Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Deafheaven

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:patrice: I just do regular shyt, I call,text and make sure I make myself Available... one of the things that's hurting me right now is my lack of options.. And that's makes me.. I don't want say desperate.. but I become attached and a little bit clingy... but that's because the lack of options.. my last date was last Thursday. It was a late last minute thing so we just went to the lake front and chilled and talked about past relationship' s,Things we been through, we was just basically getting to know each other better.

It's like things will be going good in the beginning and then all of a sudden they'll just start to pull back from me and things will end after that.. this keeps happening tho that's how I know im the problem
If she wants to talk about her past relationships that early let her but you want to get off that topic with the quickness. It builds 0 attraction.
 

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If she wants to talk about her past relationships that early let her but you want to get off that topic with the quickness. It builds 0 attraction.

This. Had one date use a portion of our time to talk about her dating experiences smh. I even don't like to discuss stuff like "What's your type?" or "What was your past relationship like?"

Last real good date we had no discussion about previous relationships.
 

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This. Had one date use a portion of our time to talk about her dating experiences smh. I even don't like to discuss stuff like "What's your type?" or "What was your past relationship like?"

Last real good date we had no discussion about previous relationships.
I just say yeah we couldn't love each other how we thought we deserved from the other so we ended it or some other vague poetic bullshyt. Never bad mouth, never go in depth. the hell she need to know all that info for we just met :ld: I know nikkas that bad mouth they ex like no tomorrow to chicks and i'm like that chick probably like "damn what if we break up he gonna drag me too". If you aint got nice shyt to say about a past relationship don't. at least in the dating phase.
 

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I just say yeah we couldn't love each other how we thought we deserved from the other so we ended it or some other vague poetic bullshyt. Never bad mouth, never go in depth. the hell she need to know all that info for we just met :ld: I know nikkas that bad mouth they ex like no tomorrow to chicks and i'm like that chick probably like "damn what if we break up he gonna drag me too". If you aint got nice shyt to say about a past relationship don't. at least in the dating phase.


One girl I slept with said she appreciated that I didn't dog my ex.

I don't do that shyt at all because it's a reflection of who I choose to have in my life first and foremost. I also hold most my exes in dignity.
 

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“The goal for every female animal is to find a mate with sufficient genetic quality to make a good husband, a good father or a good sire. The goal for every male animal is often to find as many wives as possible, and sometimes to find good mothers and dams, only rarely to find good wives. The sex that invests most in rearing the young – by carrying a foetus for nine months in its belly, for example – is the sex that makes least marginal profit from an extra mating. The sex that invests least has time to spare to seek other mates. Therefore, broadly speaking, males invest less and seek quantity of mates, while females invest more and seek quality of mates.”

“Males act as a kind of genetic sieve: only the best males get to breed and the constant reproductive extinction of bad males constantly purges bad genes from the population.3 From time to time, it has been suggested that this is the ‘purpose’ of males, but that commits the fallacy of assuming that evolution designs what is best for the species.”

Matt Ridley, "The Red Queen".
 

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Fake it until you make it...what is a normal day like for you?
That's probably what I'm do so.

I work full time, 5 Days a week, money is real tight so I can't get out and do much like I would like to. So a normal off day im either in the gym,Chilling with one of my homies,in the Crib chilling solo.

I work downtown Chicago. So I'm I'm always around different type of women, im just in a slump right now
 

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am I the only nikka that gotta grab the ass on the first date on that goodbye hug, gotta let shyt be known from the jump aint no friend zone shyt over here :shaq:

I do it while kissing and go as far as even nimbling and sucking on her chin ain't no damn confusion their when she weak in knees after that :myman:
 

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I just say yeah we couldn't love each other how we thought we deserved from the other so we ended it or some other vague poetic bullshyt. Never bad mouth, never go in depth. the hell she need to know all that info for we just met :ld: I know nikkas that bad mouth they ex like no tomorrow to chicks and i'm like that chick probably like "damn what if we break up he gonna drag me too". If you aint got nice shyt to say about a past relationship don't. at least in the dating phase.

nah women are too smart for that. she'll automatically assume the negative and think she didnt LOVE YOU as much as you wanted her to. which leads to other questions like "why didnt she love him. whats wrong with him.".

be even more vague:

her: why did you and your ex break up?
you: our principles just werent' aligned. i wish her the best though.
her: can you elaborate?
you: lol no. come on. thats the past. let's leave it there.
 

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lol. Haven't texted this girl since Thursday. Think I'm gonna text her today. Sister told me to wait until tomorrow.

I'm trying to learn how to text less..less is more and not try to start a full conversation over text and lose the spark.

Damn I talk too much :russ:
 

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lol. Haven't texted this girl since Thursday. Think I'm gonna text her today. Sister told me to wait until tomorrow.

I'm trying to learn how to text less..less is more and not try to start a full conversation over text and lose the spark.

Damn I talk too much :russ:
text her if u want. but after this, if she doesnt initiate a text, dead it
 

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lol. Haven't texted this girl since Thursday. Think I'm gonna text her today. Sister told me to wait until tomorrow.

I'm trying to learn how to text less..less is more and not try to start a full conversation over text and lose the spark.

Damn I talk too much :russ:


Dont.


Start gettin busy with goals. The more u invest in urself the less attached/clingy u will be.
 
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