Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Any tips on how to get women to entertain the convo more? It feels like I'm talking to myself. Every time I cold approach i end up dominating the conversation. It's even worse when texting.

Whenever I try to let them talk it just turns into awkward silence or there's way too many breaks in conversation. But when I take the lead it sounds like I'm interviewing myself.

Maybe I should start pursuing "loud" girls cuz I'm quiet and I usually go after quiet women but nothing ever comes of it.:patrice:
 

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Good job breh. Do you usually run down with this opener? It'll save me from thinking I need to say something extravagant.
MHmmm, sometimes. She was in my class and I felt like sublety she was trying to get my attention.
 

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My ex got her heart broken bc I called her out on trying to flaunt a guy friend in a photo, then played games with my heart. Then I played games with hers and now she hates me but it's like if you,never would of played these games this wouldn't have hAppened so I could do was apologize and kim
 

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My ex got her heart broken bc I called her out on trying to flaunt a guy friend in a photo, then played games with my heart. Then I played games with hers and now she hates me but it's like if you,never would of played these games this wouldn't have hAppened so I could do was apologize and kim
Why are you still in contact with your ex? Its a reason why they are an ex
 

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Anybody ever have a woman get legitimately upset at you for wanting to put school or work first. This is after telling her that you aren’t ready for a relationship and that you don’t want to commit to her without doing what you need to do first. We were talking on the phone and kinda getting towards an argument and I was like. “I don’t mean to cut you off but I really have to finish this reading for class ” ( I had a quiz in 20 min) shawty got mad and was like “yeah like that’s more important. I responded like “yeah... it is.. “and she hung up.. haven’t spoken to her since :yeshrug:
 

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Real quick.

@Kilimanjaro What on earth is this bullshyt over here playa? CUT OFF ALL CONTACT WITH YOUR EX AND MOVE ON. It's really as simple as that.

@PuffTheMagicDragon if it's a totally new chick, just ask her open ended questions (concerning stuff you actually care about :pachaha:) to get her to open up and talk more. Texting should really be limited to mainly set up a date, and then hit the girl up on the day of the date, to let her know of your plans... If the vast majority of convo doesn't flow naturally, due to her being open to you and digging on the masculine energy exuding off a playa... then leave that girl alone and on to a girl that shows more interest and effort. It's happened to all of us breh.

But word to that playa @True Blue Moon , simply upgrade your masculinity game, and everything in life - including females - will be a WHOLE lot easier all of the sudden :blessed:

-Be positive, calm, confident and decisive at all times
-Keep your head up and stay with your chest out - aka mind your posture brehs
-Work on deep breathing and do that shyt multiple times a day - especially before dates and whatever other situations you might be nervous before
-Eat clean whole foods and lift weights (squat, bench press, military press, pendlay row and deadlift(. Ít improves your mind, soul and body :obama:)
-When having sex (especially the first few times) with a new chick, dominate her passionately

And obviously, keep improving and growing at everything. Constantly y'all :myman:
 

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Real quick.

@Kilimanjaro What on earth is this bullshyt over here playa? CUT OFF ALL CONTACT WITH YOUR EX AND MOVE ON. It's really as simple as that.

@PuffTheMagicDragon if it's a totally new chick, just ask her open ended questions (concerning stuff you actually care about :pachaha:) to get her to open up and talk more. Texting should really be limited to mainly set up a date, and then hit the girl up on the day of the date, to let her know of your plans... If the vast majority of convo doesn't flow naturally, due to her being open to you and digging on the masculine energy exuding off a playa... then leave that girl alone and on to a girl that shows more interest and effort. It's happened to all of us breh.

But word to that playa @True Blue Moon , simply upgrade your masculinity game, and everything in life - including females - will be a WHOLE lot easier all of the sudden :blessed:

-Be positive, calm, confident and decisive at all times
-Keep your head up and stay with your chest out - aka mind your posture brehs
-Work on deep breathing and do that shyt multiple times a day - especially before dates and whatever other situations you might be nervous before
-Eat clean whole foods and lift weights (squat, bench press, military press, pendlay row and deadlift(. Ít improves your mind, soul and body :obama:)
-When having sex (especially the first few times) with a new chick, dominate her passionately

And obviously, keep improving and growing at everything. Constantly y'all :myman:
You might still have feelings for her, but send her to the bushes. Focus on new women in your life
Yes sirs. Gonna quit smoking cigarettes. Start swimming and get my lift on :blessed::salute:
 
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Another thing i notice, especially in THIS age (I turn 29 this month) is that women always seem to want somebody beyond their level rather than actually being on it. I'm gonna break it down.

A bytch could have NO car, still be living with a parent(s) roomate(s)...probably don't even pay their own cell phone bill at the damn least, but would expect to be scooped up by a nikka thats the complete opposite (lives alone, car, great job/career, basically having ALL his shyt together). In society, bytches that are in their 20s like this aren't frowned upon at all....but when it comes to a nikka in the same shoes, it's "broke ass nikka"..."you still live with so & so" "you ain't shyt"..etc...

Now, the nikka WITH options like that can afford to fukk on bytches that ain't got it all together and still leave em to fukk another hoe and not give a flying fukk...therefore, a bytch gets played and starts screaming that infamous "nikkaz ain't shyt" dialogue....

The nikka thats in the same boat or somewhat the same boat with a bytch he is fukking with or trying to fukk with gets looks at differently. Say both the man and woman live with roommates or parents too but both have jobs, but still trying to make more $, it just ain't satisfying enough to the bytch....when the truth is, that's a nikka that might just be compatible...but hey, bytches see what they wanna see even if it ain't real...u want to test a mf....see how they react to you when ur not all Big Baller Brand vs when you actually are....

So with that being said, get your quac up and don't stress the hoes...IF u find a mf that ain't gonna judge your situation like that, don't fukk that up....that shyt rare
 
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Another thing i notice, especially in THIS age (I turn 29 this month) is that women always seem to want somebody beyond their level rather than actually being on it. I'm gonna break it down.

A bytch could have NO car, still be living with a parent(s) roomate(s)...probably don't even pay their own cell phone bill at the damn least, but would expect to be scooped up by a nikka thats the complete opposite (lives alone, car, great job/career, basically having ALL his shyt together). In society, bytches that are in their 20s like this aren't frowned upon at all....but when it comes to a nikka in the same shoes, it's "broke ass nikka"..."you still live with so & so" "you ain't shyt"..etc...

Now, the nikka WITH options like that can afford to fukk on bytches that ain't got it all together and still leave em to fukk another hoe and not give a flying fukk...therefore, a bytch gets played and starts screaming that infamous "nikkaz ain't shyt" dialogue....

The nikka thats in the same boat or somewhat the same boat with a bytch he is fukking with or trying to fukk with gets looks at differently. Say both the man and woman live with roommates or parents too but both have jobs, but still trying to make more $, it just ain't satisfying enough to the bytch....when the truth is, that's a nikka that might just be compatible...but hey, bytches see what they wanna see even if it ain't real...u want to test a mf....see how they react to you when ur not all Big Baller Brand vs when you actually are....

So with that being said, get your quac up and don't stress the hoes...IF u find a mf that ain't gonna judge your situation like that, don't fukk that up....that shyt rare
It's human nature, woman are submissive, they're gonna have a hard time submitting to someone who they deem lesser or equal to. Look at it from their pov, a bunch of rich simps, playas, sugardaddies, etc. are approaching them everyday each w/ varying levels of income. Why would she settle with someone on her same level?

I think it's only funny when they complain about getting played, other than that i don't blame them for "gold digging". I'd do the same if things were reversed.
 
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