Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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"typical like a woman if you disagree with them and try to talk rational your now a hater, gay, angry, hurt, frustrated bla bla bla"

:francis:This statement alone tells your frame of mind. Thank you for verifying my observation.
 

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"typical like a woman if you disagree with them and try to talk rational your now a hater, gay, angry, hurt, frustrated bla bla bla"

:francis:This statement alone tells your frame of mind. Thank you for verifying my observation.

and here it goes the quick back down. Whenever a man doesn't fit in to the pc mold of appeasing and simping hes "holding onto something".
 

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i'm holding onto anger and hurt because I disagree with your whole statement?

you've never dated a woman so what the hell would you know about a woman disappearing or going cold on you? all you can base it on is how you live your life.

Women all across the world wake up and just decide you know im not feeling this anymore, marriage, relationship etc. and leave many times the men are blindisded to say this is a lie or men are choosing the wrong women is a joke

typical like a woman if you disagree with them and try to talk rational your now a hater, gay, angry, hurt, frustrated bla bla bla
Something similar happened. . Japanese girl for months would text me everyday and "I lovee eyou so much" blah blah.. . Fast forward a few months later and after a few arguments it's "Okay let's be friends" and "I won't love you forever" and "you won't be my future husband" After I decided for her to just leave, she's already met someone else who also "changed my life". .:mjlol:

Okay now I don't hear from her anymore. She wanted to stay friends and text but I said that's unfair, how you want to be friends when you've found someone else and I didn't know?
 

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Something similar happened. . Japanese girl for months would text me everyday and "I lovee eyou so much" blah blah.. . Fast forward a few months later and after a few arguments it's "Okay let's be friends" and "I won't love you forever" and "you won't be my future husband" After I decided for her to just leave, she's already met someone else who also "changed my life". .:mjlol:

Okay now I don't hear from her anymore. She wanted to stay friends and text but I said that's unfair, how you want to be friends when you've found someone else and I didn't know?

like I said women will come in and tell you but but you should have "picked it up", you should have chose better when they have never been in that situation.

And it's happened to me and it's happened to many others, everything is going great, can tell you monday night at 1155pm before bed that they love you make passionate love, and the very next day we need to talk I feel different. Yeah many times some may drop signs getting distant etc., but many times everything is perfect going a ok then boom

one minute your called baby, love, next minute your friend and being called by your government.

but if you talk about it your a azzhole, you cant get over it, yor frustrated, your angry, NAH

its just like when white folks get uneasy when blacks will talk about racism or history of slavery. Women are the same way when you talk about the things a large segment of them do
 

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Okay now I don't hear from her anymore. She wanted to stay friends and text but I said that's unfair, how you want to be friends when you've found someone else and I didn't know?

props never accept being downgrade, she'd just complain about her new man and maybe hes such a prick hes not like you i remember when you bla bla bla while she getitng her back blown out every night
 

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props never accept being downgrade, she'd just complain about her new man and maybe hes such a prick hes not like you i remember when you bla bla bla while she getitng her back blown out every night
The thing is I posted about the problem i had with her when she posted that pic of her and her friend at a bar with two other guys. I kind of wilded out on her and after that we had that talk. I told her we'll just be friends and shee can do her and I can do me but if I come over there I can slide through. She agreed but a few months later met someone else . I noticed the signs such as her hardly ever asking to Skype and her taking much longer to text back during times when she used to text me asap. She still texted everyday but it just felt automatic at times. :snoop:
 

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The thing is I posted about the problem i had with her when she posted that pic of her and her friend at a bar with two other guys. I kind of wilded out on her and after that we had that talk. I told her we'll just be friends and shee can do her and I can do me but if I come over there I can slide through. She agreed but a few months later met someone else . I noticed the signs such as her hardly ever asking to Skype and her taking much longer to text back during times when she used to text me asap. She still texted everyday but it just felt automatic at times. :snoop:

you won anyways breh you went down there and had fun came back life changed, ditto her.

i mean you never know what the future may hold but live in the now
have the world at your fingertips
 

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I'm sorry but I have to wonder what type of women some of y'all talking to. I can't imagine disappearing from a man I liked, it'd have to be reeeaaallly bad but I've told guys when I was no longer interested. Sometimes fellas, some ladies aren't good with talking about their feelings. Interest you thought wasn't there could be. Friendship is important because from what I know without it the relationship isn't based on much.

I'm dying to hear some examples of how you told guys this.
 

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Live your own life
My gf just told me that I don't make her feel important. :what:

Before I knew it I watch my words come out my mouth like Subzero's ice blast.

" I never gave fukk about feeling important just loved . "
If you want to feel important try for a pay raise at work ."
:whoo:
I watch a single tear drop from her eyes before the rain and walk out into the kitchen to drink some water.

I never thought in my life I would become this cold brehs. I don't regret saying any of that shyt.

I am becoming part of the darkside and I welcome it :lawd:
You are welcoming a possible heartbreak. What the hell wrong with you ?:what:
 

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I'm serious, pretty sure they seen red flags in the beginning. There's some selfish women out there, just like there are men. Both sides need to take responsibility. Plus if someone doesn't want to be with you, let them leave. Take the lesson learned and move on. No sense in holding onto that anger/resentment.

Just disagreeing to agree.

Whats the end game of your post? Your advice in one sentence.
 

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Being quiet because somebody in here thinks I have nothing worthwhile to say...being a female and all.....good luck with everything!
 

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Being quiet because somebody in here thinks I have nothing worthwhile to say...being a female and all.....good luck with everything!

You know your being typical being all in your feelings? Just say it.

Because i think you've repeated advice already given here but are giving females the benefit of the doubt just because...and thats the part folks have a problem with.
 
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