Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Set up a time & place to meet a chick on the day OF. Especially if she's hitting your ass up ASAP.

Planning ahead is cool, but that shyt ain't guaranteed unless you got that shyt on lock 4REAL.

nikkaz plan ahead.....then when Friday & Sat comes, can't get a solid answer or an answer at all from a bytch on those days.....the days you KNOW a bytch trying to bool with a nikka....but then that nikka ain't you :heh:
This planning ahead shyt only worked out 1 time for me.

And that bytch was crazy :francis:. At least the p*ssy was fire.
 
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Has anyone on here flaked on tinder dates ? :patrice:

I matched up with this real cute girl, got her number within half a day of messaging and sent her flirty texts to which she was real receptive and i made plans with her for tomorrow evening.

She messages me earlier today trying to get out of meeting up with some lame excuse and I just played along with her and told her it's cool we can do it some other time. At first she said ok thanks and sorry will make up to you then an hour later messages back saying oh sorry I can make the plan tomorrow.

So we set up a time and place but now I'm thinking of flaking on her.. cause I'm thinking some lame ass excuse will come up tomorrow and she'll be like sorry can't make it.
 

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Young breh needs to focus on school and his future income prospects. Forget these college girls for now.
Too entitled and they have too many options including athletes his age and older men.

Find some divorcee or older woman if you desperately need to nut.

When you are more established in your late 20s and beyond. The tables will turn and that will be
the EASIEST time in your life to get women because you'll have leverage and resources.
Dudes in my program are working hard in school and they still out getting p*ssy. So it's not impossible to do both.
 

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Has anyone on here flaked on tinder dates ? :patrice:

I matched up with this real cute girl, got her number within half a day of messaging and sent her flirty texts to which she was real receptive and i made plans with her for tomorrow evening.

She messages me earlier today trying to get out of meeting up with some lame excuse and I just played along with her and told her it's cool we can do it some other time. At first she said ok thanks and sorry will make up to you then an hour later messages back saying oh sorry I can make the plan tomorrow.

So we set up a time and place but now I'm thinking of flaking on her.. cause I'm thinking some lame ass excuse will come up tomorrow and she'll be like sorry can't make it.

if its a chick u havent fuccked yet, give her the opportunity to meet u in person first. meet somewhere close to where u live so if she pulls some bullsh1t, u got little to lose cause u didnt have to travel far.

but with online dating, flakes are to be expected if the girl hasnt met u yet.

ive met so many chicks like this that changed their tune once we finally met. have patience brethren.
 

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Had a great night. The shorties were choosing heavy. Pay attention to the signs fellas. They make it easy for you when they want to.
What are the signs breh? When I'm out a night I'm sometimes a lil tipsy I don't notice the little things.
 

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she might have been interested in you for like 45 minutes...then her mood changed and she decided she wasnt feelin you anymore. maybe it was something you said, maybe it wasnt. their emotions change by the second, killa. and any little thing can trigger it and she could blow in the wind on you.

this works both ways tho. she might not be interested in the beginning and then you say something to make her laugh and then its on. a lot of women dont know what they fukkin want until its in front of their face. she may say she wont date fat nikkas but then when he steps to her with good game...she has a change of heart and will rationalize it in her head. "idk. yeah he's overweight. but hes so funny and hes like a cuddly teddybear" lol

look at women like this...when you meet, you're an a nikka thats an insignificant blip on her radar, ready to disrupt her world of her job at macys, her community college classes, snapchat dog filters, spin classes, her girlfriends group chat, game of thrones binging, spotify playlists, memes and the 38 other nikkas sending her texts. shes a very busy girl with all this going on. :heh:

you dont mean anything to her--especially as some nikka she met on tinder. youre not real to her. despite texting for a week, meeting for drinks, etc, you still dont mean anything to her. just a cure for her boredom.

that is....until she's emotionally invested in you.

and when she's hooked on you emotionally...you dominate her world.

but before that, you're dust in the wind. and thats how you should see them as well
That basically sounds like this thread is for naught :dead:
 
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