Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Strapped]

Should I dead this or still try and f*ck..??



This female at work.. I've been working on it for about a month...


I took her out on a first date maybe 3 weeks ago & it went really good (didn't crack or anything but it was cool)



So this is where shyt got goofy....



We had a date setup for last Friday after work (she lives 40 mins away so she was just gonna bring a second pair of clothes) we were just gonna kick it n do whatever ..



She tells me she forgot her change of clothes & would rather do it Saturday ....


Now I had a first time tinder date setup but figured date two with this chick would be better so I cancelled on my Saturday and made the co worker date for that date...



So Saturday rolls around and I text her

• Me-what time you free tonight
• Her- Later
• Me- okay later when
• Her- after 9

• couple text about what we might do

Then I text her around 7pm

• Me- are you free at 9 or after 9..?

I didn't get a whole reply until Sunday at 9:30pm



Now tell me if I handled it right or wrong



HER- Hey


Me- yeah


Her- nvm have a good night


Me- right you were the one on bs the other night but you got the attitude


Her- okay


Me- okay, lose my f*ckin number then


Her- okay


Me

Dead it asap

 

[TRUEST]

True... females don't flake on men they're interested in...

It's just weird she'd leave lil notes on my car

Be trying to FaceTime me all the time...

Didn't really add up

But I feel you

ok. a woman can be attracted to you but u need to check yourself to see if ur doing anything to turn her off. are u overly excited when ur around her? or talking to her? women can pick up on vibes from dudes who worship them. dont be that dude!

 

[The Frozen One]

Brehs so what do I do about my girl?? She's pissed cause I was liking booty pics on IG.

And told me to fukk off and be with those type of sluts

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Brehs so what do I do about my girl?? She's pissed cause I was liking booty pics on IG.

And told me to fukk off and be with those type of sluts

You need to fall back. Give her some space and chill. What you gonna do beg her to come back to you? That's a sure fire way for her to never take you seriously again. So leave her be for now and let her head cool off. If she's feeling you she'll wonder why you haven't been pressing and come back around. If not, then chalk it up as a learning experience and be more sensible with how you conduct yourself online. Though, to be honest, in my opinion you did nothing wrong.

 

[The Frozen One]

You need to fall back. Give her some space and chill. What you gonna do beg her to come back to you? That's a sure fire way for her to never take you seriously again. So leave her be for now and let her head cool off. If she's feeling you she'll wonder why you haven't been pressing and come back around. If not, then chalk it up as a learning experience and be more sensible with how you conduct yourself online. Though, to be honest, in my opinion you did nothing wrong.

Good advice.

I haven't really said anything to her yet cause im trying to find a way to deflect this shyt.

She's like were done. I said ok up to you. But inside I'm

 

[Uitomy]

This one girl curved me, I've gotten over it at this point but I kinda find this a bit weird, like, I post a lot of art, she never really likes that, but whenever I post a pic of myself (like I get a hair cut or some shyt) she'll like it, I posted some pics of some girls I've hung with, and she liked both those pics
I don't think it means anything but at the same time, it's a bit weird.

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

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You need to fall back. Give her some space and chill. What you gonna do beg her to come back to you? That's a sure fire way for her to never take you seriously again. So leave her be for now and let her head cool off. If she's feeling you she'll wonder why you haven't been pressing and come back around. If not, then chalk it up as a learning experience and be more sensible with how you conduct yourself online. Though, to be honest, in my opinion you did nothing wrong.

Don't give in so easily, there is nothing wrong with liking ig pics..ain't like you trying to dm these chicks. If your boys go to the strip club, what you can't go? This is a power move on her end

 

[Atlrocafella]

How to know if you're just a free meal to a chick? If the only time you hear from her is when you hit her up to go out to eat. She'll be busy for everything else except that .

Me and this girl supposed to go out to eat this Thursday, last time I talked to her was September 1st. Not even a check in text from this broad since that day. I'm always the one calling and checking in. I'm going to cancel our plans Thursday morning

So I went ahead and texted her that I was canceling Thursday's plans;

Me: Hey, I'm going to cancel Thursday's plans.
Hey: Aww is everything ok?
Me: Yeah it is, I kind of don't feel that you're really interested, so I didn't want to waste each others time
her: WOW , I Feel like we are to a slow start but I completely understand
Me: Yea.

Really bish, your'e acting surprised? I haven't seen or hung out with you since June, and you're always trying to reschedule or too busy, now you're shocked that I'm moving on?

On to the next.

 

[The Frozen One]

So I went ahead and texted her that I was canceling Thursday's plans;

Me: Hey, I'm going to cancel Thursday's plans.
Hey: Aww is everything ok?
Me: Yeah it is, I kind of don't feel that you're really interested, so I didn't want to waste each others time
her: WOW , I Feel like we are to a slow start but I completely understand
Me: Yea.

Really bish, your'e acting surprised? I haven't seen or hung out with you since June, and you're always trying to reschedule or too busy, now you're shocked that I'm moving on?

On to the next.

I wouldn't have even texted that. Would have ghosted her and kept it moving

 

[TRUEST]

So I went ahead and texted her that I was canceling Thursday's plans;

Me: Hey, I'm going to cancel Thursday's plans.
Hey: Aww is everything ok?
Me: Yeah it is, I kind of don't feel that you're really interested, so I didn't want to waste each others time
her: WOW , I Feel like we are to a slow start but I completely understand
Me: Yea.

Really bish, your'e acting surprised? I haven't seen or hung out with you since June, and you're always trying to reschedule or too busy, now you're shocked that I'm moving on?

On to the next.

u coulda worded this differently.

 

[Mastamimd]

In a long distance relationship and it's somewhat serious. We really like each other but she is dealing with a lot. We clicked mad fast and we really are into each other. I'm not trying to back out necessarily but I just have a feeling that it might not work out. I really don't want to hurt her and I really feel as if I let her go I'll be missing out on a good thing. I don't know.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

In my experience, long distance isn't the way to go. It isn't an actual relationship to be real.

 

[Mastamimd]

In my experience, long distance isn't the way to go. It isn't an actual relationship to be real.

I feel that way. shyts kind of weak though because emotions are involved. It's on some k dot she needs me shyt...odd.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

I feel that way. shyts kind of weak though because emotions are involved. It's on some k dot she needs me shyt...odd.

Nah breh. She don't need you or maybe she does... until she meets someone who can actually be physical with her when she wants.

 

[Atlrocafella]

I wouldn't have even texted that. Would have ghosted her and kept it moving

I was about to do the same, but I felt like keeping it 100, so she know that the issue was with her. Didn't want her telling people we mutually know "I don't know what happened, he just stopped calling me". Nah, now you know exactly why we stopped talking.