Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The Mad Titan]

thats why we say to make sure the woman is all about u before u start to emotionally take her seriously.

a girl who's cooking for u
is ok doing boring stuff with u
wants to be right up under u wherever u go
doesn't have any guy friends u consider a threat, nor is she the flirty type to give strangers the idea they have a chance

this type of girl is the most likely to stay loyal to you.

if ur dating a girl that's got u feeling jealous or disrespected on a regular basis, u already know how the game goes.

Oh I agree for the most part.


I've legit liked 4 people in the last 3 years and the last two are really opening my eye's as far as what a good woman will do for a man she likes. Its not about money, looks or anything social standard or anything. Its been really refreshing and it has me thinking back to what I use to find acceptable or L's I held.


I think that as a person you can only grow so much and so tall alone. You need that support from another to really reach that higher plane.

 

[Mr210]

Oh I agree for the most part.


I've legit liked 4 people in the last 3 years and the last two are really opening my eye's as far as what a good woman will do for a man she likes. Its not about money, looks or anything social standard or anything. Its been really refreshing and it has me thinking back to what I use to find acceptable or L's I held.


I think that as a person you can only grow so much and so tall alone. You need that support from another to really reach that higher plane.

I always thought you was a woman with the name Phoenix reborn

 

[Gus Money]

Dude you can mess with a woman outside your job and she can still screw your work life. I've dated 3 women that I either worked with directly or we worked at the same company but different departments. I never had an issue...but guess what I did have a woman I dated who lived 45 min away from me and she caused me problems at work for a brief moment

The thing is dating a co-worker isn't a black or white thing, I will say if you do go down that path, don't cheat, do right by her and make sure she has as much if not more to lose job wise and you will be good

It's just not worth it homie. You may have beaten the odds but that's not the norm. Having space is critical in a relationship and working together severely limits that.

 

[The Mad Titan]

I always thought you was a woman with the name Phoenix reborn

 

[Atlrocafella]

So this girl I had on the roster decided to break things off with me on Sunday because I wasn't giving her enough of my time, and she said she needed someone who could see her more than once a week lol, I was like cool, I've been winding down the roster anyway and been focusing on one girl at the moment ,

The very next day she got laid off from her job, and she's been hitting me nonstop asking when are we going to hang out again

Don't try and use me as your financial resource now, ain't no more hangouts

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

So this girl I had on the roster decided to break things off with me on Sunday because I wasn't giving her enough of my time, and she said she needed someone who could see her more than once a week lol, I was like cool, I've been winding down the roster anyway and been focusing on one girl at the moment ,

The very next day she got laid off from her job, and she's been hitting me nonstop asking when are we going to hang out again

Don't try and use me as your financial resource now, ain't no more hangouts

bytch has some nerve

 

[TRUEST]

bytch has some nerve

unless she's straight up asking him for money and was never putting in work in the relationship they had, i'm not sure ol girl has any blame here.

i cant blame her for breaking up with dude since he wasn't giving her the attention she needs. clearly, he was spending all that time he could/should have been spending with her with his main. so i cant fault her for wanting to get out of that arrangement.

its just unfortunate for her that she got laid off right after she did that.

@Atlrocafella

if this girl was good to you, and never really used u in the past, theres no need to be a d1ck to her, man. a job loss is very stressful. u dont want no illwill hanging over ur head unnecessarily. i'm all for vengeance. but being a d1ck unnecessarily is a nono.

 

[Atlrocafella]

unless she's straight up asking him for money and was never putting in work in the relationship they had, i'm not sure ol girl has any blame here.

i cant blame her for breaking up with dude since he wasn't giving her the attention she needs. clearly, he was spending all that time he could/should have been spending with her with his main. so i cant fault her for wanting to get out of that arrangement.

its just unfortunate for her that she got laid off right after she did that.

@Atlrocafella

if this girl was good to you, and never really used u in the past, theres no need to be a d1ck to her, man. a job loss is very stressful. u dont want no illwill hanging over ur head necessarily. i'm all for vengeance. but being a d1ck unnecessarily is a nono.

She was cool, didn't know her that long, only a couple of months. When we did hang out, I covered all expenses. She was having money problems when we first met, and I really didn't see anything long term with her anyway, so I wasn't upset when she decided to break things off. But if we are no longer kicking it like that, no need to keep hitting me up to hang out like we still talking, makes me believe that you are going to try and get some free meals out of me.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Man thinking back, when you really like someone and they on that BS it really hurts.

Like as a man I can say I don't often feel pain on a emotional level like that, partially because I never allow myself to open up like that and other things.


But thinking back really legit liking someone and thinking the feeling is mutual but everything else implies other wises, man it legit hurts.


Its a weird feeling, I can understand how alot of dudes become bitter. Its not like we really have a outlet for this kind of stuff were we can voice our frustrations and not be seen as a hoe either.

Yeah there is no place were a dudes can hate a chic and be comfortable.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Man even the greatest of all time went threw it This nikka said "I don't love dem hoes and it's like that "

 

[Mr210]

She was cool, didn't know her that long, only a couple of months. When we did hang out, I covered all expenses. She was having money problems when we first met, and I really didn't see anything long term with her anyway, so I wasn't upset when she decided to break things off. But if we are no longer kicking it like that, no need to keep hitting me up to hang out like we still talking, makes me believe that you are going to try and get some free meals out of me.

Follow your gut son, don't be rude but def know

 

[Kal El]

wtf? you do realize that's a work environment right???
the words "watch your tone" are fighting words. she probably didn't want to lose her job so she wants to set the record straight and make peace. maybe she's going through personal drama. either way, here u are thinking "oooo im in there".

Naw, afterwards when we talked she said she's been acting the way she is because "she has feelings for me"

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[SlimOG]

So my ex reached out to me last week after not talking for a few months. It started the same way as last time about how I don't reach out to her or care about keeping the friendship alive. Then she started to ask questions like: do you miss me, do you miss the sex we have, do you think about me, why don't you ever reach out to me. The crazy thing is she got engaged to the dude she was cheating on me with after we were broken up for 2 months. So I asked her, why do you only call me when your fiance isn't around. But fast forward to today, i reached out to her which was stupid, to ask a question I thought was funny. Just know all hell broke lose. I was called immature, stupid, crazy, etc. It ended with her saying she never wants to talk to me again. Now that the line of communication has finally been cut, I can enjoy life stress free, the way it was meant to be.

Take it from me, never reach out to an ex! I'm trying to save y'all from the headache and stress.

Her calling u was game she wanted to fukk tis all that was about I see u didn't peep that should her had her fall thru for that good ole ex sex and blew her fukkin back out and to the point to where she would second guessed getting married to dude now she is pissed cause u didn't serve her.

 

[SlimOG]

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My ex was wild. She would face time me at 2 am with her man asleep in the background

Straight reckless nikka run fukk around and get u both killed.