Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[sixsixtwo]

"My girlfriend found out she is pregnant recently. We are long distance and my gut feeling is that this is not my child. Don't know how I bring up my doubts and don't even know if I should bring it up. There is a strong possibility that this pregnancy will be terminated so considering just letting it go in that case. Want advice on what to do."

Long distance girlfriend recently found out she is pregnant. I don't know how to bring up or if I should bring up that I have some doubts that I am the father. : relationships

 

[philmonroe]

If anybody was watching First Take this morning it was a topic about a 9yr old girl playing football and SAS was sounding like an idiot again. Dude said she should not be playing with guys because what if guys hitting her on the field decide they can hit girls off the field or some junk along them lines. I was like seriously dude and how about don't act like dudes are savages that cant control themselves EVERYBODY keep their hands off everybody. If thats the case everybody that watches violent movies and/or listens to music with negative messages should just blame that when they doing their evil. I'm feeling like I'm caught in the matrix mane.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I've read the first book but it was when I was younger I need to read it again. I'm assuming your talking about the first one since its so many now.

I don't think he wrote more than one (there's multiple editions though).

This the book [ame=http://www.amazon.com/Rich-Dad-Poor-Teach-Middle/dp/1612680011/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1352481873&sr=1-1&keywords=rich+dad+poor+dad]Rich Dad Poor Dad: What The Rich Teach Their Kids About Money That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not!: Robert T. Kiyosaki: 9781612680019: Amazon.com: Books[/ame]

 

[philmonroe]

I don't think he wrote more than one (there's multiple editions though).

This the book Rich Dad Poor Dad: What The Rich Teach Their Kids About Money That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not!: Robert T. Kiyosaki: 9781612680019: Amazon.com: Books

It might only be one of this book title but it definitely is a group now that has the rich dad title by the same guy cause I've read another book called retire young, retire rich. That why I assumed you were talking about the original one (which you were) before he made all these other spin off books.

 

[MikelArteta]

Nudie that same Ghanaian chick?

Why?

 

[Ohene]

Nudie that same Ghanaian chick?

Why?

Nigerian chick fam. Inbox me.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

man you cant trust these females

met some female at the mall during my lunch breah..chit chatted and got her number

she then text me that she has a BF and he lives in maryland

girl is from zambia


smh

 

[kevm3]

Yeah most females really aren't trustworthy these days. That's why I don't really care about wifing one of these western females up.

 

[Ohene]

To build on this. Women are very fairweather to the point where the more time you spend away from them the more they tend to forget exactly why they are even fukkin with you in the first place. We may all think that our game is tight but we are not the only dudes talking to them we are not the only ones they are listening too. We all like to talk about having rosters but most of us on are best days have basketball rosters at the best. These girls how ever dont have rosters but motherfukkin squads the size of the Crimson Tide. Redshirts, Walk-ons, five star recruits etc. Dont eem gotta be the cutest girl either. We have the ability to sign and bid for free agents but a lot of these girls have players begging to play for them. Try your best to be the Lakers and not some Toronto Raptors ass nikkas.

Have you ever been with a woman that really likes you face to face and noticed how she looks at you with the most divine respect and even awe...yet when you two are away from one another for even a week and petty arguments begin and it feels like they're damn near hiding behind their phone? Go out in person again and its a totally different story and theyre marveling at you again?dealt with promptly. Be proactive. Not to say you gotta be with the girl daily but separate yourself from the other dudes with that same old, "Good Morning" "How was your day?" "What are you up to?" shyt. Any actual conversations should be done over the phone or in person.

Maybe it's just me but it happens very often. This is why it is important to avoid texting girls about trivial bullshyt unless it's shyt that can be dealt with promptly. If she cant sustain or even try to engage in a phone conversation / make the effort to meet with you in person; you either share that girl or shes too immature and not even worth the effort.

@ManMade...this was my first gem in thread. Peep it.

 

[Ohene]

How old are you 1st.


But second, nah you werent used. You wanted to fukk him too. Dont put all the blame on him. You must self reflect upon yourself. Thats the only way you'll grow and overcome this situation. But most importantly not allow it to happen again.


Passing the blame all onto the man is what all these "All Men aint shyt" "Aint no nice guys" bitter women do.

I put a coworker on this thread...my senior manager. I decided to go through some old stuff too.

Rominati

 

[Ohene]

Always remember, there is no such thing as a male friend. I don't even know you and I wanna fukk you (unless you ugly then I don't even want you quoting my posts). The only man in you're life who'll truly love you for you is your pops All your male friends, if given the chance, would buss off in you a couple times then be onto the next one.

Don't be one of those delusional broads who think men really like them for them. Men are pre wired to reproduce, and women, despite their best efforts, are annoying as shyt for the most part.

BDizzle
I remember reading this, dont know why i didnt dap it

 

[Rominati]

I put a coworker on this thread...my senior manager. I decided to go through some old stuff too.

Rominati

Dont jus thank me. Thank all the wonder amd enlightened men who all came together to make this thread what it is


Lowkey I think this thread is top 3 on this whole site


The game in here man


Its On some Hidden Solomon Scriptures type shyt

 

[Kenny West]

I wrote this in another thread....since this a whole thread worth of essay like game, here you go

You aint tell us the first thing about either chick


But I'm just gonna drop this:

Actions speak louder than words, even when you gaming/chopping it up with a chick. Many many MANY people don't look at social interactions from an ACTION standpoint, and that's where lot's of nikkas fukk up they game. You can't just focus on what you say, you gotta almost be your third own third person on the side examining the frame of your conversation.

Now when I mean social actions it's less about what they say and more about what they're doing when saying it. When you can understand that you really start getting better with chicks.

For example, if you ever get the chance (don't do it on the two chicks you finna fukk though) ask some chick about her last relationship and why it's over. Regardless of what they say, 90% usually preform the same ACTION; they shift the blame somehow to their ex boyfriend (even if they themselves cheated ) They'll say "We broke up, he didn't appreciate me", crazy ones will say "he couldn't handle me" even if they admit to cheating there will be some side cliffnote making him the reason she cheated "He was cheating too!/ he made me feel insecure" etc.

When you can recognize social actions in a convo that is looking at the FRAME. What you wanna do with frame is assume a dominant one. A lot of this is a$$holeish stuff but bytches eat it up. Dudes on the other hand just find it fukking annoying (because it is) Now some typical frame fukkups you wanna avoid

- Don't explain yourself and ESPECIALLY don't apologize and make excuses. this is called supplication. never supplicate. she don't pay your bills and if she aint give you the p*ssy you don't owe her shyt, not even an explanation.
- When she ask a question dodge that shyt, even the little shyt. At the very least turn it around and make her answer the question she posed to you before you answer it
- Make her do shyt for you. and don't ask, just tell. Doesn't even have to be big shyt and she doesn't have to do anything. Like if I walk away from my cup at a bar I'mma tell the chick next to it "watch my cup, don't let none of these pimple lipped hoes touch it"....and when you come back....instant convo
- Know when to walk away. if you at a party and she turns to talk to someone else GTFO and go mingle. Standing around will drop your chances of hitting it by the second like getting poisoned in Pokemon

anyway thats all I feel like typing. good luck

 

[Wild self]

Dont jus thank me. Thank all the wonder amd enlightened men who all came together to make this thread what it is


Lowkey I think this thread is top 3 on this whole site


The game in here man


Its On some Hidden Solomon Scriptures type shyt

Its top 3 thread on the entire net. Now I understand what Bob Marley meant when he said to "emancipate yourself from mental slavery."

 

[CrossBones]

"Esther Vilar argues that the freedom men think they have in selecting a wife and being head of the household is actually slavery, and that working the same job for forty years to support a woman is no different than a child repeatedly playing the same board game. The Manipulated Man is one of those books that reframes your world view (even if you were already on a red pill bent), making you question what value women offer besides their vaginas.

While men pick a career and work 40 years nonstop because they have to, today’s woman treats her career more as a temporary adventure. She’s ultra-serious about it in her 20s but then tosses it overboard for children upon landing a successful husband. I find that Vilar nails the more traditional societies which still exist today in Eastern Europe, particularly Ukraine, and how those crafty women enslave a man through marriage in exchange for popping out a kid and doing a couple hours of housework per day. Keep in mind this book written in the early 70s and referred to a time when the nuclear family was still intact, so she did not predict the degree that Western women would soon enslave themselves in the rat race."

Read more: The Manipulated Man

“Theoretically it is possible for a beautiful woman to have less intelligence than a chimpanzee and still be considered an acceptable member of society.”