RichieRich
Beg my pardon to Martin...
nah....we had to sift thru indepickwest's bullshyt posts. this is the man cave, plenty of space in TLR
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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Don't overwhelm yourself breh.p*ssy just fallin in my lap b.
I'm on a unprecedented run.
To all my brehs that are doing online dating, on the first meetup/date I would keep it real simple and go get ice cream or drinks at Starbucks and then the next time do an actual date
If that first meet up goes well it will make the first date that much more enjoyable
If that first meet up goes well it will make the first date that much more enjoyable
That or if you can cook bring them over
got a byrd coming over tomorrow imma cook a basic dish and she bringing liquour. EzThat or if you can cook bring them over
Personally I don't want a chick coming over to my crib that early in the game
I mean if you dating you want to smash right. Take away a lot of the middle man shyt by just having her come to the crib. I know how to shoot a gun. I aint scared lol
u meet her on monday, u set something up for saturday? that's a bad move. its a sure way to get canceled on. u take it, if the girl's attractive, there will be far more aggressive dudes on there who know what they're doing who's going to set a date for like the next day.
all that pushing dates deep into the week is for a chicks u've already fuccked. a chick with no sort of attachment to u will cancel on u with the quickness, if something better comes along. and if ur in the online dating realm, that's far more likely than u can imagine.
Gtfoh
You got the right idea with keeping it simple and not spending much money for the first date.... But a date like Starbucks makes it too much like an interview. Gives you no room to escalate or get physical.
Do something where you're on the move, like walking in the park or along the beach. Takes some pressure off the convo since you can bounce conversation off the environment and by people watching.
Also, no day dates. Day dates = friendzone
Leave that for when y'all are in a relationship.
Set up your date right before sunset or in the evening.
The closes beach is like 3 hrs away I always laugh when people mention a beach as though every city has one. I do agree with you on day dates, I think that's where I went wrong with the girl I posted about last week that friend zone me. We met 5 times and 3 of them were during the day, but with me working evenings right now I didn't have a lot of options
When I was in San Antonio I took em to the Riverwalk just to walk around and talk and to eat the food court simple cheap effective that was during the day
Sometimes on post to park or bowling alley
Best part bout it was if she feeling u a lot she real quick for that pda
Ok so next question about I woman I met on POF last night:
She is 10 yrs older than me we exchanged about 5-6 messages, it was around 1130 pm. Well she states that she was tired but was liking what she was hearing and wanted to continue the conversation today and gave me her number without me asking and said goodnight. So like I stated earlier I work evenings, I was thinking later today I hit her up by text and after 2-3 messages, ask her out for Saturday night. How does that sound?
She is 10 yrs older than me we exchanged about 5-6 messages, it was around 1130 pm. Well she states that she was tired but was liking what she was hearing and wanted to continue the conversation today and gave me her number without me asking and said goodnight. So like I stated earlier I work evenings, I was thinking later today I hit her up by text and after 2-3 messages, ask her out for Saturday night. How does that sound?
