Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

the bossman

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Uh. I hate when I start talking to a female online and all Her answers or replies are short as hell. Especially when you hit me up first lol

Me: so what are some of your interests or things you like to do for fun

Her: Chill w/ fam.


Not even going to waste another second.
The conversation sounding a little dry . Don't keep chatting online for hours or days. Get her offline and onto the phone as soon as you can and start talking. You might just need to find whatever topic makes her tick and she'll start opening up and talking more.

I would look at pics of her profile and start mentioning things I noticed there.

Much more interesting than "how's your day" or "so what do you like to do for fun" talk
 

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still dealin wit my ex callin me cryin every other day:why:. Im sorry shorty :wow:

Date om friday with young 20 yr old chick went smooth. Was high af making out with her ass. Havent texted sonce friday kinda lazy tbh:yeshrug:

Saturday might date with this 22 yr old chick looking to be a doctor was cool. She is nigerian and thicck as a motherfukker. Had me hit the
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. Flat stomach and darkskin:blessed:

She lookin for a relationship tho. Might just try to “go with the flow” and get her hooked on dikk if we fukk.

Date ended around 1:30am and my other shorty from west africa hit me up for some quick dikk. hadnt smashed since last yr and the floppy DD titties and p*ssy was A1:blessed:
 

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Hope everyones weekend plans went well. Despite my situation with the PAAG, I still went to see the punjabi chick I met earlier this week, she was working so we met late.

Anyway things went smoothly there. Her housemate was away so we could make as much noise as we wanted.

:takedat:

Also I think it's time to file down the roster, it's getting unwieldy again. And too many women is a waste of time as you'll never sufficiently see them all.
and it's draining juggling anymore than 5, so I basically bushed anyone I thought was OK but I'll be unlikely to see again.
 

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Outside of this one 34 Year old I vibe with.Most women in their 30's seem to have baggage heavy suitcases including kids,past relationships etc...like I said there is only 1 I vibe with

You see what I mean...

They are also heavy careerists as well.
 

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Brehs, if a chick ghost on ya. Don't try to hit her up seeing where she at, don't send her no angry text/call. Bushes.

AAAAAND

If she hits u up about chillin, u NOW have da power. U can keep her in da bushes or be like "U gotta cook me dinner AND a u owe me a kiss."

I've been tempted to send angry texts to this one girl lol but that shyt is useless.
 

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Nah, don't give her da satisfaction. Nonchalance REALLY make women mad. They ego can't take a man not giving them attention.

Her birthday was yesterday. It's a few days before mine and we thought that was cool.

Since last week I have been straight up ignoring her after her saying she has no romantic interest in me (despite going on two months of dates) she has been liking a lot of my shyt on FB lol.

Not going to reciprocate.
 

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A chick tell u "U moving too fast."

Bushes, then go find u a chick who like nikkaz who move too fast.

:yeshrug:


This ain't da 1940's. This ain't Women's Day magazine. I bet she wouldn't tell Isris Elba or Blair Underwood "U moving too fast."

:lolbron:
Movin too fast= she got a roster/waiting for the nikka she really want to come thru
 

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Hmmm so i was out with a couple friends last night at the club:takedat:. and one of my female friends said one of her other friends at the club was feeling me even though i never talked to her.

Supposedly she was calling me handsome and asking about me etc to her.

So i go along and talk the this girl for a bit with her 3 sisters. ( her including her sisters are all:whew:)
and i dunno things were kinda awkward i think she was shy

Anyway we all go back to the dance floor, ended up grinding with her for a bit literally one song :dead:

After a while,Her and her sisters go, said by to my female friend but said nothing to me so i thought maybe she wasn't feeling me anymore. :yeshrug:

But turns out she asked my friend to give her number to me tomorrow (which is today):whoo:

So ive just messaged her basically saying its ____ from last night, was nice meeting you how have you been?


Anyway just looking for opinions for the next step to take :patrice:
Only been in one serious relationship, and dealt with girls thats gone straight to:camby:
Never really dealt with a shy girl so kinda :flabbynsick: on what to do.

Also need you guys to check me:ufdup: in case i start simpin
 

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If she friend zoning me for another guy :mjcry:

She is attractive and outgoing, I knew a lot of her guys wanted her too, but I thought I had her on lock. She was always smiling at me, sat next to me in class, responded to text fast, and wanted to spend time together then all of a sudden she hit me with the "we are moving too fast" shyt.


She is texting me right now too, like everything is just normal and she ain't break my spirit earlier today

I'm sorry if I seem like a simp coli brehs, I just don't understand :wow:
 
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