Honestly, I say it's a blessing. Sometimes we get tethered to some destination and in order to see growth, we have to be ejected from that particular place. I thank God for being done with some of those jobs I had. You'll be in a storm for a little while while looking for the next opportunity, but when you find something better, you'll say, "I am glad I left."
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Honestly, I say it's a blessing. Sometimes we get tethered to some destination and in order to see growth, we have to be ejected from that particular place. I thank God for being done with some of those jobs I had. You'll be in a storm for a little while while looking for the next opportunity, but when you find something better, you'll say, "I am glad I left."
Now is definitely the time for reflection and to step back and allow God to bring order in your life. Try to find stability without women and in just learning to enjoy your own company. If it was meant to be between you and her, it'll come to pass.
Its hard man, as soon as you wake up thoughts of her. Throughout the day shes on your mind, that itching to check her facebook, instagram, twitter. But knowing if you do that it will set you back.
An idle mind will destroy you, i spent so much months just lying in bed doing nothing, checking her social media. Rotting away while she was out enjoying life NEVER AGAIN.
I know that hope man, like I said I've been there> hell my ex LIVED with me at one point after we broke up, she still lives just up the street from me even though we haven't talked in nearly two years.
Just because she enjoys hanging out with you, laughing, kicking it back doesn't mean anything man. Hate is the opposite of love. My ex enjoyed all that and more, she even begged and cried when I told her I no longer want to associate with her anymore.
It means nothing
@kevm3 @Emperor_ReinScarf
Man I'm even considering instead of always texting her my rants and venting Ima write that shyt down...like a journal and send it to her like every 2 weeks hahaha ... I'm losing my fukking mind
Man I'm even considering instead of always texting her my rants and venting Ima write that shyt down...like a journal and send it to her like every 2 weeks hahaha ... I'm losing my fukking mind
1. when she was unemployed and I did her resume and applied for jobs and got her a job and she never even said thanks.
2. she owed me money and instead of paying me back she went out and bought a car just showed how low she viewed me
3. Came home from work one day to her in my house with some nikka announcing to my mom that their engaged
4. her threatening to call the cops on me for "harrasing" her when I asked back for the money I went her to get her place
there was a whole combo of things, not to mention she cheated on me and gave me a std, and tried to pin a pregnancy on me
was 5 years of hell, but i got out of it. She literally lives 2 minutes away but i havent said anything since dec 2013
man dont tell her anything, if you must write then write but keep it yourself. Trust me she knows you feel no need to continue to remind her
one thing I always remember is something Tom leykis said, in the midst of a heartbreak or when your thinking with emotions or filled of hope, DO THE OPPOSITE. You want to send a card don't. You want to call her up don't. You want to check her facebook don't.
Everyone thinks their situation is different, but but we met in such a way, our feelings, she/he loves me still, but but she/he said it means nothing man.
Everyone thinks their situation is different, but but we met in such a way, our feelings, she/he loves me still, but but she/he said it means nothing man.
eerieBell
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The last couple pages been dope. Real game on how to carry yourself as a man during a break up or when a woman dont want you.
Corrado Soprano Jr
Uncle June
Guy comes home wit a bouquet of flowers for his wife.
"I guess I'll have to spread my legs now.", she says.
"Why?", he asks, "don't ya have a vase?".
"I guess I'll have to spread my legs now.", she says.
"Why?", he asks, "don't ya have a vase?".
Honestly man, don't overly expose your feelings to her. Doing so will make her think you're weak and will push her further from you. At the end of the day, you simply have to come to the point of letting her know it is what it is. You'd like to be with her, but if she can't really accept it, you'll do what it takes to move on. Leaving with dignity is really the best course of action.
Virtuous_Brotha
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pretty much done with online dating its near impossible for me to get a response these days.
i know im gonna have to start going out to meet women but shyt is gonna be extra tough as i dont have the social life for it,what am i to do brehs?
i know im gonna have to start going out to meet women but shyt is gonna be extra tough as i dont have the social life for it,what am i to do brehs?
I feel everything you brehs saying ... @kevm3 @Emperor_ReinScarf ....
But I gotta get my girl back. I won't be on no psycho shyt but i'm def doing what I can to get her back....but i'm prepared any day to get a bomb dropped on me and i'm bettering myself regardless just in case she moves on. I believe if something is worth fighting for you have to fight for it.
Sent her a good morning text this morning and told her I loved her...
I know i'm looking like a sucker but hey.....It is what it is.
I'll keep yall updated and I def welcome daily feedback. It helps me get through this.
But I gotta get my girl back. I won't be on no psycho shyt but i'm def doing what I can to get her back....but i'm prepared any day to get a bomb dropped on me and i'm bettering myself regardless just in case she moves on. I believe if something is worth fighting for you have to fight for it.
Sent her a good morning text this morning and told her I loved her...
I know i'm looking like a sucker but hey.....It is what it is.
I'll keep yall updated and I def welcome daily feedback. It helps me get through this.