True Blue Moon
Superstar
Good stuff. There's way too much content out there to not become the highest version of yourself.
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Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Most definitely. After I broke up with my shorty and started going hard in the gym I realized I needed to elevate my mind at the same time I was elevating my body. I read the rational male, no more Mr Nice Guy, the 48 laws of power, and the art of seduction in the span of a couple months. Right now I'm reading a book called hardwiring happiness. I want to improve my outlook on things and be a more positive person overall.
Also, you hit the nail on the head earlier when you were talking about needing to dig deep and uncover the source of sexual shortcomings. I was in the same boat. I wasn't lasting as long with women in the bedroom as I felt I should've been and I had to sit down and really analyze what I was doing and how it was affecting me mentally. I decided I needed to completely ditch pornography because I had warped my mind to the point that it was always looking for the quick climax. So I've been off porn, lifting, and reading a bunch and man it feels so good. I honestly feel like a completely different man now and I have so much more potential to tap into.
I'm gonna jump into the Sex God method after I finish what I'm currently reading. Good looks for the link. I'm telling you this thread is truly amazing and I'm glad it has continued to progress the way it has.
True Blue Moon
Superstar
Fellow warrior on the path
Pushing your mind and body is so crucial because they're one and the same. The body leads the mind and vice versa. When you have good info and a strong body, you'll have the confidence and will to both remember and put the knowledge you learned into action with a clear mind.
Trusting the intelligence in your body (i.e. your feelings and gut instincts) is definitely the way to become the total package as a man. Aligning those energies to serve you makes you feel like you can do anything.
Off the top of my head, when I'm doing the following, I feel like the world is mine and I can do anything:
- Reading and listening to quality self-development content
- Eating clean -- lean meats, smoothies with kale/spinach, avocado, bananas and other good nutrients
- Regular meditation
- Jiu-jitsu, yoga and pushups (haven't gotten back to the weights yet, but I'm going to)
- Cold showers multiple times per day
- Journaling to organize my thoughts, dump the brain clutter and review the things that are important for me to remember
- Cutting porn out completely
- Deep breathing exercises
I invite you and everyone else to keep dropping literature that you're reading or that has helped you.
You're right about this thread being powerful. We need time apart from women to sharpen each other up as men with no ego involved.
You see, @Dmitri , you might have felt alone in what you're going through, but because you had a safe place to put your ego aside and share with your brothers, you can quickly see that it's not just you. Me, @Mister_DoItNice and probably a hundred other dudes in this thread have similar experiences.
We can only be so vulnerable around our women, so I don't take these kinds of conversations lightly, because we can become better men instead of suffering by ourselves.
Okay so I'm going to try to answer it the best I can. When I said I liked to be dominated, I don't like being in control, 100% submissive. I like being tied up, handcuffed, blind folded basically any type of activity where I basically can't "run". I guess you can say BDSM? I like rough sex, pulling hair, being choked, biting, denying me orgasms (teased), I don't believe in making love and yes, I have been in relationships with men and I still feel as when we had sex there was a connection. I like being "pounded" and I know it can be tiring for some men. That's what I like, and I had a ex that told me that sex with me was draining him mentally because of everything I was into. I hope I explained it well enough for you to get an idea.
True Blue Moon
Superstar
I definitely get what you're saying. Thanks for sharing.
Does it make you feel more feminine, or overtaken by masculine power by being that submissive? I find that 90% of women want some form of that, but when you have to tell the guy it ruins the thrill of it.
My natural inclination is to be dominant, but we get mixed messages in society, so it's still easy to slip into nice guy mode. You can still show a woman you love her or can form a connection just as much by pounding her and owning her. The act of a woman giving herself to you like that is
to the point that it's almost disrespectful to her gift of submitting to you to hold back and be timid about it.reserved_one
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Not really...Me being me i was being confident saying how good it was going to be to her and it came back to haunt me
I definitely get what you're saying. Thanks for sharing.
Does it make you feel more feminine, or overtaken by masculine power by being that submissive? I find that 90% of women want some form of that, but when you have to tell the guy it ruins the thrill of it.
My natural inclination is to be dominant, but we get mixed messages in society, so it's still easy to slip into nice guy mode. You can still show a woman you love her or can form a connection just as much by pounding her and owning her. The act of a woman giving herself to you like that is
Yes, I can agree to say it makes me feel more feminine. I think just letting him being in control and knowing I'm okay with basically anything. I honestly haven't came across too many men that's into BDSM and not really open to it. Many men want to get their nut and go to sleep lol or don't want to put that much work in. It feels good when you actually find someone that's on the same level with you sexually. I guess as I get older sex has became more mental than physical, if that makes sense.
True Blue Moon
Superstar
Makes perfect sense. I've definitely been diving deeper into the mental aspect and feel like there's a lot missed out on focusing only on sticking it in and getting a nut.
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Life changing literature
Sex God Method
Download Daniel Rose Sex God Method pdf
Way of the Superior Man
https://www.pdf-archive.com/2015/08/20/the-way-of-the-superior-man/the-way-of-the-superior-man.pdf
Audio teachings:
I invite anyone in this thread to take in this info with an open mind. Let's sharpen each other up and have a dialogue about the content.
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So a chick pulled up on me and gave me her number at the gas station...I didn't really find her attractive but I feel like that boldness may procure some relatively easy box 
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What was unattractive about her? Call that female & get things popping.So a chick pulled up on me and gave me her number at the gas station...I didn't really find her attractive but I feel like that boldness may procure some relatively easy box
Face wasn't all that (not the worst)...body wasn't all that, average size but not much curvature to it...a little hood
I'm going on a trip tomorrow and can't do shyt right now anyway so I got time to decide
So a chick pulled up on me and gave me her number at the gas station...I didn't really find her attractive but I feel like that boldness may procure some relatively easy box
Gotta think about all possible outcomes here brehs. Everybody ain't clean & living right out here.to the brehs out there dealing with unsatisfied partners. while its important to make sure ur woman gets her nut, u must understand that some women are simply insatiable. I've known women who want to go 3 rounds in a row. others can't stop getting wet by just the mere touch of a man who lifts wait. like y'all coulda just fuccked 2ice in a row and within half hour, she's playing with ur d1ck trying to get it hard again. while that kinda attention can make u start feeling urself, my advise to you, don't lose ur mind trying to please these women.
porn has ruined sex for not just men, but women too. they watch that sh1t too. and also, given the desperate nature of men, a lot of these women have engaged in nasty activities with no-good hood n1ggas that done ate their ass, allowed them to piss on them, and all types of crazy sh1t. so they've come to expect these ridiculous things from other n1ggas they do date.
i'll put it like this. I've had to just let go a couple of women in the last few months who just made me hate sex. i don't like to feel sex as a chore. no matter how much i like a woman. and it got to that point. so much mental tug of war that when time came to fucck, these women would be hella heated i couldn't stay hard for them. thats when i realized it aint worth it and said to hell with it.
just avoid porn, take ur vitamins and look for a compatible partner.
porn has ruined sex for not just men, but women too. they watch that sh1t too. and also, given the desperate nature of men, a lot of these women have engaged in nasty activities with no-good hood n1ggas that done ate their ass, allowed them to piss on them, and all types of crazy sh1t. so they've come to expect these ridiculous things from other n1ggas they do date.
i'll put it like this. I've had to just let go a couple of women in the last few months who just made me hate sex. i don't like to feel sex as a chore. no matter how much i like a woman. and it got to that point. so much mental tug of war that when time came to fucck, these women would be hella heated i couldn't stay hard for them. thats when i realized it aint worth it and said to hell with it.
just avoid porn, take ur vitamins and look for a compatible partner.