Always call if she's a quality girl
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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After ending some bullshyt long distance/Innanets connections there's officially no women in my life that aren't related to me 
And one would know this how?
prettygiftedgenius
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So i met this chick online brehs. and we’ve been dating for like 2 months now. we’ve gotten real close in a short space of time and I’m real comfortable around her - more than I’ve been with any girl in fact.
She has a good job, her own spot, Car, She’s cultured and comes from a really good family.
A couple days ago, we were at her spot and she was cooking for me and she let me taste a little and i busted out into a little happy dance ( kind of like that one ice-t is doing when he’s eating that bowl of cereal - I’m sure you’ve seen that gif ) anyway she’s like “don’t do that”. I’m like “do what”? she’s like “whatever that just was” I’m like “cool - say no more”. Brushed it off.
A couple days later I’m at her house again and she’s acting all distant like something is bothering her. I ask her whats up many times and she finally gives in and tells me.
She said that she’s kept quiet for a minute and brushed most of it off but she think i display female characteristics. One being that dance i did when she was cooking for me, and the fact i use lip balm a lot. she even was brave enough to actually ask me if I would ever date a guy. I also remember a conversation we had a while ago and she told me she’s worried about me cause the way i act is all new to her and she used to a “Mans, Man”.
I actually bushed her after that comment to be honest, but she was on my phone crying some foolishness about she thinks we could work it out, she’s “kinda” sorry for her comments or whatever.
Every thing in my soul is telling me to bush this chick before she steps to me with more bullshyt, but i don’t know what it is. The sex is amazing, her body is absolutely ridiculous. I partly think i could keep it as a booty call if i go along with her foolishness but I’m not sure its worth the headache.
What do i do my good peoples?
She has a good job, her own spot, Car, She’s cultured and comes from a really good family.
A couple days ago, we were at her spot and she was cooking for me and she let me taste a little and i busted out into a little happy dance ( kind of like that one ice-t is doing when he’s eating that bowl of cereal - I’m sure you’ve seen that gif ) anyway she’s like “don’t do that”. I’m like “do what”? she’s like “whatever that just was” I’m like “cool - say no more”. Brushed it off.
A couple days later I’m at her house again and she’s acting all distant like something is bothering her. I ask her whats up many times and she finally gives in and tells me.
She said that she’s kept quiet for a minute and brushed most of it off but she think i display female characteristics. One being that dance i did when she was cooking for me, and the fact i use lip balm a lot. she even was brave enough to actually ask me if I would ever date a guy. I also remember a conversation we had a while ago and she told me she’s worried about me cause the way i act is all new to her and she used to a “Mans, Man”.
I actually bushed her after that comment to be honest, but she was on my phone crying some foolishness about she thinks we could work it out, she’s “kinda” sorry for her comments or whatever.
Every thing in my soul is telling me to bush this chick before she steps to me with more bullshyt, but i don’t know what it is. The sex is amazing, her body is absolutely ridiculous. I partly think i could keep it as a booty call if i go along with her foolishness but I’m not sure its worth the headache.
What do i do my good peoples?
Mr.bocario
Superstar
Sounds like it's alread ova, but you always want to be with a girl you can be comfortable around.
As far as that little dance you did, a lot of girls like silly shyt like that so get with them.
Because of the society we live in, women have a fukked up perception on what manhood actually is.
always act masculine around women. women do not, i repeat, DO NOT like feminine behavior on men. that happy dance may be cute to some girls, but trust, it isnt cute to most. and even the girls that its cute to, may find it funny at first, but if u continue doing it, her attraction to u will decrease. the girl in ur situation cant control her natural instinct. she likes u, but, her instinct is telling her "this is not a real man. he cant protect me. he acts like a child".
i was with one of my exes years ago at her friends house. one of the dudes at the getogether was telling a story about some girl. and as he was telling the story, he attempted to be funny by mimicking how the girl talked. in doing so, he made body movements that was purely feminine. and within milliseconds of him doing that, one of the females in there (i think his aunt) told him "dont ever do that again". that;s not cute! it was like her natural instinct to reprimand him. and as an observer, i saw the whole thing and it was not cute on him at all. little sh1t like that can drop a girls attraction for you, FAST! for this dude, i guess he felt comfortable doing that because he was at his family's gathering.
in ur situation, OP, i honestly cant blame your girl. and u shouldnt. she was brought into ur life to make u a man. i strongly recommend u reconnect with this girl and get ur head straight. do experiments on her (without her knowing). take her out, handle everything. dont ask for her input. just surprise her. u do this for a week or two, and i wouldnt be surprised if she hits u with the "I think im falling in love with you". women love dudes who handle things and all they have to do is get dressed and show up. its called courting. (dont take a mile out of this and end up in a relationship where u allow the girl to do nothing while u carry the burden of the relationship!).
After ending some bullshyt long distance/Innanets connections there's officially no women in my life that aren't related to me
And one would know this how?
because, most girls with quality want QUALITY time with a her. Anyone can text and and its not the same as vocal communication. Plus if she's on the phone with you, she ain't on the phone with anyone else.
Majestic
Believe in myself and the Coles and Kendricks
Tinder?
True Blue Moon
Superstar
Exactly. Dudes need to stop hiding behind self-development and "getting my money right" and face their fears of dealing with women. A man who doesn't know how to deal with women is not self-developed.
True Blue Moon
Superstar
We're all about manning up but this one just seems like you're gonna have to let her go do her. She sees it as some sissy stuff, whereas another chick just as bad might laugh her ass off at the dance and appreciate that you keep your lips up for kissing
It's one thing if she's pointing out habits you already don't like about yourself, but if you feel good doing a happy dance and using lip balm then stand on it and let her make whatever life decision she needs to from there breh.
agree with everything except the bold. a girl cant do shyt to make a man, a man...other than being fukked by said man. In fact, girls will often try their best to do the exact opposite. Many black girls i come across try their hardest to feminize men by getting them to speak a certain way (romantic and sweet), be sensitive, take an interest in certain (typically female) interests, listening to feminine music (like beyonce, rihanna), watching feminine shows (reality TV) etc. Like you said a man has to be strong however. Give in and that attraction will decrease.
Broads upset about lip balm usage and doing some happy dance? 
prettygiftedgenius
Rookie
I did this all in month 1. she hit me early with "i kinda think im falling in love with you and wondering if im going to be a good father if we were to have kids. but now i think about it - in hindsight i gave her way too much of my time at the start and i think the attraction is starting to wear off.
prettygiftedgenius
Rookie
POF.
been saying this for years. no reason you cant work on yourself and simultaneously fornicate with women. sure you might not attract all the women you want because youre not situated in every facet of your life. But who is? Especially around that mid 20 age. Most girls I meet in their early-mid 20s dont have anything figured out or are just getting their lives sorted out. But what...because they look good drenched in a bunch of make up, got big titties or a big booty youre supposed to bow down to them?
that shyt is backwards.
meh. that calling shyt is overrated. most girls (millennials especially) cant even hold a conversation on the phone. many wont even pick up cause they know they cant hold a convo and will find you weird for calling. there is no right or wrong answer. above all else, keep phone game to a minimum and try to meet up with these girls