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Primetime said:
For those who took that next step with your girl (engagement, marriage, etc), how long did you know your girl before yall got serious like that? Any significant moments that sealed the deal for you? And/or looking back at it did you feel like you rushed it or was it adequate time? Brehs who aren't married but have thoughts on it, your 2cents are welcomed.

@twan83 ?

And no, i'm not about to risk it all anytime soon :whoa:

But i'd like to hear more of that perspective from those who have it; that transition of "steady relationship :ehh:" to "is this getting serious?:leon:"
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First and most important is know yourself truly know yourself cuz once u do it can make decisions in your life easier

Now I personally think there is no time frame to when u get married for this reason
I've stated before known people been together 5 years married only 2 years equal 7 years down the drain
Another is 1 month together married 30 years and still together
That tells u ain't nothing guaranteed just gotta mske the choice on when u feel is right

Now for me personally I have a hard time falling in love if I'm with for several months damn near a year and i ain't said i love u it ain't gonna happen that's just who I am

Also i do think u should live with them before marrying them so u know if u can live with their tendencies

I think instead of going by her pros go by her flaws cuz she can have all time great pros in a woman u want but 1 flaw can be a deal breaker
The flaws is what u gotta ask yourself can u marry someone with those flaws or not no matter how small or big they are and if u can and living with them is good marry them when u feel like it
U don't need a timetable imo

1 month we were together before moving in 6 months we lived together and then got married after 6 months and been married 7 years me and my wife
Now do I have regrets nope
Was time adequate for me keyword me yes
Now we have our issues like normal people do but nothing major

In closing everyone is diff some will say wait long time some say don't only u know yourself what u expect and want
Time just too me doesn't matter
I go by i know who I am what flaws they have and how living together is for me to know if I should marry ur ass
 
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C.Holla-damus said:
Make sure your woman isnt lazy and that she has ambition
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Very true glad mines ain't any female who was got :camby: on site no fukks given


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I'm goin to europe on monday till mid september brehs. :blessed::blessed::blessed::blessed::blessed:

London, Paris, Barcelona and maybe Amsterdam or Berlin if i have anymore time. :blessed::blessed::blessed:

bout to be a lit last few weeks of summer. :blessed:
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Visit italy breh go to Venice shyt is gorgeous and food is :noah:
 
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I stopped coming on here because I basically went the zero tolerance route


The game y'all gave me :wow:

If I text and no text back bushes :camby:

I member someone dropped a jewel if a chick feeling she make everything easy

Chase a check never chase a bytch etc etc



But this one chick got me



Aight so here is the story


I'm at the mall a couple a weeks ago I see this tall brown ting :ahh:


I'm a cold approacher never been scared ( when I fukking a chick I always think back what if I never opened my mouth :wow: got so much p*ssy off a cold approaching)

I run up on her start talking to her she had like this cut on her face I started cracking jokes on it like damn wtf happen just chopping it up

She just move to my city ...etc etc

So ask can I take her out and show her around she say nah she good (kinda looked at her friend approval I think her friend hated)


:sadcam:



Aight bet my fault nice to meet you keep it moving




A couple weeks later I meet up with girl I matched with on tinder at this arcade bar


Shorty bad she hugs me when we meet ....

A notice a lil scratch on her head:jbhmm:



Hold up ain't you the girl from the mall?:gucci:


Her ::smugfavre: yes


Me :dwillhuh: you know you was meeting me this whole time ?


Her::smugfavre: yes



She basically says she tells everyone the story how we meet because I was like damn wtf happened to her head she said it felt like a movie
She said she didn't give me her number because she just moved here and was tired etc etc


So we ended up have a good time at the arcade bar didn't really ask if she wanted to come over I was low key tired so we end up kissing goodnight


So the next night I ask her do she want to come over and eat pizza and watch hbo go



She said has to work in the morning didn't really want to be out late :curve:
So I'm that's cool let's meet up for ice cream


We meet up for ice cream we walking around it's late I'm like might as well come over

:manny:

She like cool

We at my spot (I cleaned up real quick could have been cleaner I was slipping)

We watching Insecure just chilling we start kissing I'm going real slow kissing everwhere sucking on her titties just taking my time


I stuck sucking on her navel trying to get to that p*ssy :shaq: she stop me:usure:

So we stop she low key falls asleep while I'm giveing her a massage I'm telling she can stay the night if she wants making her feel comfortable...
We start kissing her again I have against the wall kissing I pick her up to my room every time I try to take her pants of she stop me


Usually I'm super super super :shaq: agreesive but I don't want to scare her off
And I end up fukking if it's a hood rat but I kinda put her on pedestal so I was aggressive but not :shaq:
So she ends up leaving I tell her she can stay but she said she doesn't want to be late to work tads yards she knows if she stays she not going to want to get up in the morning I'll tell her text me when she gets home she does


So I text her goodnight with a kissy face :snoop:

So the next day I didn't hear from her so I text her the day after

Hey how is your day


No response :mjcry:


I didn't try and text again that's what the coli taught me





It's been a week I want to bend the rules and see why she curved and hit her up trying to see her again

My female friends advice was maybe she was embarrassed because we was moving too fast
Which is kinda bullshyt most girls I fukk the first night we end having long relationships
Another girl blamed on me saying she thinks I just want to fukk and shouldn't have been kissing on her :dahell:




I think ....I was being a lil to clingy lovey dovey


It's been a week and she been on my mind I'm going to hit her up I think I'm 28 she 26 we shouldn't have to play these games


Coli what you think


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Moving back home to Chicago from la, kinda sad that I'm leaving my roster of 3 back in la.

I officially have 0 women on my team (locally at least) feels bittersweet. This is a good fresh start for me though, I'm about to turn 26 soon and my priorities are my career and health. I finally have a chance to take a deep breath, life's been hectic these past couple months. Was actually catching feelings for 2 women at the same time. One Armenian one Turkish, smh.

Not really interested in juggling 3-4 different women either, shyt made me jaded and it's not really all that tbh.

I'm strictly focusing on myself, p*ssy gotta fall in my lap at this point. Gotta perform well in law school, the women will always be there
 
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lamont614 said:
I stopped coming on here because I basically went the zero tolerance route


The game y'all gave me :wow:

If I text and no text back bushes :camby:

I member someone dropped a jewel if a chick feeling she make everything easy

Chase a check never chase a bytch etc etc



But this one chick got me



Aight so here is the story


I'm at the mall a couple a weeks ago I see this tall brown ting :ahh:


I'm a cold approacher never been scared ( when I fukking a chick I always think back what if I never opened my mouth :wow: got so much p*ssy off a cold approaching)

I run up on her start talking to her she had like this cut on her face I started cracking jokes on it like damn wtf happen just chopping it up

She just move to my city ...etc etc

So ask can I take her out and show her around she say nah she good (kinda looked at her friend approval I think her friend hated)


:sadcam:



Aight bet my fault nice to meet you keep it moving




A couple weeks later I meet up with girl I matched with on tinder at this arcade bar


Shorty bad she hugs me when we meet ....

A notice a lil scratch on her head:jbhmm:



Hold up ain't you the girl from the mall?:gucci:


Her ::smugfavre: yes


Me :dwillhuh: you know you was meeting me this whole time ?


Her::smugfavre: yes



She basically says she tells everyone the story how we meet because I was like damn wtf happened to her head she said it felt like a movie
She said she didn't give me her number because she just moved here and was tired etc etc


So we ended up have a good time at the arcade bar didn't really ask if she wanted to come over I was low key tired so we end up kissing goodnight


So the next night I ask her do she want to come over and eat pizza and watch hbo go



She said has to work in the morning didn't really want to be out late :curve:
So I'm that's cool let's meet up for ice cream


We meet up for ice cream we walking around it's late I'm like might as well come over

:manny:

She like cool

We at my spot (I cleaned up real quick could have been cleaner I was slipping)

We watching Insecure just chilling we start kissing I'm going real slow kissing everwhere sucking on her titties just taking my time


I stuck sucking on her navel trying to get to that p*ssy :shaq: she stop me:usure:

So we stop she low key falls asleep while I'm giveing her a massage I'm telling she can stay the night if she wants making her feel comfortable...
We start kissing her again I have against the wall kissing I pick her up to my room every time I try to take her pants of she stop me


Usually I'm super super super :shaq: agreesive but I don't want to scare her off
And I end up fukking if it's a hood rat but I kinda put her on pedestal so I was aggressive but not :shaq:
So she ends up leaving I tell her she can stay but she said she doesn't want to be late to work tads yards she knows if she stays she not going to want to get up in the morning I'll tell her text me when she gets home she does


So I text her goodnight with a kissy face :snoop:

So the next day I didn't hear from her so I text her the day after

Hey how is your day


No response :mjcry:


I didn't try and text again that's what the coli taught me





It's been a week I want to bend the rules and see why she curved and hit her up trying to see her again

My female friends advice was maybe she was embarrassed because we was moving too fast
Which is kinda bullshyt most girls I fukk the first night we end having long relationships
Another girl blamed on me saying she thinks I just want to fukk and shouldn't have been kissing on her :dahell:




I think ....I was being a lil to clingy lovey dovey


It's been a week and she been on my mind I'm going to hit her up I think I'm 28 she 26 we shouldn't have to play these games


Coli what you think


@HDKG_ @NerdNash
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When you hit her up, don't ask her why she curved u. Just hit her up like nothing happened. Hey I found this nice restaurant. Meet me there at 8pm. Let's grab a bite.

If she doesn't respond to that, cut ur losses and move on.

If she agrees, meet her at the restaurant. At the end of the date, give her a hug, and express how glad u are to see her again. Then head ur separate ways. Don't invite her back to ur place.

If she hits u up after the date, u need to take things slow but not too slow.
 
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When you hit her up, don't ask her why she curved u. Just hit her up like nothing happened. Hey I found this nice restaurant. Meet me there at 8pm. Let's grab a bite.

If she doesn't respond to that, cut ur losses and move on.

If she agrees, meet her at the restaurant. At the end of the date, give her a hug, and express how glad u are to see her again. Then head ur separate ways. Don't invite her back to ur place.

If she hits u up after the date, u need to take things slow but not too slow.
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:jbhmm: Sound like a plan I had some Jamican leftovers we were eating and she asked about it....
Also I member she played softball I should invite her to some batting cages as a date
 
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