Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CrossBones]

a lot of bytches are vampires and live for manipulating men into being their breadwinner until they score a marriage, then theyre ready to cut it off for a guaranteed check. like without a man, youd see they wouldnt have shyt. some arent though, the ability to distinguish one from another takes a lot more than we'd like to admit. a prime indicator to me if a bytch is even about shyt is her number of sexual partners, how she interacts with other men, is she on social sites clamoring for attention for any little thoughts she might got, and does she listen to her friends more or her family.

 

[CrossBones]

we dont like to admit it, but if your friends do something, YOURE doing something too. the influence can be more subtle, but its powerful too. this goes for guys and girls. everyone going on a road trip? youre going on a road trip. your team, theyre going to the strip club? youre going to the strip club. theyre hollering at hoes? youre hollering too. theyre buying more drinks, youre probably buying more drinks and getting fukked up too.

I used to say Id never use online dating sites. guess what? my homeboy set one up. telling me its easy to holla at girls. I ended up setting one up. they like to hang outside and do nothing? YOURE doing nothing too when youre with them.

your friends getting married? UH OH. guess what that means for you? all eys on you now. and you WILL feel it too. its real pressure. they dont even have to say it, but everyone is thinking it.

the social influence is a muhfukker. and worse, that shyt WILL creep up on you without you even knowing it

 

[MikelArteta]

I wrote this in another thread....since this a whole thread worth of essay like game, here you go

What you said about ask a women about her past relationship and yep it's true

When you think of it, it's amazing when buying a used car if it doesn't have the carfax or you can't speak to the previous owner you will think its a lemon that something is wrong with it.

If men could have a anonymous ten min Convo on that "horrible jerk a$$hole ex" you'd realize for the majority it's the women that's messed up.


Like I said I've ne'er cheated, abused or treated any chick bad, but I'm sure to some poor sucker out there I'm the a$$hole, I'm the horrible guy who wasn't there for her, and some simp is getting angry "how could he do that to you, I'm so lucky to have you"

 

[MikelArteta]

@Nudie


Everything your going through is screaming red flags but she's hot, you feel this connection, you think things will change later on.

It won't, I've been there but I continued in the relationship only to waste more time

 

[Ohene]

@Nudie


Everything your going through is screaming red flags but she's hot, you feel this connection, you think things will change later on.

It won't, I've been there but I continued in the relationship only to waste more time

I hear you. I told her not to worry about my shirt and CD but she insists and she is bringing it to my workplace right now.

 

[CrossBones]

that girl just wants to see your reaction. see if you make a fuss or what. it is what it is. but the most powerful thing a man can have is options

 

[Ohene]

that girl just wants to see your reaction. see if you make a fuss or what. it is what it is. but the most powerful thing a man can have is options

exeactly what I figure man. I'm not gonna bother trying to salvage anything. It's always the man who has to fukk that. I really am not even trying to see her right now. Shirt was 90 dollars, when I'm 25 years old, graduating and working at KPMG an I-Bank or Investment Manager I wont be worried about no damn Chronic 2001 CD or Brooks brothers shirt. Neither will I when I'm old and grey. It's a sunk cost, I could care less.

Just said to meet me at via rail station and I said I'm still at work. She's tryna tell me how shes waiting for her cab and hasnt bought train ticket yet. Not even gonna reply. Matter of fact, if she still comes to my building...I still wont reply. Walk straight to the subway station with earphones in my ears.

 

[sixsixtwo]

"Agreed. That’s why I don’t listen to what women say. That’s like, Game 101. Every chick thinks she’s an innocent angel and writes off all the times that “don’t count” like sex outside her race, vacation sex, drunk sex she regrets, etc. Just like an interrogation pro can generally tell when someone’s full of shyt and what makes them tick because he’s dealt with so many people trying to bullshyt him and his job is to get to the truth, a PUA can generally tell when a woman is full of shyt and what makes her tick because he’s dealt with so many of them (not just sexually, but in general interactions/conversations with thousands of different ones since that’s what we purposely go out and do on a regular basis (“sarging”)).

Here’s why all girls are sluts, broken down in-depth:

Attraction is a primal emotion/instinct/reaction, like anger. If you figure out what a person’s boundary is, you can make them angry. Some people are easy to make angry, some people are more difficult, but everyone has a threshold where their instincts kick in and they’ll get angry and fight.

Ergo, all girls have the potential to be attracted, you just have to find their threshold. Some girls thresholds are lower than others, but just as Ghandi and monks who spend their lives learning to repress those emotions are basically the only ones you can’t eventually piss off with the right stimuli, pretty much any women’s attraction can be triggered since Ghandi is the outlier and those guys swinging fists outside the bar and getting angry on Internet forums is the norm.

PUA teaches guys to specifically dig down to the girl’s attraction blueprint and extract it in a smooth way (this is where the non-judgement Secret Society stuff comes in) VS most guys who stumble around clueless and occasionally trigger it, or natural players who are good at instinctively triggering it but are the equivalent of a “friend who listens” VS a “trained psychologist” (they’re good, but not targeted/trained like a sniper). To go back to the anger example, a PUA is like the bully or comedian who can sum a person up quickly and just KNOWS exactly what button to push on someone to “zing” them and piss them off, while other people just spray-n-pray insults like “You’re an ectodweeb!” desperately hoping something hits.

So let’s Occam’s razor this. Which is more likely?:

1) That women are all just running on emotional instinct with various thresholds that can basically all be triggered, some more difficult than others but since even the good girl ends up getting married even SHE has an attraction threshold.

2) Or that there’s a super secret subset of women who (despite that we all know from the Manosphere women are completely encouraged and rewarded NOT to self-analyze or train themselves to control their emotions in any way) have defied all odds and natural programming and have trained themselves to be impossible to attract in under a specific amount of hours and in specific conditions because they are MADE OF MAGIC lol And that this subset of women is statistically huge enough to be in any way more relevant than using Ghandi as an example of how peaceful people are.

So why do red pill guys still cling to number 2?

I suspect there’s an overlap between people who can convince themselves there’s a God to avoid the reality that bad things happen for no reason, and people who can convince themselves that not all women are like that to avoid the reality that girls and humans in general (including us here in this comment section) aren’t unique and special snowflakes.

The reality is that some of you are still clinging to the hope that “not all women are like that” because it’s scary to think that 1) your wife, mom, etc. is/was exactly like that, 2) you will have to accept the terrifying notion that if you want to settle down, your girl will have the same slut-potential (but with a lower, but not un-reachable threshold) than the drunk mini-skirt chick dancing on the bar and you can never fully trust that she won’t stray on you unless you lock her in the basement and keep her from any human contact, and 3) you may die alone because the goal you’ve created in your head as a requirement for you to marry and settle down doesn’t exist, the same way you’d die alone if you made a vow not to marry a woman until you’ve videotaped yourself high-fiving God.

What’s controlling these fears (which are what lead to this desperate view), is the madonna/whore complex rooted way down in it’s deepest form to where you can even ADMIT that “some girls are definitely sluts” but it has to be followed by “…but not ALL of them.” to appease your fears and to allow you to keep searching for your non-existent treasure…because if you admitted to yourself that that treasure doesn’t exist, the future you’ve imagined for yourself would be shaken and it would all be too bleak to accept.

This is the same illusion-shattering concept as when you realize your CEO job won’t get you the p*ssy society built the illusion in your head that you’d get, your best friend did something unforgivable to you because they’re human and not perfect like the illusion you built up for them, and when women realize they’ve hit the wall and wasted their high-SMV years without securing a future because feminism built the illusion in their heads that there would be men a-plenty at 30+. Your world goes from black and white to shades of grey and you’re forced to contemplate “if everything I was so sure about was wrong, what else am I wrong about?” and you’re entire core, identity, life, purpose, goals, etc. are rocked.

It’s at this tipping point that a person goes down two paths:

1) Depression. You become jaded, cynical, sad, miserable, and feel defeated. Life feels pointless and hopeless as your brain comes to terms with the new realizations that just butt-fukked everything you held close to your core about how the world works. You become bitter, angry at the world, frustrated by the unfairness, and probably end up a MGTOW (to be fair, you can become a MGTOW in a healthy positive way too, I don’t think they’re all bitter losers despite their shytty Public Relations lol). This can also be the catalyst for removing yourself from the game entire (certain types of MGTOWs, the grass eaters movement in Japan, etc. The only difference with these groups is that there’s more of a head-in-the-sand “fukk it then, I’m outta here, good luck with all that shyt y’all” mentality, which, technically speaking is actually a little healthier than reveling in the depression from a day-to-day happiness standpoint lol)

2) Acceptance. You accept the pain and shell-shock of what’s happening as a natural thing and eventually overcome it. You find new ways to appreciate the world around you despite it’s faults and you learn to accept reality for what it really is: flawed and imperfect but often filled with good things if you look for them. You realize that people are the same, we all have potential for good and bad, and that all of that is simply societal judgement attempting to solidify shades of grey into black and white for easier processing and teaching to new generations and to keep society stable.

A person can go through a period of Depression and end up in Acceptance, but it’s a difficult climb. How much of your identiy, reality, beliefs, hopes, future projections, etc. you based on your beliefs is a big part of what determines which path you go down. When I swallowed the red pill, I had no problem traveling the Acceptance path because I had so little experience with women that I had no part of my world based on them except the occasional day-dream about the white-picket fence life. Most of the middle-of-the-road madonna/whore complex guys tend to have much more wrapped up in their beliefs on how women are or should be, so they can go either way. The stereotypical angry bitter MRA types have usually been so burned by women that their whole identity/life/etc. was shattered by the red-pill which is why they tend to end up on the Depression/MGTOW path.

This has been your daily dose of “how we all work”, by YaReally. I don’t expect this to sway any of the haters in this thread obviously lol this is more for the lurkers reading who may one day hit this tipping point as they read the Manosphere, PUA stuff, and meet a lot of women because ideally I’d like them to have as much information ahead of time as possible to make it easier to transition onto the Acceptance path rather than the Depression path."

Source: Comment Of The Week: Sexual Self-Control Is A Male Thing « Chateau Heartiste

 

[CASHAPP]

Anyone in here know any secret ways(Reincar?) to view a facebook page that is private?

Please no sarcastic responses

 

[Turbulent]

another gem:

Read the book "The Count of Monte Cristo" by Alexandre Dumas.

 

[Brandsdale]

Breh I think I've read this more than I've read amount of pages in the bible my whole life.

This shyt doesn't need to be published, shyt needs to be chiselled in stone tablets and preserved for future generations.

 

[Tony_Siegel]

some movie gems to uncover, polish, refine, and digest:





take it as you must gentleman...​

 

[Oye]

Glad I don't drink but it makes dealing with thoughts much harder. I don't have the energy to deal with a relationship right now but I do want kids in the future its just such a double edged sword.

 

[MikelArteta]

another gem:

Read the book "The Count of Monte Cristo" by Alexandre Dumas.

read it and saw the movie why?

expand plz i

 

[MikelArteta]

Glad I don't drink but it makes dealing with thoughts much harder. I don't have the energy to deal with a relationship right now but I do want kids in the future its just such a double edged sword.

surrogate and filipino nanny


and thats what bothers me what you mentioned how relationships are so energy draining, time consuming and for what? sex?

relationships get so stale and boring after awhile, so mundane, lets watch a movie, lets go to dinner, lets go for a walk.