Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Deafheaven]

It's called negative rapport. How you introduce yourself sets the tone for the relationship going forward. Open up with something depressing and your relationship will boil down to exchanging complaints. Start off with fun and they'll know instinctively to keep it positive around you. Dark times are dark times, but be careful not to build too many relationships based on negativity.

Yeah I used one my exes as my therapist and Im pretty sure thats what killed the attraction. Like at one point I was like suepr man to her but once you start regularly showing how human and fragile you are it takes that sheen away. If im really going through some shyt I hit up my sister it my two best friends now. The girl Im fukking doesnt need to know about my shytty childhood

 

[True Blue Moon]

Hey guys, I've lurked coli since I was in high school haha. I finally decided to make an account after all these years. A lot of what ya'll spitting in here is superfacts. It's a matter of us as men and women working together to make things work. We need them and vice versa. What this thread has also teached me is that you have to preserve your castle.

If I'm seeing someone, and for whatever reason she decides to leave, all I could do is just say thanks and show her the door. I'm still going to have my castle, my fur coats, my jewelry, my excellent credit score, my artpieces I've collected around the world over the years, my cars, and most importantly my sanity.

I'm a late bloomer to this adulthood shyt but progress is what matters.

You all have helped a negro out more than you'd know.

What's your life, sex/love and goals looking like these days breh?

 

[sheedteef]

What's your life, sex/love and goals looking like these days breh?

I'm on the up and up. I got a gym membership at gold's gym and I go four days a week. I do HIIT training every Tuesday and Thursday.

I'm finishing up towards my associate's in communications, then I'll transfer and start my bachelor's program at a uni in the spring as a pr major.



I met this one chick off of tinder a few weeks ago. We hung out all last Saturday. We ended up making out and she told me she was glad she met me and that she's never been on an all day date haha. Shorty's cool and I'm just taking it slow. I've never been in a relationship but this chick is a multilayered individual, i likes that..





















Not placing no flowers on her though

 

[True Blue Moon]

I've already made out with her more than once. Intense kisses from her. Plus she wanted it (lip bite, playing with her hair, etc)

Honestly if a girl I'm seeing can't understand that I'm dealing with probably one of the hardest things in my life, then what good is she? I can bang randoms instead. It's not like I lost a dog. I lost my father.

I haven't really vented to her about the death, but I mentioned it to her as a reality and as a result she has backed off and told me to take some time and not rush. The "good man" comment was after I spent a couple of hours with her that night having dinner and doing stuff with her.



You're good. It's been about a month. She's very traditional Latina. Like I said every time we go out she's always pulling out her card, letting me lead, funny to talk to, etc. Sounds like she wants to date me and get to know me which I'm all for right now.

I can't imagine losing my pops breh. Don't hesitate to vent or hit any of our inboxes if you ever need to unload to someone. It can be hard to vent some things to people you know in real life since you have attachments and will see them all the time.

 

[ViShawn]

I can't imagine losing my pops breh. Don't hesitate to vent or hit any of our inboxes if you ever need to unload to someone. It can be hard to vent some things to people you know in real life since you have attachments and will see them all the time.

I really appreciate the love breh. Means a lot. Giving you a digital dap and hug man

 

[True Blue Moon]

I really appreciate the love breh. Means a lot. Giving you a digital dap and hug man

And it's real. The least we can do is take time out and be human with each other. Accepting the love right back homie

 

[Crayola Coyote]

once in a while, sit back and observe without seeking. just check how people act around eachother and towards you. you will notice certain women choosing you. go after those ones without seeking their validation. make the offer and let her choose. if she fronts on you, do not try to convince her to change her mind. Just keep it moving. If she comes back, don't be passive aggressive. keep your head cold and check if you still want to spend time with her or not. Some girls will front at first and then come back around and it's frustrating but if you succumb to it, that anger stays within you and even the next girl you meet, you bring that vibe along with you.

fukk all that. Charge her to the game. You gave her a opportunity of a life time she didn't want to take part now she wants to come back. Nah find a another chick.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I've been talking to every chick I see that is attractive. I give her my number, set up a plan, she never calls me back. I give my number out to another girl I get her number, She doesn't respond. Only girl that talks to me is this girl from work that I do not like and took her out on a date cause I didn't have nobody. We met up at a bar, I didn't make a move on her cause I was not into her. I didn't even talk to her on the date. She was on her phone I was sipping my Jack n Coke. She was there just to be there. I said to myself "so this is how it's like to have a gf/wife. Sit here in a public area in silence " I turned to my left I see a girl at the bar. She looked way better than the girl that was sitting next to me. as soon as I was going to get up to talk to her some guy sits by her to kiss her. I got vexed. It's like god/universe does not want me to get with a attractive woman. So I change direction to the bathroom. I come back, the girl ask me if I want a drink, I tell her flat out no. I buy her a drink and end the date from there. She tell me she had a good time. I say to myself that we didn't even talk to each other how did you have fun? The chick is average, with DD t*ts and a small gut that look like she had a kid but she doesn't have kids. which disgust me cause I can't stand a chick with a stomach of any kind. I'm not getting no chicks at all. I talked to multiple women this year. Going 10-72, gave them my number nothing. I see her at work time to time, she txt me, I txt her back but I'm not interested in her. I leave her on delivered in txt. This weekend im gonna see if I can find a chick that is attractive.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I've been talking to every chick I see that is attractive. I give her my number, set up a plan, she never calls me back. I give my number out to another girl I get her number, She doesn't respond. Only girl that talks to me is this girl from work that I do not like and took her out on a date cause I didn't have nobody. We met up at a bar, I didn't make a move on her cause I was not into her. I didn't even talk to her on the date. She was on her phone I was sipping my Jack n Coke. She was there just to be there. I said to myself "so this is how it's like to have a gf/wife. Sit here in a public area in silence " I turned to my left I see a girl at the bar. She looked way better than the girl that was sitting next to me. as soon as I was going to get up to talk to her some guy sits by her to kiss her. I got vexed. It's like god/universe does not want me to get with a attractive woman. So I change direction to the bathroom. I come back, the girl ask me if I want a drink, I tell her flat out no. I buy her a drink and end the date from there. She tell me she had a good time. I say to myself that we didn't even talk to each other how did you have fun? The chick is average, with DD t*ts and a small gut that look like she had a kid but she doesn't have kids. which disgust me cause I can't stand a chick with a stomach of any kind. I'm not getting no chicks at all. I talked to multiple women this year. Going 10-72, gave them my number nothing. I see her at work time to time, she txt me, I txt her back but I'm not interested in her. I leave her on delivered in txt. This weekend im gonna see if I can find a chick that is attractive.

She must be ugly?

 

[Crayola Coyote]

She must be ugly?

She ain't ugly. She is not what I find attractive.

 

[Turbulent]

fukk all that. Charge her to the game. You gave her a opportunity of a life time she didn't want to take part now she wants to come back. Nah find a another chick.

you never know why a girl said no. maybe she was interested in someone else at the time and was being loyal to him. or maybe she thought she could do better than you and then realized she couldn't (in which case, i wouldn't take her serious). your gut will tell you if you should get involved or not and to what extent. Holding grudges and displaying passive aggressive behaviour however carry on to future interactions with women which in turn will make you unattractive.

 

[International Playa]

I've been talking to every chick I see that is attractive. I give her my number, set up a plan, she never calls me back. I give my number out to another girl I get her number, She doesn't respond. Only girl that talks to me is this girl from work that I do not like and took her out on a date cause I didn't have nobody. We met up at a bar, I didn't make a move on her cause I was not into her. I didn't even talk to her on the date. She was on her phone I was sipping my Jack n Coke. She was there just to be there. I said to myself "so this is how it's like to have a gf/wife. Sit here in a public area in silence " I turned to my left I see a girl at the bar. She looked way better than the girl that was sitting next to me. as soon as I was going to get up to talk to her some guy sits by her to kiss her. I got vexed. It's like god/universe does not want me to get with a attractive woman. So I change direction to the bathroom. I come back, the girl ask me if I want a drink, I tell her flat out no. I buy her a drink and end the date from there. She tell me she had a good time. I say to myself that we didn't even talk to each other how did you have fun? The chick is average, with DD t*ts and a small gut that look like she had a kid but she doesn't have kids. which disgust me cause I can't stand a chick with a stomach of any kind. I'm not getting no chicks at all. I talked to multiple women this year. Going 10-72, gave them my number nothing. I see her at work time to time, she txt me, I txt her back but I'm not interested in her. I leave her on delivered in txt. This weekend im gonna see if I can find a chick that is attractive.

Breh

Secret to the game is you go for the woman that likes you. You cant make a woman like you,

 

[Astroslik]

I've been talking to every chick I see that is attractive. I give her my number, set up a plan, she never calls me back. I give my number out to another girl I get her number, She doesn't respond. Only girl that talks to me is this girl from work that I do not like and took her out on a date cause I didn't have nobody. We met up at a bar, I didn't make a move on her cause I was not into her. I didn't even talk to her on the date. She was on her phone I was sipping my Jack n Coke. She was there just to be there. I said to myself "so this is how it's like to have a gf/wife. Sit here in a public area in silence " I turned to my left I see a girl at the bar. She looked way better than the girl that was sitting next to me. as soon as I was going to get up to talk to her some guy sits by her to kiss her. I got vexed. It's like god/universe does not want me to get with a attractive woman. So I change direction to the bathroom. I come back, the girl ask me if I want a drink, I tell her flat out no. I buy her a drink and end the date from there. She tell me she had a good time. I say to myself that we didn't even talk to each other how did you have fun? The chick is average, with DD t*ts and a small gut that look like she had a kid but she doesn't have kids. which disgust me cause I can't stand a chick with a stomach of any kind. I'm not getting no chicks at all. I talked to multiple women this year. Going 10-72, gave them my number nothing. I see her at work time to time, she txt me, I txt her back but I'm not interested in her. I leave her on delivered in txt. This weekend im gonna see if I can find a chick that is attractive.

I like your stories, can't wait to see that moment of redemption.. it's all trial and error breh. Find your niche

 

[Pazzy]

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