Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

I regret even replying the first time because now im the one who got ignored

not to late to save your dignity
silence is a powerful weapon you owe her nothing your no longer hre bf

 

[MikelArteta]

And women will say they love you for the same reason. Some women like the idea of love that doesnt mean they actually love you. Probably just saying it becayse they think thats what they are supposed to say....and some probably Believe it but as we all know actions speak louder than words.

meh women drop love like its nothing, ive had lke 11 women tell me they love me, women are emotional creatures. And yeah actions and worsd rarely match up.

 

[MikelArteta]

To be honest i felt like smashing it a few more times cause the head was good and just tossing her back to the streets. I just liked her and our vibe is always some chill fun stuff. But the past put a bad taste in my mouth.

that one last time you smash she may get pregnant or give you a std or something.

I remember the last time i slept with my ex she got pregnant but had a miscarriage, to this day I don't even think it was mine , but i'm saying its risky

 

[MikelArteta]

now you have to assert your authority and let her know that you wont take that type of shyt from her again. you have to reassert yourself and your boundries. because if youre weak with her now, then she will go at it again on the same shyt. and if she refuses to fall in line, then you have to let her know that youre not going to go for that, and that will be it. be serious, firm, but do not go in bullying her. just leave the message loud and clear for her to hear. if she is mature enough to know shes wrong and correct it, then you should be mature about it as well.



edit: your best bet is to not be emotional and deal with this in a rational way. dont go soft, and dont go crazy. just do what you think is best

 

[Yup]

@MedSchool keeping smashing and remain wrapped up if you feel like it.

Just don't lead her on and be upfront.

Not a good idea.

 

[Yup]

It's 2015 and your shocked people are having sex outside of being serious?

And then people wonder why they get caught up with people with people they dont want to be with.

The smartest thing any black man on the path to succcess can do in the relationship arena is to be selective on who he sleeps with. He just said he wants a relationship and then he goes around having casual sex with girls for amusement?

And you guys are encouraging it when dude is in the prime of his life...for 15 seconds of sexual satisfaction?

I am not necessarily advocating abstinence but at the very least be as selective with sexual partners as you are selective of women who you choose to be in a relationships with.

A baby gets you stuck to a chick for life....a simple relationship breakup means you go your separate ways and thete is no attachment.

Again, advising to continue to sleep with a girl one presumes to be loose is bad advice.

 

[Action Mike]

And then people wonder why they gey caught up with people they get caught up with people they dont want to be with.

The smartest any black man on the path to succcess can do in the relationship arena is to be selective on who he sleeps with. He just said he wants a relationship and then he goes around having casual sex with girls for amusement?

And yoy guys are encouraging it when dude is in the prime of his life...for a 15 seconds of sexual satisfaction?

I am not necessarily advocating abstinence but at the very least be as selective with sexual partners as you are selective of women who you choose to be in a relationships with.

A baby gets you stuck to a chick for life....a simple relationship breakup means you go your separate ways and thete is no arrachment.

Again advising to continue to sleep with a girl one presumes to be loose is bad advice.

Your not a man so I could never explain the why. So I won't go there.

Who says were not selective in the first place?

Sexual partners and relationships are two very different things. Your getting them mixed up. But I don't blame you.

As long as things are clear between them as I said before, then theres nothing wrong with it.

Baby? Condoms and contraception exists.

 

[Yup]

Your not a man so I could never explain the why. So I won't go there.

Who says were not selective in the first place?

Sexual partners and relationships are two very different things. Your getting them mixed up. But I don't blame you.

As long as things are clear between them as I said before, then theres nothing wrong with it.

Baby? Condoms and contraception exists.

I dont have to be a man to know at the rate which blacks get caught up/saddled prematurely with kids that black men and women need to exercice sexual self control.

Ask yourself, who has more to lose him or her?

What is black community out of wedlock rate again? Despite all these birth control on the market? Put your faith in a girl that is flakey that she wont get pregnant or infect you for a quick nut?

 

[Action Mike]

I dont have to be a man ro know at the rate which blacks get caught up/saddled prematurely with kids that black men and women need to exercice sexual self control.

Ask yourself, who has more to lose him or her?

You see things through a generalised racial lenses, I see things on a case by case basis then the former after.

Dude is a med student, preaching to the choir. The main advice is to catorgise her accordingly, if she ain't happy about it and strikes again. Bushes. Use a condom.

End.

 

[Youseenmywork]

It's 2015 and your shocked people are having sex outside of being serious?

...Yeah she don't get . Hell if a man is smashing you and has NEVER kissed you that should let know were you stand in that man's life ... I'm not teaching today thoe

 

[Youseenmywork]

@Emperor_ReinScarf I'm an old NBA fan I don't mind playing with a bloody nose I can even take elbows to chest even ribs...but when people are on the COURT just to fight ...I suggest take your ball and go home. The game is just getting to hardcore. This girl seems like she just looking to pick a fight about pointless shyt...a past that has nothing to do with her. Take your ball and go HOME .

 

[Yup]

...Yeah she don't get . Hell if a man is smashing you and has NEVER kissed you that should let know were you stand in that man's life ... I'm not teaching today thoe

You're not saying anything...the guy who is on track to be a doctor has more to lose than the girl who is flakey. It's the guy who is looking for the relationship not the girl and y'all wonder how you guys get straddled with child support.

 

[Bless't]

she called me and we spoke for like a hour and she apologized etc., my pride is telling me to but i dunno brehs .

She apologized. Give it another shot. Pride is a helluva thing though.

Move forward but keep one eye open.

Or both eyes if you're not sleeping.



You know what I mean.

 

[Youseenmywork]

You're not saying anything...the guy who is on track to be a doctor has more to lose than the girl who is flakey. It's the guy who is looking for the relationship not the girl and y'all wonder how you guys get straddled with child support.

Yeah...you don't get it. Let me make it simple for you treat a lady like a lady and a hoe like a hoe. I'm from the south so my grandmother's taught me the same. I don't judge any nikka man I want to see every guy in this thread flourish in one way or another. I would just say watch what type of women you interact with and let hang around you...cause it say a lot about as a man.

 

[Youseenmywork]

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