Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[ViShawn]

@AdvantageSouthpaw

I thought you were talking about the date went wack with the new chick you're excited about at first

Ha no this was some boring ass blonde I met online also. But I should have known

 

[Shadow King]

Just start talking to people breh. It really is that easy. Ask questions and let them talk. Respond to what they say. Talk to everyone. If you talk to everyone half of those people will be women and you may find half of them attractive and you may vibe with half of those attractive ones, etc...

Point is, you gotta start and you can't stop. It's difficult approaching a female when you haven't had a light convo with anyone all day. That's like coming off the bench for the first time and being asked to hit the clutch shot. Nah get into the game early. Get loose. Make some layups, get to the line. Easy buckets so in crunch time you're not brand new to this.

When what I have to present on the surface improves, maybe. Right now, no.

 

[HearNoEvil]

If a woman is willing to blab to you about boy drama, she doesn't respect the fact that you have a dikk.

 

[Astroslik]

A girl who likes you will attempt to make you emotional. She's not "playing games" and this is non-negotiable.

If you want her, the way you prove yourself is by passing her tests. Do not become emotional. She will insult you. She will ask for something illogical. In extreme cases she will straight up ignore you. All of this is to see how you react. If it seems like she's suddenly bullshytting you, she really is, and this is a good sign. Out-of-the-blue insults or requests signal major attraction. I am more troubled by a woman who doesn't try to test me than one who does.

"Hold this for me"=Test
"Why are you knocking like a wuss?!"=Test

^Both recent tests that were used on me. You should be looking out for things like these and taking them as positive validation.

If you remain unfazed, you get that much closer.

(Context: if a girl shows no other signs of liking you and starts bullshyting, she is most likely legitimately uninterested. Don't get stupid taking this idea too far.)

This is true, women love playing shyt tests, just had to check a girl I've been talking to yesterday because she was talking reckless and getting an attitude over some petty shyt. Shut that shyt down, later in she told me that it was "sexy" and attractive that I put her in check earlier that day... these females man

 

[True Blue Moon]

This is true, women love playing shyt tests, just had to check a girl I've been talking to yesterday because she was talking reckless and getting an attitude over some petty shyt. Shut that shyt down, later in she told me that it was "sexy" and attractive that I put her in check earlier that day... these females man

Once you realize the game you can use it to your advantage

That's why I'm stressing that dudes get better as men because whether she does it kindly or with some bullshyt games, a woman will always let you know when you're not on your shyt.

The tests used to stress me out, but now that I know what time it is I'm not even mad at it. They wanna know you're a G but are indirect communicators so that's how it comes out. When you stand on your principle the panties are yours

 

[360dagod]

Word. How has it helped you breh?

Women are gravitating towards me..like I haven't seen this in years

 

[HearNoEvil]

Women are gravitating towards me..like I haven't seen this in years

Yup, body language is 70% of it.

The reason I suggest beliefs first is because if you display the right body language but don't believe you deserve to, people will pick up on that.

Personally would have had a much easier time starting out with game if I tackled my self esteem first. Good tips breh.

 

[360dagod]

Yup, body language is 70% of it.

The reason I suggest beliefs first is because if you display the right body language but don't believe you deserve to, people will pick up on that.

Personally would have had a much easier time starting out with game if I tackled my self esteem first. Good tips breh.

Sometimes we live so foul, we think it's normal...def cleaning up alot of bad habits

 

[True Blue Moon]

Women are gravitating towards me..like I haven't seen this in years

Push it to the max breh

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Can you tell me what you are doing now and give an example of one of your dates?

I just do regular shyt, I call,text and make sure I make myself Available... one of the things that's hurting me right now is my lack of options.. And that's makes me.. I don't want say desperate.. but I become attached and a little bit clingy... but that's because the lack of options.. my last date was last Thursday. It was a late last minute thing so we just went to the lake front and chilled and talked about past relationship' s,Things we been through, we was just basically getting to know each other better.

It's like things will be going good in the beginning and then all of a sudden they'll just start to pull back from me and things will end after that.. this keeps happening tho that's how I know im the problem

 

[Captain Crunch]

I chilled with a chick I met for the first time yesterday. I didn't smash or kiss/feel her, but we started to vibe at the end of the date. With that in mind, is it fine to invite her to a free event tomorrow night, or plan for something later on next week?

 

[360dagod]

I just do regular shyt, I call,text and make sure I make myself Available... one of the things that's hurting me right now is my lack of options.. And that's makes me.. I don't want say desperate.. but I become attached and a little bit clingy... but that's because the lack of options.. my last date was last Thursday. It was a late last minute thing so we just went to the lake front and chilled and talked about past relationship' s,Things we been through, we was just basically getting to know each other better.

It's like things will be going good in the beginning and then all of a sudden they'll just start to pull back from me and things will end after that.. this keeps happening tho that's how I know im the problem

Fake it until you make it...what is a normal day like for you?

 

[TRUEST]

Bubbly personality. Smiling , playing with her hair a lot.

She was attracted to me and actually a really good kisser...but she didn't have much to talk about. She was into dancing and stuff though which was cool but overall meh.

I remember taking her to this arcade to play this silly shooting game with me before we hit the bar and she wasn't about it which was fine. But she said "I just want a drink"

Told her to text me when she got home and she didn't. I'm too lazy to text her lol .

if u expressed strong enough interest in her, and she doesnt text u when she gets home, thats a sure enough sign she aint into u. especially since u specifically asked her to text u.

she may have seem "boring" because she was checked out mentally and only agreed to the date cause she had nothing better to do.

 

[ViShawn]

if u expressed strong enough interest in her, and she doesnt text u when she gets home, thats a sure enough sign she aint into u. especially since u specifically asked her to text u.

she may have seem "boring" because she was checked out mentally and only agreed to the date cause she had nothing better to do.

Well I felt the same too lol so no loss for me.

 

[Deafheaven]

I just do regular shyt, I call,text and make sure I make myself Available... one of the things that's hurting me right now is my lack of options.. And that's makes me.. I don't want say desperate.. but I become attached and a little bit clingy... but that's because the lack of options.. my last date was last Thursday. It was a late last minute thing so we just went to the lake front and chilled and talked about past relationship' s,Things we been through, we was just basically getting to know each other better.

It's like things will be going good in the beginning and then all of a sudden they'll just start to pull back from me and things will end after that.. this keeps happening tho that's how I know im the problem

If she wants to talk about her past relationships that early let her but you want to get off that topic with the quickness. It builds 0 attraction.