Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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What's the best way to break up with a girl ?

I will se the girl this week-end and I need to end it, but I don't really know how to do it. And I don't want to hurt, more than necessary.

We've been together for a few months and she really try to keep me but I must move, so it's a little bit delicate.

What's the best way for a breh to deal with this ?
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I'm goin on a not even really a date but we gettin together, this lil Mexican chick. when she around me she is chill af and cute and very girly which i like and we get along well but i notice when she around her friends she try to act hard and shyt or when she on the phone, just not very lady like at all. I'm not sure what I'm dealin wit here. Any y'all seen this before?
 

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I'm goin on a not even really a date but we gettin together, this lil Mexican chick. when she around me she is chill af and cute and very girly which i like and we get along well but i notice when she around her friends she try to act hard and shyt or when she on the phone, just not very lady like at all. I'm not sure what I'm dealin wit here. Any y'all seen this before?


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guys lemme give you some game when you arranging dates with women so you get less flakes and appear more dominant:

(1) first off do not make plans with women u just met for weekends. weekends are reserved for sure things. bytches that you fukked already and know u gonna be able to fukk again. bytches who u know are interested and y'all gon have a good time. if u just met a chic u should really only meet her week days after work. your time is too important to waste your free time on a random.

(2) in the beginning stages of texting u can find out her schedule if you want. ask a question like "so whats ur hours during the week". sometimes I don't even care to do this.

THE MAIN THING to do is to only text her for the date THE DAY OF. Do not plan dates too far in advanced. tons of things can happen that may cause a women to flake and it's not always her fault. you giving her way too much time to make a decision.

so what you do is text her early during a week day. I say like from 9am - 11am. send a nice lil text being funny or some shyt. don't ask her anything about her day or night stupid shyt like that. it should be a text that don't require a response but should add value to her day.

if she respond to that then ask he straight up "Let's meet later" if for some reason she can't make it then ask her "when are you free" and she MUST give a day. if she doesn't then bushes. when she give you a day you do the same thing again on the day of. send the text morning/afternoon and see what she does.

if she don't respond to the meet up text within an hour then text her "Yes/no?" If she says yes then give her a location and time immediately. and go from there. if she says no then delete her number. if she don't respond within an hour I would usually delete it but sometimes rare shyt happens :manny:

if u follow this method u shouuld get less flakes because you weed them out ahead of time.
 
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guys lemme give you some game when you arranging dates with women so you get less flakes and appear more dominant:

(1) first off do not make plans with women u just met for weekends. weekends are reserved for sure things. bytches that you fukked already and know u gonna be able to fukk again. bytches who u know are interested and y'all gon have a good time. if u just met a chic u should really only meet her week days after work. your time is too important to waste your free time on a random.

(2) in the beginning stages of texting u can find out her schedule if you want. ask a question like "so whats ur hours during the week". sometimes I don't even care to do this.

THE MAIN THING to do is to only text her for the date THE DAY OF. Do not plan dates too far in advanced. tons of things can happen that may cause a women to flake and it's not always her fault. you giving her way too much time to make a decision.

so what you do is text her early during a week day. I say like from 9am - 11am. send a nice lil text being funny or some shyt. don't ask her anything about her day or night stupid shyt like that. it should be a text that don't require a response but should add value to her day.

if she respond to that then ask he straight up "Let's meet later" if for some reason she can't make it then ask her "when are you free" and she MUST give a day. if she doesn't then bushes. when she give you a day you do the same thing again on the day of. send the text morning/afternoon and see what she does.

if she don't respond to the meet up text within an hour then text her "Yes/no?" If she says yes then give her a location and time immediately. and go from there. if she says no then delete her number. if she don't respond within an hour I would usually delete it but sometimes rare shyt happens :manny:

if u follow this method u shouuld get less flakes because you weed them out ahead of time.
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An old flame/ex texted me last night. I knew something was up cause I hadn't heard from her since last year.

We still follow each other on snapchat. I don't Have any feelings for her so it doesn't matter to me. But basically she got dumped by her bf and was depressed. Thought I could be her emotional tampon. I wasnt buying it so I flirted with her for a bit and she started sending half naked snaps Of herself.

I told her to drop by the crib but she said no. Didn't want to fukk right away I guess. But I know she'll be back and I wanna fukk her. What you think coli? Should I bring her to the team or what?

Also my actual girl still on her bullshyt and is still mad about the IG shyt.
 
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