Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[VertigoKnight]

then how do you create dat sexual tension via text?

Double entendres. I never come out with anything too explicit when I text talking to a women. a smart woman will catch on quickly. As lets be honest here chicks like sex to. They just to pretend to not be all about that.

But once you get them started, it's on. Also if a chick is giving as good as she's getting back you know she's up for doing the deed when you meet.

 

[ViShawn]

I should juggle/spin other women but once I have sex I tend to shut down other prospects because I'm choosing that girl I'm with.

Has anyone dated anyone in Medicine? This doctor I'm dating has crazy long hours and I have to plan around that it seems. Not only that but there are times that she's low energy. The first few dates were really good, sparks everywhere. I had sex with her on the third date. Pretty much bruised her during sex lol. I think she's a freak like me

The weeks thereafter more work got in the way, meetings, then a conference for her job out of town. She was jet lagged on Sunday but told me to come over even though she wouldn't be much fun and she mentioned she didn't want me to get the wrong impression of her.

So yeah she's been low energy due to her job, but I can't help but think this will impact us trying to get comfortable with one another. Stress can KILL a relationship. I saw her Monday night and she was telling me all of these cancer surgeries she had to do in the morning. She was more quiet than she usually is and the date we were doing wasn't going as planned (I recommended two things, but she wanted to do something else so I obliged).

So I need to decide if I'm up for this sort of life or not

 

[trick]

I should juggle/spin other women but once I have sex I tend to shut down other prospects because I'm choosing that girl I'm with.

Has anyone dated anyone in Medicine? This doctor I'm dating has crazy long hours and I have to plan around that it seems. Not only that but there are times that she's low energy. The first few dates were really good, sparks everywhere. I had sex with her on the third date. Pretty much bruised her during sex lol. I think she's a freak like me

The weeks thereafter more work got in the way, meetings, then a conference for her job out of town. She was jet lagged on Sunday but told me to come over even though she wouldn't be much fun and she mentioned she didn't want me to get the wrong impression of her.

So yeah she's been low energy due to her job, but I can't help but think this will impact us trying to get comfortable with one another. Stress can KILL a relationship. I saw her Monday night and she was telling me all of these cancer surgeries she had to do in the morning. She was more quiet than she usually is and the date we were doing wasn't going as planned (I recommended two things, but she wanted to do something else so I obliged).

So I need to decide if I'm up for this sort of life or not

I would go for it if you're really into her. Especially if she's a quality woman. I wish I could meet a doctor breh, all I meet are these makeup "artists" and cheaters

I had a chick try to sell me life insurance after sex one time

 

[TRUEST]

I should juggle/spin other women but once I have sex I tend to shut down other prospects because I'm choosing that girl I'm with.

Has anyone dated anyone in Medicine? This doctor I'm dating has crazy long hours and I have to plan around that it seems. Not only that but there are times that she's low energy. The first few dates were really good, sparks everywhere. I had sex with her on the third date. Pretty much bruised her during sex lol. I think she's a freak like me

The weeks thereafter more work got in the way, meetings, then a conference for her job out of town. She was jet lagged on Sunday but told me to come over even though she wouldn't be much fun and she mentioned she didn't want me to get the wrong impression of her.

So yeah she's been low energy due to her job, but I can't help but think this will impact us trying to get comfortable with one another. Stress can KILL a relationship. I saw her Monday night and she was telling me all of these cancer surgeries she had to do in the morning. She was more quiet than she usually is and the date we were doing wasn't going as planned (I recommended two things, but she wanted to do something else so I obliged).

So I need to decide if I'm up for this sort of life or not

be careful here buddy. and dont push urself on this chick. its one thing to let a chick know ur very interested in her. its another to guilt her into doing things that she doesnt want to do but is doing anyway because she's a nice chick and doesnt wanna be a b1tch. all that low energy u described tells me you have been doing a little too much pursuing.

 

[ViShawn]

I would go for it if you're really into her. Especially if she's a quality woman. I wish I could meet a doctor breh, all I meet are these makeup "artists" and cheaters

I had a chick try to sell me life insurance after sex one time

that's crazy LMFAOOO

Yeah the mid 20s chicks I meet some don't have their career/life straight and frankly I can't hand hold them. Late 20s to mid 30s is my sweet spot at my stage in life and my age, mid 30s.

I'm not trying to coattail off this doctor. I just like she has her shyt together so I will just be patient.

be careful here buddy. and dont push urself on this chick. its one thing to let a chick know ur very interested in her. its another to guilt her into doing things that she doesnt want to do but is doing anyway because she's a nice chick and doesnt wanna be a b1tch. all that low energy u described tells me you have been doing a little too much pursuing.

Yeah I may come on too strong and be too high energy. I just try not to be needy with wanting her time, letting her do stuff, etc. I know it's hard. Really from what I've gathered and talk to people sometimes doctors want to go home and chill and THAT'S IT.

I'll pull back a bit, keep it light.

EDIT: by low energy I mean she is not hyper and is lethargic but I get it though. I didn't criticize her for it though and I understand.

 

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[trick]

that's crazy LMFAOOO

Yeah the mid 20s chicks I meet some don't have their career/life straight and frankly I can't hand hold them. Late 20s to mid 30s is my sweet spot at my stage in life and my age, mid 30s.

I'm not trying to coattail off this doctor. I just like she has her shyt together so I will just be patient.



Yeah I may come on too strong and be too high energy. I just try not to be needy with wanting her time, letting her do stuff, etc. I know it's hard. Really from what I've gathered and talk to people sometimes doctors want to go home and chill and THAT'S IT.

I'll pull back a bit, keep it light.

EDIT: by low energy I mean she is not hyper and is lethargic but I get it though. I didn't criticize her for it though and I understand.

Breh, I was so confused...we just finished and then we were talking about investments, and then she started talking about insurance and shyt. We were still naked on the bed and I was thinking like, this bytch really fukked me to sell some life insurance.

Yeah man, that's not a bad thing. She's not high energy but if she's a person who has their life together and she has a career where she is actually caring for people, so you know she's a good person. Just do simple things to help her out and I'm sure she'll be happy with you

 

[TRUEST]

that's crazy LMFAOOO

Yeah the mid 20s chicks I meet some don't have their career/life straight and frankly I can't hand hold them. Late 20s to mid 30s is my sweet spot at my stage in life and my age, mid 30s.

I'm not trying to coattail off this doctor. I just like she has her shyt together so I will just be patient.



Yeah I may come on too strong and be too high energy. I just try not to be needy with wanting her time, letting her do stuff, etc. I know it's hard. Really from what I've gathered and talk to people sometimes doctors want to go home and chill and THAT'S IT.

I'll pull back a bit, keep it light.

EDIT: by low energy I mean she is not hyper and is lethargic but I get it though. I didn't criticize her for it though and I understand.

you: hey baby how u doing?
her: just getting off work. hella tired
you: aww, want a back rub?
*long pause*
her: sure. but i probably wont be of too much fun
him: i got u babe. ima be on the way.

If the conversations you've had with her have been somewhat similar to the above, you're screwing up big time and her attraction is dropping. u do need to pull back.

a proper way for a conversation like this to go would have been:

you: hey baby how u doing?
her: just getting off work. hella tired
you: aww, go home and rest up sweetheart. hit me up when you feel rejuvenated.
her: definitely. *blows u a ton of kisses* will do


notice the difference between the two text conversations.

 

[ViShawn]

you: hey baby how u doing?
her: just getting off work. hella tired
you: aww, want a back rub?
*long pause*
her: sure. but i probably wont be of too much fun
him: i got u babe. ima be on the way.

If the conversations you've had with her have been somewhat similar to the above, you're screwing up big time and her attraction is dropping. u do need to pull back.

a proper way for a conversation like this to go would have been:

you: hey baby how u doing?
her: just getting off work. hella tired
you: aww, go home and rest up sweetheart. hit me up when you feel rejuvenated.
her: definitely. *blows u a ton of kisses* will do


notice the difference between the two text conversations.

I see I see. I pulled back last week b/c she was out of town for work and she def sent more

I already clapped cheeks so I don't need to simp. I admit I sometimes simp a little after getting the p*ssy. Good shyt breh

 

[MikelArteta]

These chicks were happy with anthony bennett, giving him loyalty, years of service, kids and all that but then they expect and demand you to be Michael Jeffrey Jordan

 

[MAGNETO.]

The idea these hoes have of who they are is in stark reality to who they actually are is just lmao.

Still makes me lol when talking to them.
How they brag by complaining about certain things lmao.

The game is fun and they know what they’re doing. And I indulge in it if I feel she is worthy.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

Has anyone dated anyone in Medicine? This doctor I'm dating has crazy long hours and I have to plan around that it seems. Not only that but there are times that she's low energy.

The sooner you understand that her moods and energy level have nothing to do with you, the better. She's in a stressful profession and if she's a resident/fellow she ain't making real money yet on top of that.

Just keep her fed, entertained and be a break from her work.

Also, the stress from work never goes away. She's a surgeon that deals with cancer patients. Her patients will die sometimes, and if she's not a psychopath she will internalize it.

Met my wife her 2nd year in med school back in 2006

 

[ViShawn]

The sooner you understand that her moods and energy level have nothing to do with you, the better. She's in a stressful profession and if she's a resident/fellow she ain't making real money yet on top of that.

Just keep her fed, entertained and be a break from her work.

Also, the stress from work never goes away. She's a surgeon that deals with cancer patients. Her patients will die sometimes, and if she's not a psychopath she will internalize it.

Met my wife her 2nd year in med school back in 2006

She works for a practice so she's at that level. I'll just help her out where I can.

As a man I think it's ME that is the reason why a woman behaves a certain way. I just need to understand that now. Thanks!

 

[mortuus est]

as much as i like chubby/bbw chicks, dealing with one with low self esteem issues and past problems is a fuking headache

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Matched with this girl on Tinder 2 hours ago. Model part-time, school part-time. Just turned 30.

Set up the date already for tomorrow afternoon... she's vegan so this will be different. Finally found me a skinny Black woman with a pretty face.

Ass looks to be non-existent tho She's a real deal model for runway/print, not IG. Shall be interesting.