Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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@DropQ stick around and you will learn a lot more from the male perspective, and even you will see the nonsense that women pull on men (you've already cited examples from your own friends).

We all aren't being crazy or lying in here.

@DropQ stick around and you will learn a lot more from the male perspective, and even you will see the nonsense that women pull on men (you've already cited examples from your own friends).

We all aren't being crazy or lying in here.

Okay I'll be keeping my eye on this thread. I wont contribute as much because I really don't feel comfortable in here no more. So far my advice was shot down and I was basically accused of dismissing their experience etc. But I am curious as to what type of jobs these women have, age range but then again they'd say its not the point. There are some selfish women out there.

I know I've made my mistakes with a past relationship and I look back on it now thinking wow, I'll be honest there were two guys I disappeared on (1) for a few weeks because of personal things (no other guy involved) but we ended up reconnecting later, he contacted me and the rest is history, I wanted to marry him but we are having issues now. The other guy (once again no other guy involved as to why i left, like some have stated) got very weird asking for naked pics and was a total head case there was no changing his mind, he told me that he was dumped by every woman he's been with by text message and that they are all game players. Every time we talked he was complaining about women and then his mental illness started to show, brother had ptsd and a sleep disorder. I talked to him for about a week before I left, he scared the mess out of me. It was sad because he was intelligent, goal oriented....That's why I said maybe some guys should watch how they are coming across to women as well. Like my example above, some of my friends and relatives have dumped men because of things they have said or red flag behaviors. I wanted to give my opinion on what men were going through because a woman knows another woman just like when people say listen to men they know men. I'll be watching this thread.
 

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Okay I'll be keeping my eye on this thread. I wont contribute as much because I really don't feel comfortable in here no more. So far my advice was shot down and I was basically accused of dismissing their experience etc. But I am curious as to what type of jobs these women have, age range but then again they'd say its not the point. There are some selfish women out there.

I know I've made my mistakes with a past relationship and I look back on it now thinking wow, I'll be honest there were two guys I disappeared on (1) for a few weeks because of personal things (no other guy involved) but we ended up reconnecting later, he contacted me and the rest is history, I wanted to marry him but we are having issues now. The other guy (once again no other guy involved as to why i left, like some have stated) got very weird asking for naked pics and was a total head case there was no changing his mind, he told me that he was dumped by every woman he's been with by text message and that they are all game players. Every time we talked he was complaining about women and then his mental illness started to show, brother had ptsd and a sleep disorder. I talked to him for about a week before I left, he scared the mess out of me. It was sad because he was intelligent, goal oriented....That's why I said maybe some guys should watch how they are coming across to women as well. Like my example above, some of my friends and relatives have dumped men because of things they have said or red flag behaviors. I wanted to give my opinion on what men were going through because a woman knows another woman just like when people say listen to men they know men. I'll be watching this thread.
I hear you, and I'm not even going to act like there aren't any weirdos out there, because there are, and in those circumstances, a cold cut off(block and delete) is warranted. I don't get upset at things like that, but most of the guys in here who are giving their story or experiences aren't even coming at some of these females in a weird way.
 

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I hear you, and I'm not even going to act like there aren't any weirdos out there, because there are, and in those circumstances, a cold cut off(block and delete) is warranted. I don't get upset at things like that, but most of the guys in here who are giving their story or experiences aren't even coming at some of these females in a weird way.

Yep and that's exactly what I did to that guy.

You see that's the thing we don't really know how they're coming at these women. Also some women are really game players. I watched Boomerang yesterday and the lead female was a psychopath and unfortunately some men cross paths with women like that. You seem understanding and not angry but I'll stick around.
 

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I swear 3rd verse of Runaway perfectly describes my last relationship :dwillhuh:

Never was much of a romantic
I could never take the intimacy
And I know I did damage
Cause the look in your eyes is killing me
I guess you are at an advantage
Cause you can blame me for everything
And I don't know how I'mma manage
If one day you just up and leave

:damn::damn::damn:
I never even liked that album but by some crazy coincidence I had this song come on shuffle yesterday:leostare:


Anyway it happened and I never thought I'd feel this bad when she leaves, but now I know. I guess I could never really connect on emotional level like that, and she was always talking how she needs me to involve more emotionally because it's important for her that I do, and whenever I did I would do that emotional shyt for like 2 days max and go back to my old macho bullshyt attitude :francis:

It's not that I didn't care for her, I really did, I guess I just didn't really love her even after a year of relationship, I think I needed a bit more time, but she wasn't having it. I'm not sure I was even in love brehs :sadbron:
If anything she was a HUGE habit to me, in a sense that I liked spending time and being with her, I just never felt in love like that :huhldup:

I'm not sure why is that so, I'm not usually cold n distant type of person, but last time I was really feeling someone took me only like 6 months but long distance ruined that one so :manny:
 

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I think your setting yourself up for more hurt.

Usually when a woman's done she's done. Of course they may miss you and don't mind hanging out reminiscing about old times. I've seen this story before that's all I'm saying.

Maybe I'm a cynic but it usually ends with you two getting close and then her dropping she has a date or interested a new man

And you saying but we've been hanging out, you even slept over I thought we were

And her saying I'm sorry, it was great spending time with you but I just can't.

All I can say is don't get your hopes up

Again maybe I'm a cynic.
But I've been in your spot and wasted almost 5 years of my life


I know for sure she's talking to one guy. Some clown ass buff dude (of course I'm hating) but she says it ain't serious, she don't care about him blah blah ....

Sometimes I feel like I should just cold turkey cut off all communication no matter how bad I wanna hit her. On some "let the universe decide" shyt ..
 

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Man women will always tell you that

"He's just a friend"
"If ain't serious, you don't have nothing to worry about*


Grain of salt

I always say if someone wants to be with you they will if not there will be every excuse ij the book


I know for sure she's talking to one guy. Some clown ass buff dude (of course I'm hating) but she says it ain't serious, she don't care about him blah blah ....

Sometimes I feel like I should just cold turkey cut off all communication no matter how bad I wanna hit her. On some "let the universe decide" shyt ..
 

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Man women will always tell you that

"He's just a friend"
"If ain't serious, you don't have nothing to worry about*


Grain of salt

I always say if someone wants to be with you they will if not there will be every excuse ij the book

So you telling me to vanish on her? Lol smh
 

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Lol this shyt got me really going crazy out here. Love is funny and losing it aint. Hardest thing I've ever dealt with honestly. Especially when you're the one that ruined it
 

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I wouldn't say vanish per say, just that it's been two months since she broke things off. She's talking to a new guy but she still has you at her Beck and call. What incentive does she have to cease communication with buff guy and want to try again with you. Since your around anyways.

There's a point in life where its me or not me. Life is to short to be waiting around hoping someone changes their mind. You'll blink your eyes and it will be 6 months or a year and you'll be in the same position


So you telling me to vanish on her? Lol smh
 

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What's going on gentlemen. Make sure that if you're putting the time in professionally you take the time to reward yourself. I'm just wrapping up my six months here in Qatar. I decided to book a trip out to Jamaica for a week just to relax and unwind. My first time doing the all inclusive thing so I'm looking forward to it. I'll be there for dream weekend.
 

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She ended it. I was being a hoe.
Yeah I wouldn't go forward with it, she would have too much of an advantage if y'all got back together, on some razor blade to your nuts type shyt. Casual would work if you can handle it, you would just have to watch your feelings though.
 
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