Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MedSchool]

Dude im not trying to be preachy but you know deep down you shouldnt entertain this girl at all.

I can admit that you are right. Guess we sometimes think about what we want or like based off chemistry and feeling and not looking at the facts and the back ground.

 

[Yup]

All i say is this what kills Young black men the most other than jail sentences....child support by women they never wanted to be with in an actual relationship.

To top it dude is getting ready to be a doctor...casual sex at your own risk especially with a girl that you are starting to have doubts about.

 

[MedSchool]

Thanks brehs definitely helped me put things into a better perspective. Already showed she was flakey, already showed she's a liar. Gotta just be cautious if i keep her on the team and make sure she understand she just there to come off the bench time to time and its never nothing serious.

 

[Yup]

Commitment and love are the male vagina.

Guys may say they loveyou go get in your pants or whatever but meh

And women will say they love you for the same reason. Some women like the idea of love that doesnt mean they actually love you. Probably just saying it becayse they think thats what they are supposed to say....and some probably Believe it but as we all know actions speak louder than words.

 

[Yup]

A woman that 'loves adventure' is one that you don't wife up.

Whats with these generalizations man?

 

[TRUEST]

Been survying the board and i value the advice and gems ive picked up in here.

So heres my story.

Me and this chick from my school who i had a eye for exchanged numbers. We started talking she said she wanted to take things slow because she's been hurt and she's scared to trust men. I expressed to her i'm cool with that, and that i'm interested in looking for a relationship. She said she's interested in seeing where it leads as well, but she's scared cause she's dated men that did her wrong everytime. Same night we texting the convo slipped to sex and she was like she wanna swallow the whole D. Cool i'm with it. About 4-5 days later i slide by her crib smash. We still text talk and flirt around in school after etc. So the next weekend we had plans to link i hit her no response called twice no response. Go on IG and a mutual friend of ours liked a video which leads to her instagram and she's at a party posting videos and ignoring my text. So the next morning she says lost her phone. (BS) But i go with it, cause i can easily look to her social page for info if i want so why expose that. So we make arrangements and again she go's off with her friends, and says some bs excuse about she likes when a man makes plans and tells her lets go not wait or as for her to say she's available and how her time is limited so sometimes she will just go off with her friends. I peep the BS and cold turkey stop hitting her.. She didn't hit me i didn't hit her.. That weekend i went and bought a new car, and just started getting back to the scene and doing me. That monday she text me in class saying hey you remember me i said yea whats up u ok ? she said yea u ok ? i said yea i'm straight. Cut the small talk. I would see her around school after and give her a hey whats up and keep it moving. I start dating a girl who is our higher up in our field.

So a month goes by its finals week. I get a long text about how she missed me and she was dealing w/ family issues that's why she stopped talking to me so sudden but she wanted to let me know she missed me alot and how i was a perfect fit and she was scared cause i was too perfect. So i write back and express my words and she keeps prolonging the conversation, before you know it were back talking. So i asked had she slept with anybody since we stopped talking she said yes. She asked me i admitted i have. She asked me about the girl i was more seriously talking to and if she was still in the picture, i expressed no we are just figuring things out. So later on she expresses she more concerned because me and this other girl went on a date kayaking and she felt maybe there was strong feelings and kept inquiring about the girl. So now she's made a lot more attempts to be around me and see me. So this weekend she comes back to my house and we smash. Got her off multiple times and she's been extra clingy and affectionate.


Funny to me cause the 1st tim we was talking all we did was text and even then the texts where inconsistent and dry on her behalf. sometimes she would respond other times not. We probably talked on the phone like 3 times. Now the second time round she's been very consistent, call and face time everyday while she was away on vacation and showing alot of interest.

Thoughts ?

others have already said it. sounds to me u really like this girl and i'm not the type to just be like "dead it, cut her off, blah blah blah". but what i will say is, you MUST NEVER EVER EVER EVER make this girl your main chick. did i say never? i mean NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER.

why? because her behavior is far too common and all experienced guys in this thread know when a woman acts the way she's acting, there's a 99% chance she's not to be trusted and will never stay loyal to you. you may enjoy her for a few but it wont take much for her to be bored and begin to look for her thrills elsewhere.

what u can do is continue to fucck her and make her believe she's ur main, while at the same time talking to whichever other chick(s) you're talking to. never ever give your loyalty to a chick like this.

 

[MikelArteta]

Let's be real most of the times we know what were getting into, if our friends or family were in the same situation we'd be telling them yo your messing up, this situation is not good etc. But because we get caught up so easily emotionally next thing you know your in to deep and caught in the quicksand

 

[Action Mike]

Question is having sex part of dating? I just shocked at the causal sexual encounters with someone you are not being exclusive with. Is that normal?

It's 2015 and your shocked people are having sex outside of being serious?

 

[Ghanaian Armor]

She gave you head that quick from the jump and you think she's relationship material?

Negro please...Unless you have that kind of quick success with ALL Women it means she's a THOT to the core.

 

[360dagod]

Define risk. You gotta nikkas on here who are swimming in CAC women such as @Emperor_ReinScarf right. Well he took a risk 2-3 times already and failed. Meanwhile this nikka probably still getting texts, emails, FB messages and calls from CAC women.

A calculated risk yes, but at the end of the day nikkas such as myself are pragmatic and adjust strategies based on the market conditions. I am an equal opportunity social economist. If one day all of a sudden Black Women wanted to ride my dikk in droves fine. If you love me, I love you too. It is really not complicated. I would not waste my time approaching BW they haven't loved me for 30 years why would things change all of a sudden tomorrow?

For many of us, Black Women hate us with a passion and want nothing to do with us and you have pro-hotep nikkas who look at us with scorn for going where we are appreciated and loved.

If a Black Woman offered to cook me 3 meals a day, suck my dikk wash my toes, etc then my mentality would still be the same. I would not hate on a nikka trying to eat and get fed where he is desired.

Homeboy has the mentality that NO Female would like him...

Which is wrong from a statistical standpoint..

 

[Action Mike]

@MedSchool keeping smashing and remain wrapped up if you feel like it.

Just don't lead her on and be upfront.

 

[Hrcules]

GF Broke up with me thru text while i was away in the philippines, she was all, ill be waiting for you, long story shot... She went out with girlfriends and bump into a guy i hate and she knows i hate him because he went to her house with flowers before we started dating, anyways she messeges me while im on vacation to tell me she saw him took a shot with him and that was it, she went to another club with her friends and he stayed there with his friends. Said she didnt want to tell me because i was going to get ideas about shyt that happened when nothing did, anyways i didnt respond to her.

Told my bro what happened and dude messeged the guy she took a shot with, threateing him, but i told him to stop messeging him... anyways i got a text the next day from her saying she didnt want to be with me anymore and that it wasnt because "guys name" and that nothing happend and she doesnt know what i do what i do... i had no idea what she was talking about so i didnt reply to her. i went NO CONTACT on her, then my brother messeged her asking what happened between us and apperantly she broke up with me because i messeged the dude thru my brothers fb... IT WASNT ME so my bro explained to her but she didnt even opened my bros messege on fb 2 days ago

Anyways, this was 2 weeks ago, i got back home 1 week ago, now she messeged me last night "hey" so i replied whats up? and she tells me her sisters told her someone was screaming outside the house asking for her and that her little nephew told her it was "her bf" she assumed it was me who came to her house but she just said sorry my sister said it was just a joke... I was like you broke up with me 2 weeks ago, why would you think it was me... she said well thats what i thought since they said it was my bf at the time, but my sisters where just playing i just said dont worry and she didnt even open my whatsapp messege last night

What the fukk is she playing here brehs?

 

[360dagod]

GF Broke up with me thru text while i was away in the philippines, she was all, ill be waiting for you, long story shot... She went out with girlfriends and bump into a guy i hate and she knows i hate him because he went to her house with flowers before we started dating, anyways she messeges me while im on vacation to tell me she saw him took a shot with him and that was it, she went to another club with her friends and he stayed there with his friends. Said she didnt want to tell me because i was going to get ideas about shyt that happened when nothing did, anyways i didnt respond to her.

Told my bro what happened and dude messeged the guy she took a shot with, threateing him, but i told him to stop messeging him... anyways i got a text the next day from her saying she didnt want to be with me anymore and that it wasnt because "guys name" and that nothing happend and she doesnt know what i do what i do... i had no idea what she was talking about so i didnt reply to her. i went NO CONTACT on her, then my brother messeged her asking what happened between us and apperantly she broke up with me because i messeged the dude thru my brothers fb... IT WASNT ME so my bro explained to her but she didnt even opened my bros messege on fb 2 days ago

Anyways, this was 2 weeks ago, i got back home 1 week ago, now she messeged me last night "hey" so i replied whats up? and she tells me her sisters told her someone was screaming outside the house asking for her and that her little nephew told her it was "her bf" she assumed it was me who came to her house but she just said sorry my sister said it was just a joke... I was like you broke up with me 2 weeks ago, why would you think it was me... she said well thats what i thought since they said it was my bf at the time, but my sisters where just playing i just said dont worry and she didnt even open my whatsapp messege last night

What the fukk is she playing here brehs?

Dont even think too hard..

delete and block

 

[Hrcules]

Dont even think too hard..

delete and block

I regret even replying the first time because now im the one who got ignored

 

[Action Mike]

I regret even replying the first time because now im the one who got ignored

Breh DELETE that joint right now. Pics on your phone included.