Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Straight reckless nikka run fukk around and get u both killed.
i aint no parts of that. i hadnt talked to her in a year at that time. and she just gave no fukks. her man wasnt no scary nikka though.he looked like
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i just dont rock like that. :whoa: thats a no no. changed my number and left her ass alone. glad i did. with that number change im off the grid. now for me to move out of ny.
 

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Never call a chick after 8 p.m. it is a real hit and miss move, and it's a 100% miss if she decides not to pick it up because she's with another dude. You lose every time. She's going to assume that you're calling because you have no one else, and you will lose points in her eyes.

Matter of fact, I would suggest that you give your females until Thursday afternoon to make plans with you for the weekend. Otherwise, use Friday, Saturday, and possibly Sunday night to add women to the team.
 

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Never call a chick after 8 p.m. it is a real hit and miss move, and it's a 100% miss if she decides not to pick it up because she's with another dude. You lose every time. She's going to assume that you're calling because you have no one else, and you will lose points in her eyes.

Matter of fact, I would suggest that you give your females until Thursday afternoon to make plans with you for the weekend. Otherwise, use Friday, Saturday, and possibly Sunday night to add women to the team.


Thoughts on this fellas
 

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I'm going to say call her whenever you feel like it. If she's not picking up your call because she's with another man, then that's just a blatant signal to give her the boot. There are zero reasons to tip toe around these women and to strategize to get a small slice of their time.
 

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Man I'm about to stop hitting this chick up. I had her come through Tuesday but she stayed downstairs in my cousin room where her cousin stays with my cousin. I was down there and we talked and joked a bit but it felt like at the end nothing really was poppin. She was taking pictures of herself on my phone or pics of me and her and jokingly asking me who am I texting or w/e but when I dropped her off home, she said she'd call me when she get out the shower. She didn't call no one. she seemed kind of into me but then the lack of calling me since was odd. I asked her to come upstairs to my room but she was like "ohi came up last time lol". On top of that she did the typical "what is this guy saying to me here?" thing with some random texting her through Facebook. Idk I'm not gonna be chasing her.
 
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what books for this subject are in your top 5? question is for everyone

Im do a whole post on the books I read outside the thread that I feel is beneficial to read. It's going to be combined with the MEN that have influenced me to a degree it's a few PUAs that's worth they salt in there was well. I might drop it later today or tommrow. I feel like it's important dudes fully understand the redpill and realize it not just used on women it's a way of life.
 

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I'm going to say call her whenever you feel like it. If she's not picking up your call because she's with another man, then that's just a blatant signal to give her the boot. There are zero reasons to tip toe around these women and to strategize to get a small slice of their time.


Exactly, if I decide I want to talk to a woman I'm going to call, if she doesn't answer I leave a VM, Im not going to play by such a superficial rule as an 8pm deadline. Yesterday I text a woman I'm seeing and she called me about an hour later, we talked for 2 1/2 hrs. I didn't realize we were on the phone that long
 
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he's right.

...Yeah don't call chics on the weekend it makes it look like you don't have nothing else going on. Let the women call you or text you. That's what I mean by some of you nikka need to get a life go develop a hobbies and monetize it.
 

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Exactly, if I decide I want to talk to a woman I'm going to call, if she doesn't answer I leave a VM, Im not going to play by such a superficial rule as an 8pm deadline. Yesterday I text a woman I'm seeing and she called me about an hour later, we talked for 2 1/2 hrs. I didn't realize we were on the phone that long

First, these rules are for women that you have not smashed yet. Second, you should never be on the phone with a woman for 2.5 hours. For what? Third, we have all been that guy that was beating the brakes off that p*ssy, a nikka start calling, she sees the number, and throws it on silent. You don't wanna be that guy. Lastly, don't EVER leave a voice mail. Once again, for what? 9/10 she will see your missed call.
 

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Guys need to stop making these women into bosses and stop being the 'sidepiece'. You shouldn't be worried about the perfect time to call her. She should be worried about being by the phone to receive your call when you call her. A lot of men are stuck in the zone where they are dealing with unscrupulous women who are talking to multiple guys at once, so she feels that any one man's particular attention, unless he is on that other level, isn't worth much.

If you call a broad at a decent hour and she doesn't pick up, you're in that pile of negroes who are there for entertainment and who get ignored when she sees fit. Why reward that kind of broad with any of your time or attention, which is precious? As a man with a boss mentality, you shouldn't be tip-toeing around women. They should be eagerly awaiting for your call, and if she isn't, you need to move on to another woman who is. NEVER undervalue yourself when it comes to these women. If she isn't making herself easy to deal with by being cordial and easy to access, then she doesn't value you. Move on.
 

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Guys need to stop making these women into bosses and stop being the 'sidepiece'. You shouldn't be worried about the perfect time to call her. She should be worried about being by the phone to receive your call when you call her. A lot of men are stuck in the zone where they are dealing with unscrupulous women who are talking to multiple guys at once, so she feels that any one man's particular attention, unless he is on that other level, isn't worth much.

If you call a broad at a decent hour and she doesn't pick up, you're in that pile of negroes who are there for entertainment and who get ignored when she sees fit. Why reward that kind of broad with any of your time or attention, which is precious? As a man with a boss mentality, you shouldn't be tip-toeing around women. They should be eagerly awaiting for your call, and if she isn't, you need to move on to another woman who is. NEVER undervalue yourself when it comes to these women. If she isn't making herself easy to deal with by being cordial and easy to access, then she doesn't value you. Move on.


It's not tiptoeing around women. As a man with a boss mentality, if she's not contacting you by 8 p.m., you shouldn't be contacting her. If she's not making plans with you in advance to see you on the weekend, you should not be contacting her on the weekend. You don't want to be that guy that she calls the day of because the next n**** cancelled either.

As far as she's concerned, you got other s*** poppin, I don't have time to be on the phone with her chit-chatting about nothing. Phone call should be 5 -10 minutes max, and mainly talking about linking up.
 

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...Yeah don't call chics on the weekend it makes it look like you don't have nothing else going on. Let the women call you or text you. That's what I mean by some of you nikka need to get a life go develop a hobbies and monetize it.


So calling a woman at 1pm on a Saturday shows you have no life? I disagree, now I wouldn't be calling a woman on a Friday or Saturday night but during the day I don't see a problem. A couple years ago I was out and about on a Sunday afternoon, called this one chick to meet me for some ice cream and she showed up 30 min later
 

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Exactly, if I decide I want to talk to a woman I'm going to call, if she doesn't answer I leave a VM, Im not going to play by such a superficial rule as an 8pm deadline. Yesterday I text a woman I'm seeing and she called me about an hour later, we talked for 2 1/2 hrs. I didn't realize we were on the phone that long

you're going to learn sooner or later.
 
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