root_eruditorium_org
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not at work dude - nikkas need to pay bills
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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You guys are going to learn the hard way not to get involved with women at work, just like I did. Luckily for me it was just an internship so I didn't have to deal with any long term fallout.
Don't do it! Just keep it platonic and avoid sharing too many personal details.
Don't do it! Just keep it platonic and avoid sharing too many personal details.
InDePickWest
Im Not American
Chick I told y'all about wants to smoke with me. Imma invite her over after a while. I'm actually trying to land a better job and should be seeing about that in less than a week, if so they're gonna hair drug test me so I can't smoke yet.
Gonna be lit (literally)
Gonna be lit (literally)
Youseenmywork
KING
Dude you can mess with a woman outside your job and she can still screw your work life. I've dated 3 women that I either worked with directly or we worked at the same company but different departments. I never had an issue...but guess what I did have a woman I dated who lived 45 min away from me and she caused me problems at work for a brief moment
Tenchi Ryu
Ashtray B!tch
Well them nikkas are crazy or don't know better.I've said this and nikkas in this thread said I was crazy
That's a big ass no no.
The workplace thing unfortunately is a product of American greed and Capitalism rearing its ugly head...
most co-workers have more hardcore interaction with their fellow workers than their own family..
by the time nikkas get home, they might have a 30 minute convo and they off to bed...verses the hours of harcore interaction with the work buddy...
that shyt eventually builds up and your ass is in the situation you just mentioned..
the level of platonic when your dealing with a female co-worker on a 1-on-1 basis goes right out the window if they feel comfy around you
Its definitely not an easy thing to do or not do
My ex was in my bed last night man fukk what yall talking about
What's the story on this bruh bruh?
The thing is dating a co-worker isn't a black or white thing, I will say if you do go down that path, don't cheat, do right by her and make sure she has as much if not more to lose job wise and you will be good
root_eruditorium_org
All Star
lmao ...
Man thinking back, when you really like someone and they on that BS it really hurts.
Like as a man I can say I don't often feel pain on a emotional level like that, partially because I never allow myself to open up like that and other things.
But thinking back really legit liking someone and thinking the feeling is mutual but everything else implies other wises, man it legit hurts.
Its a weird feeling, I can understand how alot of dudes become bitter. Its not like we really have a outlet for this kind of stuff were we can voice our frustrations and not be seen as a hoe either.
Like as a man I can say I don't often feel pain on a emotional level like that, partially because I never allow myself to open up like that and other things.
But thinking back really legit liking someone and thinking the feeling is mutual but everything else implies other wises, man it legit hurts.
Its a weird feeling, I can understand how alot of dudes become bitter. Its not like we really have a outlet for this kind of stuff were we can voice our frustrations and not be seen as a hoe either.
thats why we say to make sure the woman is all about u before u start to emotionally take her seriously.
a girl who's cooking for u
is ok doing boring stuff with u
wants to be right up under u wherever u go
doesn't have any guy friends u consider a threat, nor is she the flirty type to give strangers the idea they have a chance
this type of girl is the most likely to stay loyal to you.
if ur dating a girl that's got u feeling jealous or disrespected on a regular basis, u already know how the game goes.