Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[NormanConnors]

She ended it. I was being a hoe.

Yeah I wouldn't go forward with it, she would have too much of an advantage if y'all got back together, on some razor blade to your nuts type shyt. Casual would work if you can handle it, you would just have to watch your feelings though.

 

[MikelArteta]

Ocho Rios or montego bay?

What's going on gentlemen. Make sure that if you're putting the time in professionally you take the time to reward yourself. I'm just wrapping up my six months here in Qatar. I decided to book a trip out to Jamaica for a week just to relax and unwind. My first time doing the all inclusive thing so I'm looking forward to it. I'll be there for dream weekend.

 

[MikelArteta]

I remember being 24 dating my ex we broke up was strung along, friends, she slept over we went on trips bla bla. Blinked my eyes and i was almost 29 in the damn same position finally cut the cord and didn't look back.

If a woman wants to be with you she will if she doesn't she wont. Just don't waste your time, time flies.

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

ya'll ever go through moments where you have an abundance of options and everything just seems to be going so well...then the next minute, literally every single one of your options goes quiet and you are forced to cut them from the team?

shyt happens to me every year. I'll go through phases where I'm just like "How the fukk am I gonna juggle all these?"

Then I'll look up a month later, & for no apparent reason, my situation is

shyts annoying, but I've realized that it's like a merry go round, they just come & go randomly. And it doesn't really take much to be eating again, just a matter of time before you meet some new ones when you're least expecting, or an old one decides to randomly hit you up out of nowhere.

My experience with it seems to be the less I focus on maintaining a roster, the easier & quicker it tends to work itself out.

 

[Bless't]

Was dealing with this older chick i mean really older shes 36

Me and her talked on.phone for about 1 hour and a half

The next day we met in a park in talked
Then sat on her porch n talked
She gave me a kiss and i left
I got tired

Next day she text me sayn i was spying on her with my friend in a white acura in front of her house

Then 10 min l8tr text me s nd says im to dominant
She couldn't be with me

Like wtf lol

Now i see why shes been single 10 years
And she was on some bashing black men shyt to

This is the 1st L i took in some Years
But the chick has problems


I was just gonna tap that a few times then stop calling eventually anyway
She did have a fat ass

WTF

Dodged a bullet there breh. That chick sounds certifiable.

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

been there man to many times, everything going well did nothing but chick gets "bored", or the routine doesn't excite her anymore and she gets cold or distant

if you text its one word answers. If you call you'll hear that ice cold voice on the phone and I gotta go shortly, shorty used to text you good morning and good night now days go by without anything. You bring it up shorty attacks you she been busy. Then boom, its over. You check her Facebook, Instagram or whatever and she's out with the girls clubbing, you check a month later she got a new man.

I've seen it happen way to many and times and it used to happen to me, now I smell it coming and get out before I can be discarded.

This perfectly describes exactly what I'm going through right now

 

[MikelArteta]

Sometimes it's that Seattle rainfall other times its that African drought .

Just gotta prepare for both.

shyt happens to me every year. I'll go through phases where I'm just like "How the fukk am I gonna juggle all these?"

Then I'll look up a month later, & for no apparent reason, my situation is

shyts annoying, but I've realized that it's like a merry go round, they just come & go randomly. And it doesn't really take much to be eating again, just a matter of time before you meet some new ones when you're least expecting, or an old one decides to randomly hit you up out of nowhere.

My experience with it seems to be the less I focus on maintaining a roster, the easier & quicker it tends to work itself out.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Ocho Rios or montego bay?

Negril.

 

[NerdNash]

Yeah I wouldn't go forward with it, she would have too much of an advantage if y'all got back together, on some razor blade to your nuts type shyt. Casual would work if you can handle it, you would just have to watch your feelings though.

@Emperor_ReinScarf

She hits me with the "I would never even think to come back to you when you're a wreck like this" ... I've basically been on some psycho shyt smh ...

"You're just gonna push me away even more" .... Smh

"You need to get yourself together" ...

"You need to make yourself happy" ...

All daggers to my heart brehs

 

[MikelArteta]

She knows you well enough to know what will Pierce you.

It's you you you, like I say when a woman is gone she's gone. Most times its nearly impossible to get it back to the way it was before .

Honestly your best bet is just to go cold turkey, deal with the emotions, let time work its magic and basically give up hope. Work on being a better man for yourself and if its meant to be who knows. But constantly thinking marinating, letting her having full access to your life. Feeling like crap but when you see her feeling good only to feel like crap after.

I've been there and I just wish I left 2 months in or even a year.

You gotta be the man she fell in love with times ten at this moment your not

@Emperor_ReinScarf

She hits me with the "I would never even think to come back to you when you're a wreck like this" ... I've basically been on some psycho shyt smh ...

"You're just gonna push me away even more" .... Smh

"You need to get yourself together" ...

"You need to make yourself happy" ...

All daggers to my heart brehs

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

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[MikelArteta]

Lol think you meant to post this in the random thoughts

comnig into the office really sucks, i sit right up under my manager who never leaves her desk and feels the need to make comments about the fact that i leave at a normal time (as does the majority of the company) and i have no natural light, we're in a dark corner in the back. plus we have a open workspace with about 4-5ft of desk...ugh, i might look for a new job just because i hate the office setup (altho it's a cool space otherwise...very modern)

 

[NerdNash]

She knows you well enough to know what will Pierce you.

It's you you you, like I say when a woman is gone she's gone. Most times its nearly impossible to get it back to the way it was before .

Honestly your best bet is just to go cold turkey, deal with the emotions, let time work its magic and basically give up hope. Work on being a better man for yourself and if its meant to be who knows. But constantly thinking marinating, letting her having full access to your life. Feeling like crap but when you see her feeling good only to feel like crap after.

I've been there and I just wish I left 2 months in or even a year.

You gotta be the man she fell in love with times ten at this moment your not

@kevm3

I hear you. Man it's ill because I know she stil loves me. Not once has she been cold and completely been on some "fukk you" shyt. Idk man it's just hard especially since her and my daughter have a bond.

I fukked up big time.

 

[MikelArteta]

@kevm3

I hear you. Man it's ill because I know she stil loves me. Not once has she been cold and completely been on some "fukk you" shyt. Idk man it's just hard especially since her and my daughter have a bond.

I fukked up big time.

man i wont lie its tough leaving a chick that you love , one of the hardest things ever, just because she may love you doesn't mean that she wants to be toegther etc.

And I know its hard having a daughter who has a bond with her etc., but gain there comes a time where you ask yourself is this the life I want to live?

Do I want to be sad every day? do I want to wake up feeling like this? waking up every day hoping this is the day she returns to you. LIke I said I've been there and i wasted 5 prime years of my life.

Yeah you may have been in the wrong and caused this but its like prison yeah you committed a crime and sentenced to 5 years but its up to you, you can sit around and rot or you can work on yourself and be a better man

Its been two months, what are the progress you have made?
its the exact same two months have gone and shes still ot back in your arms

 

[NerdNash]

man i wont lie its tough leaving a chick that you love , one of the hardest things ever, just because she may love you doesn't mean that she wants to be toegther etc.

And I know its hard having a daughter who has a bond with her etc., but gain there comes a time where you ask yourself is this the life I want to live?

Do I want to be sad every day? do I want to wake up feeling like this? waking up every day hoping this is the day she returns to you. LIke I said I've been there and i wasted 5 prime years of my life.

Yeah you may have been in the wrong and caused this but its like prison yeah you committed a crime and sentenced to 5 years but its up to you, you can sit around and rot or you can work on yourself and be a better man

Its been two months, what are the progress you have made?
its the exact same two months have gone and shes still ot back in your arms

Yea I feel you. I just have to literally stay busy from the time I wake up til I go to sleep. Once I let my mind wonder it's a wrap. I'm going to use this time to read more, write more, focus on my brand, my podcast etc, eat better just wash the old me off, feel me?

Regardless of what Yall say man I believe I can get her back. I just have some changing to do and I knew that for a while. In the 2 months there's been some progress. She went from hating me lol to busting it up with me. We kick it now and smoke, go eat and whatever.

It's just crazy. I feel like if it was REALLY over she would make it 100% known and she hasn't. It's almost like she just wants me to get some shyt together ...

I know one thing. Ima be in this thread all day every day lol this shyt is therapy.