Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Solano707]

Should I dead this or still try and f*ck..??



This female at work.. I've been working on it for about a month...


I took her out on a first date maybe 3 weeks ago & it went really good (didn't crack or anything but it was cool)



So this is where shyt got goofy....



We had a date setup for last Friday after work (she lives 40 mins away so she was just gonna bring a second pair of clothes) we were just gonna kick it n do whatever ..



She tells me she forgot her change of clothes & would rather do it Saturday ....


Now I had a first time tinder date setup but figured date two with this chick would be better so I cancelled on my Saturday and made the co worker date for that date...



So Saturday rolls around and I text her

• Me-what time you free tonight
• Her- Later
• Me- okay later when
• Her- after 9

• couple text about what we might do

Then I text her around 7pm

• Me- are you free at 9 or after 9..?

I didn't get a whole reply until Sunday at 9:30pm



Now tell me if I handled it right or wrong



HER- Hey


Me- yeah


Her- nvm have a good night


Me- right you were the one on bs the other night but you got the attitude


Her- okay


Me- okay, lose my f*ckin number then


Her- okay


Me

you did right, you cut her off first and saw the bullshyt.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Should I dead this or still try and f*ck..??



This female at work.. I've been working on it for about a month...


I took her out on a first date maybe 3 weeks ago & it went really good (didn't crack or anything but it was cool)



So this is where shyt got goofy....



We had a date setup for last Friday after work (she lives 40 mins away so she was just gonna bring a second pair of clothes) we were just gonna kick it n do whatever ..



She tells me she forgot her change of clothes & would rather do it Saturday ....


Now I had a first time tinder date setup but figured date two with this chick would be better so I cancelled on my Saturday and made the co worker date for that date...



So Saturday rolls around and I text her

• Me-what time you free tonight
• Her- Later
• Me- okay later when
• Her- after 9

• couple text about what we might do

Then I text her around 7pm

• Me- are you free at 9 or after 9..?

I didn't get a whole reply until Sunday at 9:30pm



Now tell me if I handled it right or wrong



HER- Hey


Me- yeah


Her- nvm have a good night


Me- right you were the one on bs the other night but you got the attitude


Her- okay


Me- okay, lose my f*ckin number then


Her- okay


Me

You let her know that she had you in your feelings with that response, and by her saying "okay", shows she never really gave a fukk. Glad you cut her off though.

 

[The Frozen One]

My girl still tripping over this IG shyt.

She called me last night and went on a rant about being disrespected and not being appreciated and that I should go be with those IG hoes since I'm on their pages liking their pics .

I was like bytch I didn't anything wrong. It's just liking pictures. She just kept going in circles and it didn't go anywhere.

She said she gonna look for a guy that appreciates her body and not drool over insta-thots. I said cool.

I kinda get why shes upset cause she's insecure about her body. She knows I like big titty meats and the pics I liked were all big titty hoes.

 

[Nuke Dukem]

You let her know that she had you in your feelings with that response, and by her saying "okay", shows she never really gave a fukk. Glad you cut her off though.

I feel you , I know as men in this shyt we have to put up this front that we really don't give a f*ck..

But it was like damn bytch


You told me around 3pm on Saturday you'd be free around 9pm... So I'm there canceling dates with other females & basically giving up my Saturday & then you got the nerve to post snap stories and all that through early Sunday but then hit my line on Sunday night around 9:30pm talking about "Hey" fuuuuuck outta here bytch

But I feel you

 

[Nuke Dukem]

You let her know that she had you in your feelings with that response, and by her saying "okay", shows she never really gave a fukk. Glad you cut her off though.

My thing is though it really did seem like the bytch liked / was trying to fukk with me

She did all the little shyt

- always touching on me at work/ finding a reasons to bump into me

- Facetiming as soon as she got off work

- leaving little stupid azz cute notes under my car wiper blades lbvs




So I really don't get it but cutting off is prolly the best thing

 

[Hungry Rabbit]

My thing is though it really did seem like the bytch liked / was trying to fukk with me

She did all the little shyt

- always touching on me at work/ finding a reasons to bump into me

- Facetiming as soon as she got off work

- leaving little stupid azz cute notes under my car wiper blades lbvs




So I really don't get it but cutting off is prolly the best thing

Nah brah all that good shyt is sweet, but all of these actions you list could be perceived as "just friendly." So if you wanna better way of finding out if a chick is REALLY feeling you, it's best IMO to go for the 1v1 meeting, casually/slyly bring up dating/sex at a general level, and then casually/slyly lead that to discussing dating/sex between the two of you. The whole time you're just seeing how she reacts, playing it cool, and being normal.

In other words you gotta force these chicks to shyt or get off the pot brah - you gotta force them to accept or reject you by manning up and bring up the topic

 

[Ohene]

I feel you , I know as men in this shyt we have to put up this front that we really don't give a f*ck..

But it was like damn bytch


You told me around 3pm on Saturday you'd be free around 9pm... So I'm there canceling dates with other females & basically giving up my Saturday & then you got the nerve to post snap stories and all that through early Sunday but then hit my line on Sunday night around 9:30pm talking about "Hey" fuuuuuck outta here bytch

But I feel you

meh. some dudes will say you gotta put up a front like you dont care. and some dudes will say you gotta call out the bullshyt. as a man you can never really win. gotta just go with you gut and hope for the best

 

[Clay Puppington]

So I'm there canceling dates with other females & basically giving up my Saturday & then you got the nerve to post snap stories and all that through early Sunday

If it makes you feel any better this would have had me heated beyond belief. Disrespecting someone's time is a big ass thing to me.

 

[Atlrocafella]

finally had this lunch with a chick in my work building. She's everything so far, pretty, ambitious, smart and successful

 

[Hungry Rabbit]

Brehs so what do I do about my girl?? She's pissed cause I was liking booty pics on IG.

And told me to fukk off and be with those type of sluts

Give her a few hours to calm down then hit her ass with "hey" text. IMO you don't wanna wait 2, 3, 4, 5 days to reach back out because it increases the chance of her thinking "well he doesn't give a fukk, I'll show his ass" or some related bs. "Hey" shows that you care but that you're still masculine and not an overly emotional bytch nikka

 

[Cynic]

In a long distance relationship and it's somewhat serious. We really like each other but she is dealing with a lot.

 

[Ohene]

Brehs girl I'm seeing stalked the type of pics I liked on Instagram and it was naked girls and porn stars

Now she won't talk to me and said she's done with me.

I fukked up. What do i do ?

lol how old are you and her?
men like porn and naked bytches. its a nonissue

 

[Cynic]

Brehs girl I'm seeing stalked the type of pics I liked on Instagram and it was naked girls and porn stars

Now she won't talk to me and said she's done with me.

I fukked up. What do i do ?

Nah. She fukked up by stalking you like a weirdo ...

Stand your ground. This is a sh!t test.

If you fail she'll lose respect for you

 

[Cynic]

Reading The Manipulated Man and I don't know if I can finish this shyt this is a woman bashing women worse than any of us ever could

Book is nothing but straight facts ...

Men are weak and women know it ...

All these mind games and sh!t tests are meant to fustrate and disorient n!ggaz

 

[The Frozen One]

Give her a few hours to calm down then hit her ass with "hey" text. IMO you don't wanna wait 2, 3, 4, 5 days to reach back out because it increases the chance of her thinking "well he doesn't give a fukk, I'll show his ass" or some related bs. "Hey" shows that you care but that you're still masculine and not an overly emotional bytch nikka

Nah. She fukked up by stalking you like a weirdo ...

Stand your ground. This is a sh!t test.

If you fail she'll lose respect for you

lol how old are you and her?
men like porn and naked bytches. its a nonissue

I posted an update begs

My girl still tripping over this IG shyt.

She called me last night and went on a rant about being disrespected and not being appreciated and that I should go be with those IG hoes since I'm on their pages liking their pics .

I was like bytch I didn't anything wrong. It's just liking pictures. She just kept going in circles and it didn't go anywhere.

She said she gonna look for a guy that appreciates her body and not drool over insta-thots. I said cool.

I kinda get why shes upset cause she's insecure about her body. She knows I like big titty meats and the pics I liked were all big titty hoes.