Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Thanks for sharing man. Autobiography of Malcolm X is something that me and like 4 of my friends ended up all finding and reading right around graduating high school. That book is timeless for young men.

How old are you now? You're way ahead of the game mentally for a young dude, so that'll carry you far. But it's not uncommon for intense pain to make you phenomenal if you use it and don't let it break you.

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You know something funny? Malcolm's story is so well known I never read his autobiography. He got a lot of screen time in Muhammad Ali's though. I'm 18. I discovered game at 13 (Solve My Girl Problems) so it's been five years of studying. I hope y'all gain from that knowledge in spite of my youth. The tragedy was fine. I was an egomaniac, and I needed to grow up. Appreciate the salute my man!
 

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I'm convinced 90% of lightskin girls are mentally ill. i'm done with em :mjcry:

of course they are.

they're wanted by black men who dont want to marry white women but prefer light skin.
and they're wanted by white men or people of other races who can tell their racist parents "well, she's half and half - so u cant really hate her"
so a lot of them deal with men who kiss their asses. when dealing with these types of chicks, u goto make sure u establish a "take it or leave it" attitude early on. because they have a very good sense of identifying guys who are enamored by them.
 

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Had to pass by my school today for some errands , once i got out ..i peeped this haitian chick with the fattest ass infront of me also leaving the school.
i wasnt nervous at all , caught up to her and just asked her "how's your day going?" , she said its going better now :wow: , had a small talk with her
and got her number , havent hit her up yet but i will tomorrow.
 

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You know something funny? Malcolm's story is so well known I never read his autobiography. He got a lot of screen time in Muhammad Ali's though. I'm 18. I discovered game at 13 (Solve My Girl Problems) so it's been five years of studying. I hope y'all gain from that knowledge in spite of my youth. The tragedy was fine. I was an egomaniac, and I needed to grow up. Appreciate the salute my man!
Bro, don't take for granted how ahead of the game you are. I'm 31 and believe me when I say that this is something the majority of men never figure out. And most that do never go past gut instincts and exchanging notes with their pops, uncles and boys.

To be not only this well read at 18 years old, but APPLYING that knowledge to cultivate yourself as a well rounded man tells me you're a cut above. So big respect.
 

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Question to any breh willing to help...
Met this girl on snap like a year, but I was in a relationship so I didn't mind her that much. Now (about a year later) I'm free and see she post some Bs in her feelings about her bf( he was taking another girl out ).

So I finesse my way into here messages and end up smoking with her the next day. She tells me she's about to head to college this week and shows interest in hanging out with me agian. We set up a plan for me to visit her this weekend with a bottle. She then suggest would I want to spend the night cause she doesn't want me drinking and driving.

Although while posting snaps of her Bf ,she is low key clowning him. Is she giving me that window or is she gonna pull the bf card after the turn up, how should I go about this?
 
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Had to pass by my school today for some errands , once i got out ..i peeped this haitian chick with the fattest ass infront of me also leaving the school.
i wasnt nervous at all , caught up to her and just asked her "how's your day going?" , she said its going better now :wow: , had a small talk with her
and got her number , havent hit her up yet but i will tomorrow.


:jawalrus:
 

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The most important quality in a woman is how she treats you.


Realize this last night. About two or three years ago I would of put up with being treated anyway by a woman if I liked her.


But now if I feel like you aint treating me &Respecting me in a way that I should be treated then she can go about her by business :camby:


It's to many women out here and I value Self Respect
 

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Question to any breh willing to help...
Met this girl on snap like a year, but I was in a relationship so I didn't mind her that much. Now (about a year later) I'm free and see she post some Bs in her feelings about her bf( he was taking another girl out ).

So I finesse my way into here messages and end up smoking with her the next day. She tells me she's about to head to college this week and shows interest in hanging out with me agian. We set up a plan for me to visit her this weekend with a bottle. She then suggest would I want to spend the night cause she doesn't want me drinking and driving.

Although while posting snaps of her Bf ,she is low key clowning him. Is she giving me that window or is she gonna pull the bf card after the turn up, how should I go about this?

Help me on this one she's a young, black, thick, neglected softball queen:ohlawd:
I'D just go with the flow and See what happens
 
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Anyone have a list of good ice breakers and convo "continuers"? I'm tired of using my Luther Vandross approach; asking them for their name and where they're from gets kind of repetitive and usually leads to small talk limbo.
 

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Me and my girl had a minor disagreement a few days ago..

Since then we haven't been in communication much since.. and i haven't initiated contact (something she's used to)

So, last night she text me the following

'the number one cause of women cheating is lack of attention from their lover'

wtf? How would y'all respond to this? Am i wrong for seeing this as some disrespectful shyt?
 

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Me and my girl had a minor disagreement a few days ago..

Since then we haven't been in communication much since.. and i haven't initiated contact (something she's used to)

So, last night she text me the following

'the number one cause of women cheating is lack of attention from their lover'

wtf? How would y'all respond to this? Am i wrong for seeing this as some disrespectful shyt?
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Anyone have a list of good ice breakers and convo "continuers"? I'm tired of using my Luther Vandross approach; asking them for their name and where they're from gets kind of repetitive and usually leads to small talk limbo.


Use the weather, use the environment (concert, bus stop, vacation etc) where is she from, where does she hang out,

Asking where she is from can open up topics about having cousins down there, supporting their home soorts team, local rapper, if u ever been there, if u would like to go there, ask her some nice spots to check out in that area etc
 
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