Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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one of the best ways to weed out women who may not be good for you is to tell them "i want us both to get checked before we do anything". lol. the ones who are promiscuous, who probably aint gotten checked in a while, and who know they probably have something will dip out quick. others will try very hard to convince u they don't have anything because they always use protection lol.
 

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@Shadow King Are you Kent nikka? Every piece advice anyone gives you, you got an excuse:gucci:

With your mentality you wont improve with women out here. Change the way you think breh.

You gotta really want it, you clearly dont want it.
I might be :manny:
I already told @True Blue Moon I might not be cut out for the "improve with women" life. So maybe I don't want it.

Until I'm happy with myself I won't be happy chasing p*ssy.
 

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Nah, knowing girls, I highly doubt the few things she pointed out are the actual deal breakers. Somethings are just too fragile or awkward to bring up. Dude is most likely doing many feminine things. This is often the case for men who were raised in a women dominated household.
Yeah, I'm moreso picturing goofy jokes like how Will Smith did in Fresh Prince. But if it's some deeply engrained stuff that's just straight up non-masculine then that's different.
 

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I might be :manny:
I already told @True Blue Moon I might not be cut out for the "improve with women" life. So maybe I don't want it.

Until I'm happy with myself I won't be happy chasing p*ssy.

Breh, I feel you, but on some love shyt it's borderline disrespectful to keep coming in the thread telling everyone why you can't do anything.

It's like if we're in a running group, right. The point is to get in shape and become the best version of yourself with support all around you as long as you show up.

Some of us are ripped as fukk and marathon runners. Some of us are former athletes who wanna get back into shape. Some of us don't have an athletic bone in our bodies, but have diabetes in our family so wanna start good habits. Some of us are fat as fukk and always the last one to finish, but get better by a little bit each time.

But the point is we're all here for each other and bonding over the fact that while everyone else is bullshytting and making excuses, we got out of bed at 6 a.m. and kept our word with each other to get just a little bit better today.

It's like you're showing up and complaining to everyone about how your shins are fukked up, your feet hurt and you can't run today because of XYZ reason. So you sit on the park bench every time and wait for us to finish busting our ass.

Trying is a part of life breh. If it's not about women, this will show up in a thousand other areas. You got help all around you but refuse to even lace your sneakers up :manny:

Nah, you haven't even bought your sneakers yet, homie. You're on jogging forums telling people why certain brands of sneakers hurt your feet so you'll stick with the ones you got, and then using that same excuse every time you join the group.

You telling me you can't do ONE SINGLE THING to get better breh?

I don't speak for everyone, but again, on some love shyt, it's my opinion that if you're not gonna even try, just lurk and then start posting again once your mind is right and you're ready to at least think about attempting a half of a baby step.
 

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Breh, I feel you, but on some love shyt it's borderline disrespectful to keep coming in the thread telling everyone why you can't do anything.

It's like if we're in a running group, right. The point is to get in shape and become the best version of yourself with support all around you as long as you show up.

Some of us are ripped as fukk and marathon runners. Some of us are former athletes who wanna get back into shape. Some of us don't have an athletic bone in our bodies, but have diabetes in our family so wanna start good habits. Some of us are fat as fukk and always the last one to finish, but get better by a little bit each time.

But the point is we're all here for each other and bonding over the fact that while everyone else is bullshytting and making excuses, we got out of bed at 6 a.m. and kept our word with each other to get just a little bit better today.

It's like you're showing up and complaining to everyone about how your shins are fukked up, your feet hurt and you can't run today because of XYZ reason. So you sit on the park bench every time and wait for us to finish busting our ass.

Trying is a part of life breh. If it's not about women, this will show up in a thousand other areas. You got help all around you but refuse to even lace your sneakers up :manny:

Nah, you haven't even bought your sneakers yet, homie. You're on jogging forums telling people why certain brands of sneakers hurt your feet so you'll stick with the ones you got, and then using that same excuse every time you join the group.

You telling me you can't do ONE SINGLE THING to get better breh?

I don't speak for everyone, but again, on some love shyt, it's my opinion that if you're not gonna even try, just lurk and then start posting again once your mind is right and you're ready to at least think about attempting a half of a baby step.
I can be a better me which I've failed to do this year outside of one aspect.

And the underlined is what I'll do.
 

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@True Blue Moon @Bboy y'all got any books that could help change mentally?


Trying to change my outlook and Perception
Any specific mental change you looking for breh? Maybe tell me a little bit about your current thought process or what sort of edge you're trying to gain and I'll see what books jump out at me.
 

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one of the best ways to weed out women who may not be good for you is to tell them "i want us both to get checked before we do anything". lol. the ones who are promiscuous, who probably aint gotten checked in a while, and who know they probably have something will dip out quick. others will try very hard to convince u they don't have anything because they always use protection lol.
That's not totally accurate...ask to see her phone>>text messages..this method says alot and you'll know how much she likes you, the guys she's currently seeing if any, unresolved issues with exes etc etc.
 

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Damn a nicca can't do a happy dance and use lip balm:hhh: Of course a dude doing female impressions will raise a flag but come on
It's not just that, those are the things she brought up, that girl been peeping out sons whole demeanor. The way he walks, talks, mannerisms, lays in bed all that. She has her idea of what makes a man "masculine" and how a man "should act".

After what she said there's no going back, she violated his whole manhood. If I was him I would fukk the shyt outta her a couple more times, go all out since apparently son ain't "man" enough for her, then ghost her.
 
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