Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TRUEST]

This is weird...

Girl I've been seeing the doctor is out on vacation to Belize. Stress levels down which is good. She showed me something on IG the morning she left and made a joke about something. I replied "you should check that guy 'myinstagram' out ;)" . She does it later I see. Cool.

Mine is public, I follow her back. Somehow I realized she unfollows me.

So she is out of the country anyway I should chill. When she went to a work conference in MIA she was texting me every day. I should stop thinking dumb and realize she is fukking out of the COUNTRY (dumbass) and let her cook, have fun, miss me a bit. I'm enjoying my family in town and doing stuff.

But damn I'd think she'd hit me up in the DM or something tho...

I mentioned that she was low energy our last date but she was acting the opposite like "I'm afraid you will get the wrong idea seeing me like this ;-)" i.e. being low energy and asked me did I miss her when she was out of town last.

Damn I get mad emotional over chicks I'm into fast even though I can get women..


On a side note I had a BOMB ASS workout just now to help me.

u havent learned much from this thread.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

u havent learned much from this thread.

Looks like we’re thinking the same thing. He gonna run that girl off with his needy energy.

 

[ViShawn]

u havent learned much from this thread.

Looks like we’re thinking the same thing. He gonna run that girl off with his needy energy.

Alright! Phone is down...not texting her until she texts me.

Also been talking to another girl but I'm not as interested in her TBH.

 

[ViShawn]

Seriously sometimes I just need some tough love and a reality check because I sometimes overthink like a motherfukker about small things.

 

[Balla]

What's your process, I'm trying to get numbers up and approach everywhere.

Brothas don't sleep on Starbucks as a spot to meet up.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

yo wassup brehs, my baby mama trying to bush me on the low

she wants to hang out with her co-workers more cause she feels i "chained" her down in the relationship. I admit, i didnt wine and dine her too often but thats because we always had alot of issues trying to raise a "mistake" baby (yeah i said it) and now that our kid is older, she wants to go "out" more.

She went out last time with her co-workers birthday thing at a bar and she let 2 guys buy her a drink. i tried to tell her thats mad disrespectful but do u. She said "its just a drink, i didnt go home with him"

but now, she on some, "i wanna be free to do what i want and not need your approval" type of shyt

she got plans to go out with her "co-workers" to some ladies night thing and she trying to say "im free of your chains" i was listening to her like

we put alot of fun activities on hold because we didnt have a babysitter and we were raising our baby all by ourselves alot of the time but now, she on some "Stella wants her groove back stuff" and took me my fun side for granted and thinks others are more "fun" than me.


whats all this about in detail?

I know you all gonna say "run" or "throw her to the bushes" but what went wrong here? Im a good dad but now she wants a "party social life" now that our kid is at the annoying age.


p.s. i cheated on her a few times over the years but she is the only one i entertained as a GF but i definitely got other p*ssy

 

[Balla]

Simple bruh, she just want to be wild. She was tamed with you with yall having a baby, now she wants to let free.

Pretty much what she told you was that she felt like she couldn't be free while yall were together with the baby. Now she wants to have the fun she's missed.

Do you want to still be with her? Or is it that you just don't want your child's mother being a thot?

In the end bruh you can't control anyone, so you gotta really not have high hopes of a girl being like how you think she will be and know she is replaceable.

I've been messing with a girl for years, I didn't want to talk about something and she texted me about it, I didn't respond because I would have given her a very short answer, so I wanted to leave it alone and have her talk to me about something else, I haven't heard from her in 2 weeks. This is the longest I haven't spoke to her, and I would think she would know why I didn't respond to her text because it was something I just didn't want to talk about.

But you know what ? I never hold females on a pedestal, I'm fine if it's over because I have more I want in life as a 100% single man. Most men would be crying and texting if a girl they messed with for years went ghost. The funny thing is she just started going out with friends recently and hasnt done so before, now all of a sudden she went ghost.

I also told her I'm not letting this go any futher, so maybe she was tired of it. Idk, but I've been going ham in the gym and learning about everything to better myself as a man. I feel like a beast again.

But I made my mind up from the beginning and I don't trust her or any new woman I fukk or get in a relationship with.

If you want to be with her for your child that's a different story because it's more than just you. I don't know what you could do to make her act like a mother and just stay home, but if you just want her to stop going out for you? Just don't worry about her man, know that if she wants to do something she will find a way, and just know that and relax, and do you.

yo wassup brehs, my baby mama trying to bush me on the low

she wants to hang out with her co-workers more cause she feels i "chained" her down in the relationship. I admit, i didnt wine and dine her too often but thats because we always had alot of issues trying to raise a "mistake" baby (yeah i said it) and now that our kid is older, she wants to go "out" more.

She went out last time with her co-workers birthday thing at a bar and she let 2 guys buy her a drink. i tried to tell her thats mad disrespectful but do u. She said "its just a drink, i didnt go home with him"

but now, she on some, "i wanna be free to do what i want and not need your approval" type of shyt

she got plans to go out with her "co-workers" to some ladies night thing and she trying to say "im free of your chains" i was listening to her like

we put alot of fun activities on hold because we didnt have a babysitting and we were raising an baby all by ourselves alot of the time but now, she on some "Stella wants her groove back stuff" and took me for granted.


whats all this about in detail?

I know you all gonna say "run" or "throw her to the bushes" but what went wrong here? Im a good dad but now she wants a "party social life" now that our kid is at the annoying age.


p.s. i cheated on her a few times over the years but she is the only one i entertained as a GF but i definitely got other p*ssy

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

Simple bruh, she just want to be wild. She was tamed with you with yall having a baby, now she wants to let free.

Pretty much what she told you was that she felt like she couldn't be free while yall were together with the baby. Now she wants to have the fun she's missed.

Do you want to still be with her? Or is it that you just don't want your child's mother being a thot?

In the end bruh you can't control anyone, so you gotta really not have high hopes of a girl being like how you think she will be and know she is replaceable.

I've been messing with a girl for years, I didn't want to talk about something and she texted me about it, I didn't respond because I would have given her a very short answer, so I wanted to leave it alone and have her talk to me about something else, I haven't heard from her in 2 weeks. This is the longest I haven't spoke to her, and I would think she would know why I didn't respond to her text because it was something I just didn't want to talk about.

But you know what ? I never hold females on a pedestal, I'm fine if it's over because I have more I want in life as a 100% single man. Most men would be crying and texting if a girl they messed with for years went ghost. The funny thing is she just started going out with friends recently and hasnt done so before, now all of a sudden she went ghost.

I also told her I'm not letting this go any futher, so maybe she was tired of it. Idk, but I've been going ham in the gym and learning about everything to better myself as a man. I feel like a beast again.

But I made my mind up from the beginning and I don't trust her or any new woman I fukk or get in a relationship with.

If you want to be with her for your child that's a different story because it's more than just you. I don't know what you could do to make her act like a mother and just stay home, but if you just want her to stop going out for you? Just don't worry about her man, know that if she wants to do something she will find a way, and just know that and relax, and do you.

give this man a medal, seriously

this all hit home so well

 

[RealAssanova]

average chick got 10+ nikka body count, so there is absolutely no need to be stressing over or pedestalizing them. They been used up, beat up, broken down, etc. Only difference between them and a used up car is one can get repaired and the other can't.
stop treatin these used up women like brand new off the lot 0km cars.

 

[ViShawn]

average chick got 10+ nikka body count, so there is absolutely no need to be stressing over or pedestalizing them. They been used up, beat up, broken down, etc. Only difference between them and a used up car is one can get repaired and the other can't.
stop treatin these used up women like brand new off the lot 0km cars.

I think if I really LIKE a girl I may come on strong or something. I have to learn to be less available I think which is my flaw.

Thing is though I admit I'm not built to go after multiple women ALL the time. I'm at an age (34) where I want something serious. In the summer I was going on 3-4 dates a week, slammed a few girls but it made me feel horrible and cheap on the inside because I wasn't connected to them. I fukked a girl while I was on several dates with another, but I was really thinking about the other girl a lot more.

Too much emotional energy, too much time and money wasted multi-dating too much.

Still there's stuff I can learn and improve on. Many a time a girl has come back I've dated and had sex with then they 'check up' on me or something so really time is man's greatest tool in dating.

 

[TRUEST]

yo wassup brehs, my baby mama trying to bush me on the low

she wants to hang out with her co-workers more cause she feels i "chained" her down in the relationship. I admit, i didnt wine and dine her too often but thats because we always had alot of issues trying to raise a "mistake" baby (yeah i said it) and now that our kid is older, she wants to go "out" more.

She went out last time with her co-workers birthday thing at a bar and she let 2 guys buy her a drink. i tried to tell her thats mad disrespectful but do u. She said "its just a drink, i didnt go home with him"

but now, she on some, "i wanna be free to do what i want and not need your approval" type of shyt

she got plans to go out with her "co-workers" to some ladies night thing and she trying to say "im free of your chains" i was listening to her like

we put alot of fun activities on hold because we didnt have a babysitter and we were raising our baby all by ourselves alot of the time but now, she on some "Stella wants her groove back stuff" and took me my fun side for granted and thinks others are more "fun" than me.


whats all this about in detail?

I know you all gonna say "run" or "throw her to the bushes" but what went wrong here? Im a good dad but now she wants a "party social life" now that our kid is at the annoying age.


p.s. i cheated on her a few times over the years but she is the only one i entertained as a GF but i definitely got other p*ssy

You need to stop being boring and don’t be that schmuck she can rely on to babysit or stay home with the child while she’s out acting a fool.

Start going out more. Go to the gym or the damn library. Don’t matter where u go as long as she sees ur not always around.

Unless she’s drop dead gorgeous, most men she meets probably just gonna do her dirty cause she’s got baggage.

This may be hard for u to accept but she’s craving new d1ck. Don’t stand in her way. Let her do her. But u need to man up.

A girl only and I repeat only gets as disrespectful as she is when they don’t respect ur lifestyle. Girls get bold when you’re the type to not go out much. If when she said she’s going out wit her coworkers u tell her no worries ima be coming in late myself I’m going to a a strip club with the guys for so and so birthday, She’ll change her tune fast. The one thing u have on all the guys is y’all have history. So u can rein her in if you get ur shlt together

 

[ViShawn]

You need to stop being boring and don’t be that schmuck she can rely on to babysit or stay home with the child while she’s out acting a fool.

Start going out more. Go to the gym or the damn library. Don’t matter where u go as long as she sees ur not always around.

Unless she’s drop dead gorgeous, most men she meets probably just gonna do her dirty cause she’s got baggage.

This may be hard for u to accept but she’s craving new d1ck. Don’t stand in her way. Let her do her. But u need to man up.

A girl only and I repeat only gets as disrespectful as she is when they don’t respect ur lifestyle. Girls get bold when you’re the type to not go out much. If when she said she’s going out wit her coworkers u tell her no worries ima be coming in late myself I’m going to a a strip club with the guys for so and so birthday, She’ll change her tune fast. The one thing u have on all the guys is y’all have history. So u can rein her in if you get ur shlt together

Damn man why didn't you give me more advice on my post?!

 

[Balla]

Damn bruh, do you know why you're so emotional with women? Do you depend on them for company?

I don't want to sound like a person who is always saying fukk btiches, but bruh, It's just hard to give yourself up to a woman while having no doubts that she would do you dirty.

shyt, the same goes for friends too, don't out too much trust in them.

Anyway, do you want to depend on a girl emotionally ? Or do you want to be able to break free?

I think if I really LIKE a girl I may come on strong or something. I have to learn to be less available I think which is my flaw.

Thing is though I admit I'm not built to go after multiple women ALL the time. I'm at an age (34) where I want something serious. In the summer I was going on 3-4 dates a week, slammed a few girls but it made me feel horrible and cheap on the inside because I wasn't connected to them. I fukked a girl while I was on several dates with another, but I was really thinking about the other girl a lot more.

Too much emotional energy, too much time and money wasted multi-dating too much.

Still there's stuff I can learn and improve on. Many a time a girl has come back I've dated and had sex with then they 'check up' on me or something so really time is man's greatest tool in dating.

 

[ViShawn]

Damn bruh, do you know why you're so emotional with women? Do you depend on them for company?

I don't want to sound like a person who is always saying fukk btiches, but bruh, It's just hard to give yourself up to a woman while having no doubts that she would do you dirty.

shyt, the same goes for friends too, don't out too much trust in them.

Anyway, do you want to depend on a girl emotionally ? Or do you want to be able to break free?

I like sex and companionship. I want a woman with life goals too and something about them drives me wild.

I'd rather someone compliment me than someone I need...I'm a romantic at heart. This chick though I told her I'm a freak too...and she knows this. We had sex a couple of times.

Not sure man I'm just a sensitive guy. Maybe being an only child and being overprotected then realizing in the real world not everyone is going to accept you hurts a bit. I'm a warm person as a whole despite me being 6'1" 205, shaved head that does "manly" activities.

Even then I've had other success in life. Working in business is nothing for me despite taking my run ins of layoffs and setbacks.

With women I don't know...I started dating in my mid-late 20s. I used to be that skinny nerd and I see myself like that sometimes still even though I've been told by women I can be intimidating.

I've had my share of relationships, dates, heartbreak, broke a heart, an a pregnancy scare sprikled in. I just want someone I'm crazy for and they are crazy for me...I'm an idealist.

 

[Balla]

Well, you just gonna have to keep knocking these hoes down until you find one you like a lot, but you can't put all of your trust in her, love her less than she loves you.

Sounds cold, but bro, love can't be equal sadly. One's mostly running while the other chases.

It's better to be the one being chased, still love her tho, but less and have a focus way bigger than her.

Many girls have chased me for years, and many have came out the blue to get some dikk they missed, that's because I don't love these hoes; I dikk them down good, treat them good, and do me. They go nuts because they can't tame me, I actually think they see me being super successful in the future, it's kind of flattering.

I like sex and companionship. I want a woman with life goals too and something about them drives me wild.

I'd rather someone compliment me than someone I need...I'm a romantic at heart. This chick though I told her I'm a freak too...and she knows this. We had sex a couple of times.

Not sure man I'm just a sensitive guy. Maybe being an only child and being overprotected then realizing in the real world not everyone is going to accept you hurts a bit. I'm a warm person as a whole despite me being 6'1" 205, shaved head that does "manly" activities.

Even then I've had other success in life. Working in business is nothing for me despite taking my run ins of layoffs and setbacks.

With women I don't know...I started dating in my mid-late 20s. I used to be that skinny nerd and I see myself like that sometimes still even though I've been told by women I can be intimidating.

I've had my share of relationships, dates, heartbreak, broke a heart, an a pregnancy scare sprikled in. I just want someone I'm crazy for and they are crazy for me...I'm an idealist.