Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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I remember being 24 dating my ex we broke up was strung along, friends, she slept over we went on trips bla bla. Blinked my eyes and i was almost 29 in the damn same position finally cut the cord and didn't look back.
If a woman wants to be with you she will if she doesn't she wont. Just don't waste your time, time flies.
If a woman wants to be with you she will if she doesn't she wont. Just don't waste your time, time flies.
Asiatic Black Hebrew
Zulu passenger out of Africa
ya'll ever go through moments where you have an abundance of options and everything just seems to be going so well...then the next minute, literally every single one of your options goes quiet and you are forced to cut them from the team?
shyt happens to me every year. I'll go through phases where I'm just like "How the fukk am I gonna juggle all these?"
Then I'll look up a month later, & for no apparent reason, my situation is
shyts annoying, but I've realized that it's like a merry go round, they just come & go randomly. And it doesn't really take much to be eating again, just a matter of time before you meet some new ones when you're least expecting, or an old one decides to randomly hit you up out of nowhere.
My experience with it seems to be the less I focus on maintaining a roster, the easier & quicker it tends to work itself out.
Bless't
Living the dream
Asiatic Black Hebrew
Zulu passenger out of Africa
Sometimes it's that Seattle rainfall other times its that African drought .
Just gotta prepare for both.
Just gotta prepare for both.
shyt happens to me every year. I'll go through phases where I'm just like "How the fukk am I gonna juggle all these?"
Then I'll look up a month later, & for no apparent reason, my situation is
shyts annoying, but I've realized that it's like a merry go round, they just come & go randomly. And it doesn't really take much to be eating again, just a matter of time before you meet some new ones when you're least expecting, or an old one decides to randomly hit you up out of nowhere.
My experience with it seems to be the less I focus on maintaining a roster, the easier & quicker it tends to work itself out.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Negril.
@Emperor_ReinScarf
She hits me with the "I would never even think to come back to you when you're a wreck like this" ... I've basically been on some psycho shyt smh ...
"You're just gonna push me away even more" .... Smh
"You need to get yourself together" ...
"You need to make yourself happy" ...
All daggers to my heart brehs
She knows you well enough to know what will Pierce you.
It's you you you, like I say when a woman is gone she's gone. Most times its nearly impossible to get it back to the way it was before .
Honestly your best bet is just to go cold turkey, deal with the emotions, let time work its magic and basically give up hope. Work on being a better man for yourself and if its meant to be who knows. But constantly thinking marinating, letting her having full access to your life. Feeling like crap but when you see her feeling good only to feel like crap after.
I've been there and I just wish I left 2 months in or even a year.
You gotta be the man she fell in love with times ten at this moment your not
It's you you you, like I say when a woman is gone she's gone. Most times its nearly impossible to get it back to the way it was before .
Honestly your best bet is just to go cold turkey, deal with the emotions, let time work its magic and basically give up hope. Work on being a better man for yourself and if its meant to be who knows. But constantly thinking marinating, letting her having full access to your life. Feeling like crap but when you see her feeling good only to feel like crap after.
I've been there and I just wish I left 2 months in or even a year.
You gotta be the man she fell in love with times ten at this moment your not
dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
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@kevm3
I hear you. Man it's ill because I know she stil loves me. Not once has she been cold and completely been on some "fukk you" shyt. Idk man it's just hard especially since her and my daughter have a bond.
I fukked up big time.
man i wont lie its tough leaving a chick that you love , one of the hardest things ever, just because she may love you doesn't mean that she wants to be toegther etc.
And I know its hard having a daughter who has a bond with her etc., but gain there comes a time where you ask yourself is this the life I want to live?
Do I want to be sad every day? do I want to wake up feeling like this? waking up every day hoping this is the day she returns to you. LIke I said I've been there and i wasted 5 prime years of my life.
Yeah you may have been in the wrong and caused this but its like prison yeah you committed a crime and sentenced to 5 years but its up to you, you can sit around and rot or you can work on yourself and be a better man
Its been two months, what are the progress you have made?
its the exact same two months have gone and shes still ot back in your arms
Yea I feel you. I just have to literally stay busy from the time I wake up til I go to sleep. Once I let my mind wonder it's a wrap. I'm going to use this time to read more, write more, focus on my brand, my podcast etc, eat better just wash the old me off, feel me?
Regardless of what Yall say man I believe I can get her back. I just have some changing to do and I knew that for a while. In the 2 months there's been some progress. She went from hating me lol to busting it up with me. We kick it now and smoke, go eat and whatever.
It's just crazy. I feel like if it was REALLY over she would make it 100% known and she hasn't. It's almost like she just wants me to get some shyt together ...
I know one thing. Ima be in this thread all day every day lol this shyt is therapy.