how u get no ass for 9 years n how u get outfrom no buns in 8-9 years to potentially 4 on my rosterin one .
how u get no ass for 9 years n how u get outfrom no buns in 8-9 years to potentially 4 on my rosterin one .
hpu shouldn't have to "try" to make someone hit friend.Y'all ever been with a chick when she wasn't in the right place so to speak but now she not tryna date you after she went away for 4 years ... cus I'm tryna grt back with her for shyt at least be friends again cus she was my best friend and I can't lie I miss that shyt so much I'm just so confused on what to do. Do I try to make things work out or just give up. Like school boy q said is it really true if you ducked her once you can fukk her twice bruhs??
This isn't unpopular at all and actually what plenty of dudes in here preach.I have an unpopular opinion that I'd like to share.
I'm 23 and I don't believe in having a girlfriend or a long term relationship until I'm in the 28-32 age range.
I'd like to finish school and build a career, some money, a good friend network etc. Honestly, having a relationship is very low in my priority list. Over the past year, I've cut off a lot of people and changed up my habits, health, and read a lot of books to change my general mindset and I'm so at ease with myself that I rarely feel lonely. It could also be subconscious; my parents don't like each other and a lot of men / dudes I've seen that are in relationships have turned soft. The last thing I want to do is turn soft in a sink or swim world.
Chime in and tell me what you guys think.
ight hope this shyt work out to be honesthpu shouldn't have to "try" to make someone hit friend.
As far as getting back with her, it depends on how your last encounter went but the general idea is to ask her out and make a move if she's unsure, you tell her to text you when her schedule frees up and don't contact until she contacts you first even if you never speak to her again. If she flat out says no, tell her that's too bad and to text you if she changes her mind and again no contact until she does.
You basically let her know what you want and leave it up to her. Of course you dont wait for her. You can't lose.
So I met a massage therapist just walking..I said hi..she smiled so I went in..we talked walked to her bus got her number.
We set up plans for the beach tomorrow..and she hits me with this after we set plans...mind you
I DIDN'T mention sex first..she did.
"Im going to be upfront, I'm loyal and supportive friend but I gain no fulfillment in a quick roll in the hay....I think we could have a great time tomorrow but it could be a one time thing...what do you think/feel?"
I just put
Me: I'm glad that you say supportive and loyal..as those are traits I admire and they describe me..I don't believe 2morro will be a one time thing..
She replies
"Great see you at noon"
Going by the body language I believe my foot is halfway in the door...
My plan is just have fun but obviously try to fukk..I feel she wrote that to gauge my aggressiveness![]()
getting kinda sick and tired of being nice to with some of these hoes man. But I guess thats a bit of a problem in itself right?
Some of these chics you really gotta DOG em and they fukk with it![]()