Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Deafheaven]

Thank you. In the Tao de ching it says the woman submits through stillness as well. Okay, definitely get up on some new ass. I got 1 chick who has a bf of 3 years that wants to smoke with me. We're in the same class and are friends but I told her I could train (like personal trainer) her if she wants for like 10 bucks an hour or for free. But you're right. As of now I need to do nothing but handle my BI so I can transcend into who I'm meant to be. Stack my doe up so I can do martial arts etc.

Why does it have to be the woman's idea?

because if its not her idea its chasing from you. optimally you want women to pursue not them as if they are chasing you they aren't breaking up with you.

 

[PuffTheMagicDragon]

maaannnnn just my luck huh?

Out of the blue this chick comes and talks to me while im getting mail.
based on the convo it's obvious she's feeling me

I was chilling later today but then I started thinking, "breh she got a nice EVERYTHING (booty is on Cherokee, you can see that shyt from the front )
she hang around my cousin sometimes so she's good people, and I can tell she's not bullshytting this school shyt.
Plus I'm certain she's lowkey, so fukk it, Shoot"


my cousin tell me that she taken

Bullshyt

Spoiler: dadas

The in me is saying nah fam dont intrude on a home

but the in me is like

fukk it breh

Homes gotta come down sometimes
The plumbing gotta be taken care of tho
if she dont give it to u then u straight

Just assume she's single until she straight up tells you she's taken.

Your cousin could just be cock blocking you.

 

[the bossman]

When y'all make plans with a chick do y'all hit her up in between? Say I made plans to chill in 3 weeks do you talk between that time or wait until she hits u?

3 weeks? why so far?

hit her up every couple days. you can get to know each other through conversations beforehand so that by the time yall finally meet in person you can skip right to the touchy flirty shyt off break

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Thank you. In the Tao de ching it says the woman submits through stillness as well. Okay, definitely get up on some new ass. I got 1 chick who has a bf of 3 years that wants to smoke with me. We're in the same class and are friends but I told her I could train (like personal trainer) her if she wants for like 10 bucks an hour or for free. But you're right. As of now I need to do nothing but handle my BI so I can transcend into who I'm meant to be. Stack my doe up so I can do martial arts etc.

Why does it have to be the woman's idea?

Brehs in here quoting ancient Chinese scripture trying to figure out where he went wrong



But don't feel bad, breh. I been there

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Ish is weird as hell breh, again today my ex comes up to me at work and tells me do you know what day it is tomorrow and i said tuesday

and shes like its the 17th (we met on the 17th and both of our birthdays are on the 17th and i asked her to marry me on the 17th) I said oh that means my birthday is 9 months away.

She said aren't we going to celebrate , i said were not together .


I haven't said nothing but it likes she knows im going out on dates or something, for months i aint heard a peep, no talking no nothing, i went out on a date on friday and suddenly, its like im the one who ended the engagement or some ish

I get that you guys work together and all that but you’re kinda playing yourself by continuing to entertain conversation with her. It’s gonna start messing with your head eventually.... if it already isn’t.

 

[LoMax30]

Coli brehs I don't understand
So today I go inthe class I got with her, she barely said a word to me, I tried starting conversation (as she was the one who initiates almost all of them) and she gave me a short response and seemed annoyed so I just said fukk it, she was texting on her phone the whole time,at lunch she sat by me and was talking and being friendly to me

After school she asked me for a ride to her house, I said okay. Drove her home and she was talkative and joking with me. gave me a hug when she was getting out the car and in my head I was

Does it sound like I'm friend zoned, another Breh or she just confused?

Don't be that bird's uber breh Wishy washy chicks asking for favors? Bushes Tell that creep she got two feet

 

[John Reena]

Ish is weird as hell breh, again today my ex comes up to me at work and tells me do you know what day it is tomorrow and i said tuesday

and shes like its the 17th (we met on the 17th and both of our birthdays are on the 17th and i asked her to marry me on the 17th) I said oh that means my birthday is 9 months away.

She said aren't we going to celebrate , i said were not together .


I haven't said nothing but it likes she knows im going out on dates or something, for months i aint heard a peep, no talking no nothing, i went out on a date on friday and suddenly, its like im the one who ended the engagement or some ish

Oh ya, cuz females egos get bruised when u don't run n chase they ass after a break-up. That shyt drives them up da wall. That's good that ya ex all discombobulated and all in ya grill. Maybe she'll do right next time. From now on doe, keep convo wit her EXTREMELY short. Give one word answers. She'll def get da HINT to get da hell on.

 

[John Reena]

I'm loving THIS!!!!

That "We don't chase em', we replace em'" lifestyle gone have da brehs eating good this Fall n Winter!!

 

[VertigoKnight]

Matched with a 26 yr old Eritrean chick on the weekend. Born in Toronto moved to Vancouver when she was 12. This chick is a baddie but she reeks of trouble, the exhilarating kind but I'm not looking for anyone too wild to blow up my spot.

But she's been on me all weekend. Despite the opening convos with her she's actually fairly switched on. Despite her 'job' title on Tinder being 'CEO of a trap house'.



She's putting on a dumb girl persona for her IG. I'm intrigued and will see where she pushes this. Her body though



Not going to fall too easy into that trap though...

 

[TheArchitect]

We must have different definitions of bushes. I don’t notify these chicks that they’ve been tossed. Let her figure it out on her own. Damn homie you fumbling like crazy. You were at a crossroads where you could’ve come out on top but you let your desire for her turn you into a clown. When you get the chance, REALLY read through the thread. It’s a lot I know but it’ll help a great deal. You sound like you don’t really believe in yourself and if that’s the case you’ll keep racking up these L’s.

I had this same problem the few times I ever tried anything with females. I guess it was a case of one oneitis....This probably is why I'm less inclined to chase females nowadays, because I never had any real success.....I just find/found that shyt mentally exhausting, having to chase after females that don't really want me like that, except when they need shyt/favors/attention.

Brehs......ya got to realize.....ALOT of chicks flirty n act like they feeling u for ATTENTION. Females THRIVE off that. That's why u gotta be ready 24-7 to send a chick to da bushes!!!!

Another huge reason I kind of gave up on females (in a way).....I felt as if "they don't even really like me. they just want to use me for favors and shyt...." It would INFURIATE me when they come smiling in my face with fake love after the disrespect and rejection because they need something for me. It got to a point that once I was rejected or disrespected, I would completely ignore said females COMPLETELY. She would cease to exist, she may as well have been invisible. Petty? Maybe. Just can't STAND being played with in any form.....

 

[Rocket Scientist]

A man is the leader,the head,the Chief. Always will be.Brothas have to stop letting women control,tell them what to do.Get your cahunas back brehs.If a woman can't get with the program then bushes

 

[Goon for hire]

alright brehs, need more advice

Today in the class we had together, she sat next to her friends, I didn't say anything to her and she didn't say shyt to me. Her friends and her were whispering and giggling the whole time and then she was showing them something on her phone A little bit into the class I looked over and I see her staring at me in my head I hit the

The rest of the class every time I looked up she was looking in my direction.

Then at lunch, I was sitting with my boys and she came over and sat next to me and asked me if I really didn't want to talk or hangout with her anymore. I said yes with a straight face, my boys hit me with the and she just walked away in my head I was

My boy who has a class with her after lunch said she said something about me, but he didn't hear it cause he had his earbuds in

She didn't ask me for a ride home today either

I asked my sister what she thinks and she said she thinks ole girl is feeling me but isn't sure and that I need to do something to Reassure her feelings. But I think this is some bullshyt

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

alright brehs, need more advice

Today in the class we had together, she sat next to her friends, I didn't say anything to her and she didn't say shyt to me. Her friends and her were whispering and giggling the whole time and then she was showing them something on her phone A little bit into the class I looked over and I see her staring at me in my head I hit the

The rest of the class every time I looked up she was looking in my direction.

Then at lunch, I was sitting with my boys and she came over and sat next to me and asked me if I really didn't want to talk or hangout with her anymore. I said yes with a straight face, my boys hit me with the and she just walked away in my head I was

My boy who has a class with her after lunch said she said something about me, but he didn't hear it cause he had his earbuds in

She didn't ask me for a ride home today either

I asked my sister what she thinks and she said she thinks ole girl is feeling me but isn't sure and that I need to do something to Reassure her feelings. But I think this is some bullshyt

Homie... just stop. Why you asking your sister anything about this? She pulling women on the regular? No. She about to have you out here looking more foolish than you already do. If you bushed her then NOTHING she says or does should matter to you. That is the nature of the game. If she starts showing any interest and you fold, she’ll know you’re weak and she can flip you like a light switch whenever she wants.

Don’t ask your sister anything else because anything she says will benefit the girl. It’s just the way it goes unfortunately... If this chick rolls up on you again simply say “I’ve said all I have to say to you already.” That’s it. Find a chick who is actually feeling you and carry yourself like you’re someone to be coveted. You in your head about her and her friends. F them chicks man.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Breh you pulled her card and she doesn't like it. These are the critical moments. When you can't relent to this chick or she'll try you again.

EDIT: lol Mister_DoItNice makes the point stronger than me

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Breh how old are you son @Colgatebrah