Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[PuffTheMagicDragon]

Hmmm so i was out with a couple friends last night at the club. and one of my female friends said one of her other friends at the club was feeling me even though i never talked to her.

Supposedly she was calling me handsome and asking about me etc to her.

So i go along and talk the this girl for a bit with her 3 sisters. ( her including her sisters are all)
and i dunno things were kinda awkward i think she was shy

Anyway we all go back to the dance floor, ended up grinding with her for a bit literally one song

After a while,Her and her sisters go, said by to my female friend but said nothing to me so i thought maybe she wasn't feeling me anymore.

But turns out she asked my friend to give her number to me tomorrow (which is today)

So ive just messaged her basically saying its ____ from last night, was nice meeting you how have you been?


Anyway just looking for opinions for the next step to take
Only been in one serious relationship, and dealt with girls thats gone straight to
Never really dealt with a shy girl so kinda on what to do.

Also need you guys to check me in case i start simpin

If she's shy that means you have to be the assertive one, the ball's in your court everything going forward is up to you.

You can turn her into your FWB, GF, etc. its all your choice.

 

[PuffTheMagicDragon]

If she friend zoning me for another guy

She is attractive and outgoing, I knew a lot of her guys wanted her too, but I thought I had her on lock. She was always smiling at me, sat next to me in class, responded to text fast, and wanted to spend time together then all of a sudden she hit me with the "we are moving too fast" shyt.


She is texting me right now too, like everything is just normal and she ain't break my spirit earlier today

I'm sorry if I seem like a simp coli brehs, I just don't understand

She'll friendzone you if you DON'T move too fast. Just make your intentions clear, ask her why moving so fast is such a bad thing anyways. If she can't give a sound reason then she's obviously not feeling you and just sees you as a friend.

 

[Deafheaven]

Moving too fast 99% of the time translates to you inadvertently or overtly projecting your desire onto her. You giving off boyfriend vibes not lover vibes and as such shes put you in that box, once again nikkas need to just think if her physical perefection/super attractive to her male made moves on her first date you think she gonna tell him he moving too fast? Hell na. So just be honest without yourself and realize she just aint attracted to you like that or you failed to ramp up said initial attraction to the point of her wanting to bother. Ive havent been told I move too fast in ages and I move fassssstttt. But I try to read cues and will know where my attraction level is at very wuickly. Never stop moving fast. Attraction has an expiration date.

 

[ViShawn]

Movin too fast= she got a roster/waiting for the nikka she really want to come thru

I mean there's times a girl got out of a relationship and they don't want to rush things.

But yes the last girl that told me she wanted to take it slow wasn't interested in me so I tend to agree.

 

[MikelArteta]

breh i swear women know when you no longer care,

I see my ex today, she tellsme she had a dream about me and im like ok , she was telling me then she asked if i miss her all hugging me and ish and i said i just saw you at work on friday.

 

[BigMan]

breh i swear women know when you no longer care,

I see my ex today, she tellsme she had a dream about me and im like ok , she was telling me then she asked if i miss her all hugging me and ish and i said i just saw you at work on friday.

chick just told me this shyt



i take dreams seriously tho so i'm confused if she just trying to play or what

 

[VertigoKnight]

Moving too fast 99% of the time translates to you inadvertently or overtly projecting your desire onto her. You giving off boyfriend vibes not lover vibes and as such shes put you in that box, once again nikkas need to just think if her physical perefection/super attractive to her male made moves on her first date you think she gonna tell him he moving too fast? Hell na. So just be honest without yourself and realize she just aint attracted to you like that or you failed to ramp up said initial attraction to the point of her wanting to bother. Ive havent been told I move too fast in ages and I move fassssstttt. But I try to read cues and will know where my attraction level is at very wuickly. Never stop moving fast. Attraction has an expiration date.

Agree. If I'm meeting a chick by the end of the night we're either going to be kissing and groping or we're going back to her/my place and getting down to something.

A date, if the conversation has been stellar up to then is basically sealing the deal in person. But yes, her attraction levels to you in person should be easy to gauge very quickly. Women are just as base as men when it comes to wanting sex. if their feeling you it's going to happen quickly.

They'll also include a "I don't usually do that, but..." text the next morning.

 

[True Blue Moon]

Y'all nikkas are in for a long, hard life if you don't stop being so needy.

Having a breakdown when a chick you just saw doesn't respond within an hour

 

[KaliBurn]

If she's shy that means you have to be the assertive one, the ball's in your court everything going forward is up to you.

You can turn her into your FWB, GF, etc. its all your choice.

Ah i see

 

[John Reena]

Her birthday was yesterday. It's a few days before mine and we thought that was cool.

Since last week I have been straight up ignoring her after her saying she has no romantic interest in me (despite going on two months of dates) she has been liking a lot of my shyt on FB lol.

Not going to reciprocate.

U in da driver seat breh.

 

[MikelArteta]

Got another date with the new chick on Tuesday

 

[John Reena]

If she friend zoning me for another guy

She is attractive and outgoing, I knew a lot of her guys wanted her too, but I thought I had her on lock. She was always smiling at me, sat next to me in class, responded to text fast, and wanted to spend time together then all of a sudden she hit me with the "we are moving too fast" shyt.


She is texting me right now too, like everything is just normal and she ain't break my spirit earlier today

I'm sorry if I seem like a simp coli brehs, I just don't understand

It's aight breh, look at it as a "learning" experience. Great pimps molded by experience.

 

[ViShawn]

U in da driver seat breh.

Gotta take the power away.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Had a great weekend. Pulled this nice lil’ thick joint when I was out with the homies last night. Hopped on a flight to chill in Lisbon for a few days. Checked into my air b n’ b spot and the shorty who met with me was kinda cute. I thought “What would ATL do?” So I had to pull up. We’re gonna have dinner one of the nights I’m here. I’m liking all the success stories guys are posting.

 

[zerorequiem]

I gotta get on yall level brehs. Just gotta work on myself first (weight, money, etc). I can't play in the game with a bad hand. Much respect to yall in here.