Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Nah dude needs an abrasive stern admonishment. He's doing everything he can do to turn her off
She played games with me then broke up with me and I played games back. Its hard to turn someone on when you're emotionally tarnished and someone is trying to cling on to you still.

Like shjt has fukked me up. And I know it's fukked her up. We've both hurt each other
 

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This one girl I've been dating that isn't opening up... I'm tempted to snap at her and call her out on things. I feel like I need to have a talk with her but I don't know how to approach it tbh.
 

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This one girl I've been dating that isn't opening up... I'm tempted to snap at her and call her out on things. I feel like I need to have a talk with her but I don't know how to approach it tbh.
I'd say just ask the right questions and listen
 

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Dang, a girl in my class looking cute. I had to run down on her after class like "excuse me, what's your name?". She turned around and said hers and then asked for mine and then we got to talking.

Ended up with her saying she has to go the other way but she'll see me in class with a genuine smile (i think) that forced one out of me.

Tranquilo...still gotta see if she's interested or not next week
 

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I'm sorry but you guys make too many excuses. I'm on a European island where most don't speak English and I don't have any of my actual squad here and I still eat well. Y'all too used to being comfortable all the damn time. Stop that line of thinking. Build yourself and go hunt! You don't have anything to lose. Rejection happens. So what.

Oh yeah... GO LIFT!

Where the f*ck you at Sardinia or some shyt ?
 
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Dang, a girl in my class looking cute. I had to run down on her after class like "excuse me, what's your name?". She turned around and said hers and then asked for mine and then we got to talking.

Ended up with her saying she has to go the other way but she'll see me in class with a genuine smile (i think) that forced one out of me.

Tranquilo...still gotta see if she's interested or not next week

Good job breh. Do you usually run down with this opener? It'll save me from thinking I need to say something extravagant.
 

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Made the mistake of giving this chick more than enough chances.


Finally went on a third date and let me express something to you in my experiences with chicks who are really successful now, but grew up poor.


They always feel like they have something to prove. That chip on their shoulder and their constant need for affirmation is such a fukkin' turn off.


Their primary life goal; chasing the dream and showcasing to society that they are able and command respect. No, i get it. You're entitled now because you got some money, you're driven and ambitious... great for you.


But the condescending talk and back handed jabs she so snidely sprinkles in ain't slick, the little white lies saying you aint' receive my text when i told you we had a meeting to grab food... then you say i shoulda called? How convenient.. Sometimes i'm so appalled by how unfiltered and unclassy she comes off as sometimes.


Shoulda bushed this the first night.



Live and learn, brehss.





She's intelligent as fukk. I give her that but...

...and this is not becuz i'm bitter. But she is over confident for somebody built like sponge bob.


Explains her insecurities and why she can't keep a man. Talking about how her ex wasn't intimate with her. Uh yeah. HE was cheating on you. lol.


Pretty face, but over sized boobs and no ass/hips/thighs should have been no-consideration status.



I'll take my L and move on.
 

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Made the mistake of giving this chick more than enough chances.


Finally went on a third date and let me express something to you in my experiences with chicks who are really successful now, but grew up poor.


They always feel like they have something to prove. That chip on their shoulder and their constant need for affirmation is such a fukkin' turn off.


Their primary life goal; chasing the dream and showcasing to society that they are able and command respect. No, i get it. You're entitled now because you got some money, you're driven and ambitious... great for you.


But the condescending talk and back handed jabs she so snidely sprinkles in ain't slick, the little white lies saying you aint' receive my text when i told you we had a meeting to grab food... then you say i shoulda called? How convenient.. Sometimes i'm so appalled by how unfiltered and unclassy she comes off as sometimes.


Shoulda bushed this the first night.



Live and learn, brehss.





She's intelligent as fukk. I give her that but...

...and this is not becuz i'm bitter. But she is over confident for somebody built like sponge bob.


Explains her insecurities and why she can't keep a man. Talking about how her ex wasn't intimate with her. Uh yeah. HE was cheating on you. lol.


Pretty face, but over sized boobs and no ass/hips/thighs should have been no-consideration status.



I'll take my L and move on.
:wow: this is too real. I think I might of mentioned my female cousin who is a lawyer now. Grew up not having a lot, and she exerts this same type of behavior now. Reason why she’s 36 and single.
 
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If you feel like a bytch isn't giving you a real chance, sleeping on you, neglecting how much you care, doing you "wrong" and fukking your heart up, just let her be mane....she might need to get her heart fukked up by another nikka or nikkaz to put her in check....as crazy as it sounds, women have to continually get dogged until they reach a point where they realize that they've been making piss poor choices....in terms of what they look for in a nikka....you can TRY to lead a bytch to clean water vs the dirty water she CHOOSES to consume......and she'll still consume the dirty water anyways bc she thinks she always can find a better person. Women really confuse "wants" and "needs"....by the time they realize they curved the wrong nikka, it's too late....the dude could find another bytch, post pics with each other and the other bytch would start feeling SICK :mjgrin:

Bc they wasted their time getting their hearts stomped by a fukk nikka, when the nikka that genuinely cares could've took them farther, even if his finacial situation wasnt all the way str8....but that's how fake hoes can be...they want to jump with a nikka thats having way more $ when they weren't around when THAT nikka was broke and trying to get it out the mud...

..naw it don't work like that, mane....
 
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