Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[ViShawn]

The way a date goes is your responsibility. How well conversation flows is your responsibility. You are the leader (I'm assuming).

Unless you're saying you're not interested in her.

Yes but she was uninteresting in retrospect

 

[HearNoEvil]

Yes but she was uninteresting in retrospect

Hey, that's fair.

How was she when y'all first met?

 

[ViShawn]

Hey, that's fair.

How was she when y'all first met?

Bubbly personality. Smiling , playing with her hair a lot.

She was attracted to me and actually a really good kisser...but she didn't have much to talk about. She was into dancing and stuff though which was cool but overall meh.

I remember taking her to this arcade to play this silly shooting game with me before we hit the bar and she wasn't about it which was fine. But she said "I just want a drink"

Told her to text me when she got home and she didn't. I'm too lazy to text her lol .

 

[HearNoEvil]

Bubbly personality. Smiling , playing with her hair a lot.

She was attracted to me and actually a really good kisser...but she didn't have much to talk about. She was into dancing and stuff though which was cool but overall meh.

I remember taking her to this arcade to play this silly shooting game with me before we hit the bar and she wasn't about it which was fine. But she said "I just want a drink"

Told her to text me when she got home and she didn't. I'm too lazy to text her lol .

Outchea choosing. Appreciate the rep brother.

 

[360dagod]

Lowkey....

Developing Good Posture can be like the pitcher who adds another pitch to his arsenal

 

[ViShawn]

Outchea choosing. Appreciate the rep brother.

Yessir.

Really hoping I hit it off more with the Latina. I'll probably do good on the second date with her (cooking class). Until then I should probably shut my big mouth with my borderline cocky messages.

 

[HearNoEvil]

Too many guys overemphasize the relationship. Too many guys overemphasize the sex.

Be the first guy she runs into who understands that it's about both. You'll be ahead by a mile.

 

[HearNoEvil]

One without the other is empty.

Men never value sex that they didn't earn through a relationship. Women never value relationships that they didn't earn through sex.

Cooperate towards building a sexual relationship. That's the name of the whole game.

 

[Mr210]

My friends relationship ended yesterday because it was his bday and his GF, didn't even say happy bday

 

[twan83]

Now, the scale is meant to transcend wealth/fame/status for reasons that I would love to get into.

There are famous men who cannot keep a woman, and there are absolute players who no one has ever heard of.

There are wealthy men who have been divorced three times over, and broke dudes who can take home almost any chick in the bar.

The same goes for tall/short, fit/fat, any external metric you can think of. This idea requires a leap of faith, but how attractive you are as a friend/romantic partner is pretty much entirely determined by your self esteem. People who can handle competition have more self esteem than people who immediately submit to those around them. People who cooperate with others have more self esteem than those who feel the need to rebel against everyone else.

Whenever we observe a famous person it is important to know that their fame/accomplishments is what feeds into their self esteem, which is what actually makes them attractive. Likewise with money. If you realize that there are other ways to fuel your self esteem besides wealth/status/power then you will no longer feel that you need those things in order to be an attractive person. That small shift in thinking is a game changer.

Just remember, a wealthy person with low self esteem=still unattractive. A famous person who is uncomfortable socially=still unattractive.

For this reason the original statement stands. There are no male 10s. Feel free to disagree with me.

I concur
From experience I have great success just cuz I'm confident no fukks given and know how to talk and approach females that it's just natural
Of course i get Ls but those I brush off and learn from and some Ls become a W within the same day with same person just cuz of unique situations they view me differently than earlier

It's not as hard as people think too sure once u get the grasp u wont be as good as some other guys but u be way better off and more successful than u were before

Looks are a bonus but become deadly if u have whole package with it
If u know how to talk to a female and are confident don't matter how good she look u be surprise how into u she will get i seen it enough.
Average dude get more play than a pretty boy no homo all cuz he knows his way with women and they find it very appealing and mysterious

 

[twan83]

My friends relationship ended yesterday because it was his bday and his GF, didn't even say happy bday

Unless something else u don't know what's going on SHE AIN'T shyt AND NEVER WAS shyt

 

[True Blue Moon]

Lowkey....

Developing Good Posture can be like the pitcher who adds another pitch to his arsenal

Word. How has it helped you breh?

 

[True Blue Moon]

@AdvantageSouthpaw

I thought you were talking about the date went wack with the new chick you're excited about at first

 

[Mr210]

Unless something else u don't know what's going on SHE AIN'T shyt AND NEVER WAS shyt

Yea not sure we were all just hanging out 4 days ago together, he gave her to 4pm, when he didn't hear from her he blocked her number

 

[MisterMajesty]

A girl who likes you will attempt to make you emotional. She's not "playing games" and this is non-negotiable.

If you want her, the way you prove yourself is by passing her tests. Do not become emotional. She will insult you. She will ask for something illogical. In extreme cases she will straight up ignore you. All of this is to see how you react. If it seems like she's suddenly bullshytting you, she really is, and this is a good sign. Out-of-the-blue insults or requests signal major attraction. I am more troubled by a woman who doesn't try to test me than one who does.

"Hold this for me"=Test
"Why are you knocking like a wuss?!"=Test

^Both recent tests that were used on me. You should be looking out for things like these and taking them as positive validation.

If you remain unfazed, you get that much closer.

(Context: if a girl shows no other signs of liking you and starts bullshyting, she is most likely legitimately uninterested. Don't get stupid taking this idea too far.)

I actually used to have major issues with this. it's a family trait on my fathers side, but we're all very...indifferent, I have a 24/7 poker face, Which is causing me to struggle a bit at work funny enough