Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

RealAssanova

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Homie... just stop. Why you asking your sister anything about this? She pulling women on the regular? No. She about to have you out here looking more foolish than you already do. If you bushed her then NOTHING she says or does should matter to you. That is the nature of the game. If she starts showing any interest and you fold, she’ll know you’re weak and she can flip you like a light switch whenever she wants.

Don’t ask your sister anything else because anything she says will benefit the girl. It’s just the way it goes unfortunately... If this chick rolls up on you again simply say “I’ve said all I have to say to you already.” That’s it. Find a chick who is actually feeling you and carry yourself like you’re someone to be coveted. You in your head about her and her friends. F them chicks man.

heed this advice @Colgatebrah.

people say men are predators who prey on the insecure...but women are predators too. They can sniff out and pounce on a weak nikka...and you breh displayed some weak traits.

However, not all is lost. What you need to do now is you need to change your mindset permanently when it comes to women. Wanna know how? Start off by coming to terms with the fact that this girl is a lost cause and a second more shouldn't be spent thinking about the what if's or why's. Then, you need to understand that women are extremely transitional and can be in and out of your life within a matter of minutes. They are not something you base your confidence, mood or feelings on at all. Thirdly, you need to become a man of principle who knows what he wants and doesn't. Often times people get emotions caught up with the desire to fukk the girl and that's what leads to alot of problems...and i myself am guilty of that. So if you wanna fukk a girl, keep your emotions out of it and just have that as a goal at the back of your head. Don't make it a focus but rather something you would like to achieve but know its not something that is guaranteed.

Moreover, start focusing and doing you bro. Do you have the body you've always wanted? Do you have the money to do whatever you like? What about a car? Are you in debt?

look at the bigger picture and i promise you things will start to get better.
 

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Breh how old are you son @Colgatebrah :why:
I'm 17

heed this advice @Colgatebrah.

people say men are predators who prey on the insecure...but women are predators too. They can sniff out and pounce on a weak nikka...and you breh displayed some weak traits.

However, not all is lost. What you need to do now is you need to change your mindset permanently when it comes to women. Wanna know how? Start off by coming to terms with the fact that this girl is a lost cause and a second more shouldn't be spent thinking about the what if's or why's. Then, you need to understand that women are extremely transitional and can be in and out of your life within a matter of minutes. They are not something you base your confidence, mood or feelings on at all. Thirdly, you need to become a man of principle who knows what he wants and doesn't. Often times people get emotions caught up with the desire to fukk the girl and that's what leads to alot of problems...and i myself am guilty of that. So if you wanna fukk a girl, keep your emotions out of it and just have that as a goal at the back of your head. Don't make it a focus but rather something you would like to achieve but know its not something that is guaranteed.

Moreover, start focusing and doing you bro. Do you have the body you've always wanted? Do you have the money to do whatever you like? What about a car? Are you in debt?

look at the bigger picture and i promise you things will start to get better.
Thanks man
 

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alright brehs, need more advice

Today in the class we had together, she sat next to her friends, I didn't say anything to her and she didn't say shyt to me. Her friends and her were whispering and giggling the whole time and then she was showing them something on her phone A little bit into the class I looked over and I see her staring at me in my head I hit the :merchant:

The rest of the class every time I looked up she was looking in my direction.

Then at lunch, I was sitting with my boys and she came over and sat next to me and asked me if I really didn't want to talk or hangout with her anymore. I said yes with a straight face, my boys hit me with the:gucci: and she just walked away in my head I was:to:

My boy who has a class with her after lunch said she said something about me, but he didn't hear it cause he had his earbuds in

She didn't ask me for a ride home today either

I asked my sister what she thinks and she said she thinks ole girl is feeling me but isn't sure and that I need to do something to Reassure her feelings. But I think this is some bullshyt
im not giving you anymore advice

tired of nikkas not taking our advice and applying it, wtf do you think this thread is for?
 

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Just assume she's single until she straight up tells you she's taken.

Your cousin could just be cock blocking you.
nah my cousin's not the cock blocking type, if anything she's helped me avoid some bad situations

also i asked for proof n she showed me a pic of them:beli:

but next time i see her imma just ask for her number and whatever she tells me :yeshrug:
 

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Got a girls number today. At the library she kept on making herself apparent to me, I noticed. And then she even let her classmate go without her so that she could stay and pack up. So her friend left and I started talking to her, I noticed she said she had class at 640 and it was 630 and I mentioned that and she was nonchalant about it like "I'll stay here and talk" after I offered to walk her to class. Then it was 6:35 and so I noted the time and asked if I could get her a drink sometime, got her number, and sent her away.

She's a cool chick, she's smart and studies language like me but Spanish and psychology. She's from this area too, which is kinda dope. Made time for me. I dunno, I'm gonna see what's up.
 

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You know we get several thousands of thoughts today.

I was just thinking how come I let that chick made me second guess myself and making myself feel stupid around her because she wasn't opening up to me or she wasn't interested. I was also thinking why was I wasting my time on her because I had other options I was talking to and some got away. Like I recall asking to see her playing one of her favorite sports volleyball and she told me it wasn't a spectator sport. :stopitslime:

Anyways I let a woman waste my time when there are many other women out there that are into me. I was on a second date last week with another woman and been chatting up a 26 and 28 year old. Meanwhile the girl I was sweating a bit just turned 33. I can always date down and not have to date at my age or older as a man.

Just random thoughts. That's why I said it isn't an indicator of your value in the dating market especially when there's 3.4 other billion on this planet.
 
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