Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[International Playa]

I’ve got one of the goofiest problems, and I’ve already posted about it before...


It’s goofy but it really, really fukks up me trying to get some p*ssy though


So I’m grown as hell, but I still live at home with my family ...


So that’s my issue, whenever I bring a female back to crack, I have to hear “how this ain’t a hotel, take these hoes back to a hotel if you wanna do all that”...


So for the past year, I brought one popped bytch back to the crib n that’s it...


So that means that any time I kick it with a female, if we’re on a date , I have no closing spot to seal the deal...



I feel like I missed out on a gooooood amount of p*ssy because of this...


It’s not always finically or even an option to get a room somewhere...



I guess there’s no solution to my problem except


1.) get my own spot (which I plan on after I save up some more & possibly get a better job)


2.) get a room each & everytime but that shyt hasn’t really been working

Youngest breh in my crew still lives at home & doesnt drive. He has a roster of 3 females, he always gets a hotel/ motel room when they come to see him. It helps that his females go 50/50 on the hotel room.

Depending on where you live, use the comparison sites, you can search for cheap hotel rooms.

If you got a car, you can smash in your car in abandoned car parks

 

[LoMax30]

I'm getting older been single for yearsss and the only women I meet where there's a strong mutual attraction never live in the same city (or country) as me Yea, I have my slides and whatnot who live in the same city but I'm kinda over the smash & dash I tried doing long distance before and those ended bad so I swore them off But in a way I feel bad because nowadays I'll meet an amazing woman then then be like once I find out she lives OT. Sometimes I feel like I can't win with this ish

 

[LoMax30]

Brehs, do any of you all have that one woman you know you’d leave the game for?

This one girl who I met in NY a few years ago and have stayed cool with all this time is on my list of ones I would tie down with no questions.

The women furthest away from you always seem to be the best ones for you

Story of my life

 

[1thouwow]

i'm a veteran. don't. kbye.

Naw it's a good escApe that can shoot me out. Get my education for free and save money

This is hilarious when people undermine the people that actually has the hands on experience

 

[Deafheaven]

This is hilarious when people undermine the people that actually has the hands on experience

I mean we all do it pertaining to women in here so this is not too different. I still think homie should not sign up. They literally own your ass and its hard to stay sane in the military as a black man. If I had a choice of just being broke as fukk and going to college instead of enlisting I would probs just be broke. Youre sovreignty is something that is very underrated till you don't have it any more.

 

[1thouwow]

If she friend zoning me for another guy

She is attractive and outgoing, I knew a lot of her guys wanted her too, but I thought I had her on lock. She was always smiling at me, sat next to me in class, responded to text fast, and wanted to spend time together then all of a sudden she hit me with the "we are moving too fast" shyt.


She is texting me right now too, like everything is just normal and she ain't break my spirit earlier today

I'm sorry if I seem like a simp coli brehs, I just don't understand

She about to play u like a sucka

 

[1thouwow]

@Astroslik @TRUEST you guys are right, I wont contact that female again. When you been in a drought, you refuse to see the obvious signs.

I will just smash the big girl for now till I get better females

What was the revelation?

 

[Mr. Glass]

He hardly ever returns my texts/calls. Why should I show a loyalty to him he doesn't show me?

nikka, stop. There are so many females out there. This will end badly for you. Leave it alone.

 

[Shadow King]

I’ve got one of the goofiest problems, and I’ve already posted about it before...


It’s goofy but it really, really fukks up me trying to get some p*ssy though


So I’m grown as hell, but I still live at home with my family ...


So that’s my issue, whenever I bring a female back to crack, I have to hear “how this ain’t a hotel, take these hoes back to a hotel if you wanna do all that”...


So for the past year, I brought one popped bytch back to the crib n that’s it...


So that means that any time I kick it with a female, if we’re on a date , I have no closing spot to seal the deal...



I feel like I missed out on a gooooood amount of p*ssy because of this...


It’s not always finically or even an option to get a room somewhere...



I guess there’s no solution to my problem except


1.) get my own spot (which I plan on after I save up some more & possibly get a better job)


2.) get a room each & everytime but that shyt hasn’t really been working

This is why "get money first" is preached so hard. I haven't attempted but I have the same problem.

 

[MaxPain]

My ex been blowing my phone up since I dumped her for going thru my phone

Blocked her and she been callin me from different #s

Just changed my # for good so Im set


Talking to this Dominican girl I met thru friends, and were just texting but ima push for a meet up soon (i feel like u lose the girl when u text for too long )

Oh and oddly enough, my ex before this ones cousin hmu on snapchat after no contact for months but I opened her snap and didnt reply two can play that game




Ya boy is back!!!

 

[RealAssanova]

Got a date on Saturday, she not my type, big girl with a fat ass though. Chick is a bit thirsty, always hitting up my phone. Im gonna smash regardless & put her on my roster

I got another female Im highly attracted to. I recently started talking to her, I met her through mutual friends, shes very shy & does those nervous giggles when we on the phone. When I ask to meet up, she says "I will let you know".

ain't it funny....the one you indifferent about is all up on you and constantly hitting you up...but the one you want is being ambiguous.

life man....smh.

 

[MaxPain]

ain't it funny....the one you indifferent about is all up on you and constantly hitting you up...but the one you want is being ambiguous.

life man....smh.

Thats why im about all of em

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Thats why im about all of em

That’s the key right there. You have to keep the take it or leave it attitude with ALL of them. It’s not easy by any means but when you get to that mental space, you’re unstoppable.

 

[Easy-E]

Brehs...



The problem here is she feels proud to admit this in public.

She got passed around like a basketball in a San Antonio Spurs play.

 

[Goon for hire]

Coli brehs I don't understand
So today I go inthe class I got with her, she barely said a word to me, I tried starting conversation (as she was the one who initiates almost all of them) and she gave me a short response and seemed annoyed so I just said fukk it, she was texting on her phone the whole time,at lunch she sat by me and was talking and being friendly to me

After school she asked me for a ride to her house, I said okay. Drove her home and she was talkative and joking with me. gave me a hug when she was getting out the car and in my head I was

Does it sound like I'm friend zoned, another Breh or she just confused?