was 11! She handed him her 17 and 16 chips and bolted toward the front, desperately looking for the med school lacrosse player. She found him. His sign read 17 now, though. Thank God I found you! She said as she tried to hand him her chip. "Thank you," he said. " But I can't do a relationship with you now. I'm doing my residency, and I'm getting a lot more attention from better women."

"a$$hole!" She yelled as she ran even further toward the front stopped again by the manager as she coughed up her 14 and 13 chip. She scrambled to find someone, anyone.

She saw a nerdy IT guy and almost gagged, but she still approached him. He was low confidence, short, nerdy and gross and set himself at only 11. She approached really sadly and resignedly. "Will you take my chip," she said, almost crying. "Gladly!" He said.

She walked out with him and she cried, mourning all of the possibilities of good looking successful men she lost. She should have just gotten the med student or the stock brokers or lawyers, when she could. She ended up with a loser after all the possible chances. She secretly resented him and wondered if she should have taken her friend's route and not settled at all after she was denied by the med student. Maybe she could still cheat on him though.

[Note]I am not original poster of this.
 

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Brehs, I'm on some rom-com shyt right now. I ended up missing a flight back home from Germany, and then when I went to get the next one I was getting some food and an 8/10 came up and asked could she sit down. Anyway this goes on and we end up going out when I'm back in Ireland, and it turns out she lives like 5 minutes away from me :wow:

Going out with her tomorrow :wow:
 

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Brehs, I'm on some rom-com shyt right now. I ended up missing a flight back home from Germany, and then when I went to get the next one I was getting some food and an 8/10 came up and asked could she sit down. Anyway this goes on and we end up going out when I'm back in Ireland, and it turns out she lives like 5 minutes away from me :wow:

Going out with her tomorrow :wow:
you live in Ireland :ohhh:
 

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Where u meeting these girls?

Seem weird all 7 showed at the same spot

this was when i was in japan years ago met majority at club one on the train and one online and one outside randomly walking around

ya its weird but at same time they all know the club i go too due to convos we had and they go their at times
that one night it was one of the owners bday and they were having drink specials and door entry specials so thats probably why plus i knew the owner of the club too
 

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this was when i was in japan years ago met majority at club one on the train and one online and one outside randomly walking around

ya its weird but at same time they all know the club i go too due to convos we had and they go their at times
that one night it was one of the owners bday and they were having drink specials and door entry specials so thats probably why plus i knew the owner of the club too
U sound like u was :eat:. I fell for the hook line and sinker with that Japanese girl I was talking to though. shyt wasn't going to work since I'm not over there and a few months ago we kind of just decided to "break up" so to speak since after I left Japan I kept getting into little petty arguments(over a misunderstanding, jealousy or insecurity or w/e.) She suggested we be friends and then we had a couple of days we didn't speak. Then we spoke again and I told her to just do w/e she wants and I'll do me but we'll still talk and if I come down there again I want to still hang out the same way... Well, I wrote a check that I couldn't cash :mjlol: because a couple of months later, she apparently is talking to someone else.

We still spoke every day but in my head I was thinking if I go back over there soon I'd be in that again since she was hooked but after I questioned her about it one day she said yeah she was and I just was disappointed. To make a long story short she wanted to keep being friends and communicate almost daily(good morning, hey what's up, hey look at this!) type of shyt as usual but I wasn't having it. I then tried to be blunt like "Yo let's be FWB so I can still be the same if I come back" and she said no kiss no sex. I told her I'm not interested and she can go head with that shyt. I then thought about like :what:, I'm not even physically close to her what's the fukking point??

After a few more messages I told her I don't want to talk about this anymore and for her to just forget about me and she replied with the usual "No I will never forget you! NEVER!" and "Thanks for the time and love.." stuff. I haven't texted nor has she said anything to me in a couple of days. :yeshrug: Odd thing is her Mom liked me so her Moms texts me (In japanese) just asking how am I and just talking about stuff from time to time. Now her Mom never knew we were doing something so i don't know if she'll ever tell her mom what's up but idk. . :yeshrug: shyt's just :manny: to me now.
 

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U sound like u was :eat:. I fell for the hook line and sinker with that Japanese girl I was talking to though. shyt wasn't going to work since I'm not over there and a few months ago we kind of just decided to "break up" so to speak since after I left Japan I kept getting into little petty arguments(over a misunderstanding, jealousy or insecurity or w/e.) She suggested we be friends and then we had a couple of days we didn't speak. Then we spoke again and I told her to just do w/e she wants and I'll do me but we'll still talk and if I come down there again I want to still hang out the same way... Well, I wrote a check that I couldn't cash :mjlol: because a couple of months later, she apparently is talking to someone else.

We still spoke every day but in my head I was thinking if I go back over there soon I'd be in that again since she was hooked but after I questioned her about it one day she said yeah she was and I just was disappointed. To make a long story short she wanted to keep being friends and communicate almost daily(good morning, hey what's up, hey look at this!) type of shyt as usual but I wasn't having it. I then tried to be blunt like "Yo let's be FWB so I can still be the same if I come back" and she said no kiss no sex. I told her I'm not interested and she can go head with that shyt. I then thought about like :what:, I'm not even physically close to her what's the fukking point??

After a few more messages I told her I don't want to talk about this anymore and for her to just forget about me and she replied with the usual "No I will never forget you! NEVER!" and "Thanks for the time and love.." stuff. I haven't texted nor has she said anything to me in a couple of days. :yeshrug: Odd thing is her Mom liked me so her Moms texts me (In japanese) just asking how am I and just talking about stuff from time to time. Now her Mom never knew we were doing something so i don't know if she'll ever tell her mom what's up but idk. . :yeshrug: shyt's just :manny: to me now.


ya it was for the best breh.
I'm the type of person with the long distance thing it can work with lots of communication on both ends gotta have trust and hope for the best but sometimes it just doesnt work

i was in one not too long ago but do to personal reasons with my kids nothing to do with the other person at all i had to cut it off and focus on my kids cuz they will always be my #1 priority no matter what. and i couldn't give my best to that other person with this going on and i will not and refuse to half ass a relationship and my feelings if something can jeopardize it if its still in the early phases regardless of how we felt for one another.

if we were together a lot longer i wouldnt have pulled the plug as easy cuz of the long of investment i had in them or if we weren't as far apart then i could rely on them on a more physically matter more often but none of that happened
hated to do it and it hurt but it was for the best and i see it was the right and best move after seeing whats going on my end
sometimes the hardest thing to do is the right thing to do
 

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ya it was for the best breh.
I'm the type of person with the long distance thing it can work with lots of communication on both ends gotta have trust and hope for the best but sometimes it just doesnt work

i was in one not too long ago but do to personal reasons with my kids nothing to do with the other person at all i had to cut it off and focus on my kids cuz they will always be my #1 priority no matter what. and i couldn't give my best to that other person with this going on and i will not and refuse to half ass a relationship and my feelings if something can jeopardize it if its still in the early phases regardless of how we felt for one another.

if we were together a lot longer i wouldnt have pulled the plug as easy cuz of the long of investment i had in them or if we weren't as far apart then i could rely on them on a more physically matter more often but none of that happened
hated to do it and it hurt but it was for the best and i see it was the right and best move after seeing whats going on my end
sometimes the hardest thing to do is the right thing to do
I just logistically thought about it and several things came to mind that just made it seem futile:
I most likely wouldn't have been able to see her enough so that would create situations where one of us would seek the company of another
She said to me "I don't think you can be my future husband" Okay...
She also was planning to study abroad and she seemed interested in going to Aus.
If I did go to Japan she'd probably not be there anymore..

Plus honestly there was much more chicks I'd rather smash/ be around than her. I just liked her since she was the most interested.
 

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I just logistically thought about it and several things came to mind that just made it seem futile:
I most likely wouldn't have been able to see her enough so that would create situations where one of us would seek the company of another
She said to me "I don't think you can be my future husband" Okay...
She also was planning to study abroad and she seemed interested in going to Aus.
If I did go to Japan she'd probably not be there anymore..

Plus honestly there was much more chicks I'd rather smash/ be around than her. I just liked her since she was the most interested.


ya a lot go to canada and australia
one female i knew that i wanted to get with back in the day and had to put in work but finally was able to wanted me to be her bf but if i wasn't she was gonna go head and go to australia and was gonna stay in japan just for me too but at the same time i was into this dime piece of japanese female that felt was too much one of a kind and was too intriguing that i didnt want to pass up and felt all that work to finally get with her and she hits me with this and i dont want to be the reason why u cant go to australia but at same time if she stayed it be :noah: and i know it could lead to more but i was too busy thinking with my manhood down below and the mysteriousness of the other female got the better of me and went the other route which in some sense was worth it and not worth it :russ:
i never heard from the girl again once she went to australia since i didnt choose to be with her tho :mjcry: :snoop:
 

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ya a lot go to canada and australia
one female i knew that i wanted to get with back in the day and had to put in work but finally was able to wanted me to be her bf but if i wasn't she was gonna go head and go to australia and was gonna stay in japan just for me too but at the same time i was into this dime piece of japanese female that felt was too much one of a kind and was too intriguing that i didnt want to pass up and felt all that work to finally get with her and she hits me with this and i dont want to be the reason why u cant go to australia but at same time if she stayed it be :noah: and i know it could lead to more but i was too busy thinking with my manhood down below and the mysteriousness of the other female got the better of me and went the other route which in some sense was worth it and not worth it :russ:
i never heard from the girl again once she went to australia since i didnt choose to be with her tho :mjcry: :snoop:
Breh u good lol. U had a starting team, I was still messing with a free agent. At least you was :eat:. I'm planning on living in Japan in the next few years once I attain much more fluency so I'll be :eat:. I just turned 26 so I'm thinking by 27 i'm tryna move over there. .:win:
 

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Breh u good lol. U had a starting team, I was still messing with a free agent. At least you was :eat:. I'm planning on living in Japan in the next few years once I attain much more fluency so I'll be :eat:. I just turned 26 so I'm thinking by 27 i'm tryna move over there. .:win:

ya me and my boy had a game plan to live there once i was done doing my time in the army for my first term but shyt fell thru i got married and had kids at that time which was great and bad :russ: and he feel in love too and eventually got married and had kids too :mjlol:

we had it perfectly lined up cuz of our connections out their so we would of :eat: good financially and female wise but things happen for a reason so its all good :blessed:
 
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