Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Aint nothing like having options brehs. Your tolerance levels for bullshyt become non-existent. You drop hoes at any sign of disrespect instead of giving them the benefit of a doubt just cause she's your only supply of p*ssy.

Had a short convo with a girl who flaked on me about 4 weeks ago. Told her lets continue the convo over some coffee tomorrow. She went out of her way to tell me her schedule for the day, her free hours and allowed to pick a time that works best for both of us . If i didnt have options and decided to chase after her back then she'd have probably bushed me for being thirsty....but she saw that I aint pressed over her so now she's willing to give me some of her time

gotta take a shower now and wait for the joint who loves being choked (I talked about her a page or two ago), she requested some dikk today since she hasnt seen me in over a week.:shaqchef:

Met up with shorty today. Found her chilling at the cafe waiting on me, arrived early too. Them thighs and ass was looking crazy in them light blue jeans :wowjb:. She didnt even want coffee and said she's gonna drink her water so a breh didnt even spend a cent . We ended up taking a walk around campus and chopped it up for about 45 minutes till her next class.
convo was flowing too, no awkward silences
We ended up agreeing to hang out again in a more proper way, and she insisted that I hit her up first though. She one of them proud chicks who refuses to hit a dude up first.

She dont know that once i give her them long strokes, she gon be the one blowing up my phone wanting to meet up


Will wait for about a week then do the usual: invite her over my place for a home cooked meal that we will make together and chat over some red jerepigo wine and music. You already know how thats gonna end :shaqchef:

 

[Dreamzeedream]

as much as i like chubby/bbw chicks, dealing with one with low self esteem issues and past problems is a fuking headache

What happen

 

[mortuus est]

What happen

chick ive been dealing with is feeling a type of way cause shes put on weight and is mad that i dont say
"you're perfectly fine the way you are baby, you dont need to lose weight"



basically i try tell her she can improve if she really wants to lose the weight but today she tried to come for my neck telling me she needs a break cause all i do is tell her she isn't doing enough, which is a lie, she then tells me that i think shes gross and im like YOURE THE ONE CALLING YOUR SELF GROSS, not me you fool

she wants me to be a lapdog but im not on that shyt

its such a pain too cause she keeps complaining bout her wight like wtf do more about it then, i dont have the energy for low self esteem women

 

[MollyGalaga]

Sooo finally got a number this week

It was so random cause she set me up for the shot at work, n i was just perplexed like “ohhh so we doing this “

We gon see what comes of her, she a 7 but she on her money grind


Side note: other chick i was fw def saw that
Wasnt the plan but aye ill take it

 

[Critical Distance]

@Petty Crocker

nice avi.

 

[Solano707]

chick ive been dealing with is feeling a type of way cause shes put on weight and is mad that i dont say
"you're perfectly fine the way you are baby, you dont need to lose weight"



basically i try tell her she can improve if she really wants to lose the weight but today she tried to come for my neck telling me she needs a break cause all i do is tell her she isn't doing enough, which is a lie, she then tells me that i think shes gross and im like YOURE THE ONE CALLING YOUR SELF GROSS, not me you fool

she wants me to be a lapdog but im not on that shyt

its such a pain too cause she keeps complaining bout her wight like wtf do more about it then, i dont have the energy for low self esteem women

You need to listen to alpha male strategies... never EVER validate a woman

 

[mortuus est]

You need to listen to alpha male strategies... never EVER validate a woman

i wont , shes coming around tomorrow to pick up her stuff

we do this everytime, she gets mad, picks up her stuff then waits outside my crib thinking im going to chase her around, sit her down and be fake

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

So my ol girl last week tried to text-break up with and said we can still be friends with benefits.(she complained about my drinking)


I put my phone down and did something else without replying and she end up calling me on some "so you not gone respond to my last text" .

........later that night she apoligized.
Females say the darnest things when they mad.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Met up with shorty today. Found her chilling at the cafe waiting on me, arrived early too. Them thighs and ass was looking crazy in them light blue jeans :wowjb:. She didnt even want coffee and said she's gonna drink her water so a breh didnt even spend a cent . We ended up taking a walk around campus and chopped it up for about 45 minutes till her next class.
convo was flowing too, no awkward silences
We ended up agreeing to hang out again in a more proper way, and she insisted that I hit her up first though. She one of them proud chicks who refuses to hit a dude up first.

She dont know that once i give her them long strokes, she gon be the one blowing up my phone wanting to meet up


Will wait for about a week then do the usual: invite her over my place for a home cooked meal that we will make together and chat over some red jerepigo wine and music. You already know how thats gonna end :shaqchef:

Why wait a week? Aint take you a week to ask her to the cafe.
Coulda asked her today or tomorrow to ya crib.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Why wait a week? Aint take you a week to ask her to the cafe.
Coulda asked her today or tomorrow to ya crib.

nah, i got plans for this coming weekend already. its gon have to be next week pleighboi

 

[Kane]

I'm tired of being the one that's always more invested.

I think I know how to move with females logically, but my emotions always get in the way.

How do I stop giving a fukk?

 

[Balla]

Gotta have the mindset of "Come and go".

It's kind of a fukked up way of thinking, but it'll save your mental health immensely.

You have to know that these women can do you dirty no matter what. Do not trust them, never believe what they say.

Even if you love her, know that she can do bullshyt anyday. You also have to know you can replace her.

So basically never love her more than she loves you.

If you want more motivation check that Miami spring break thread, you definitely won't trust women then.

I'm tired of being the one that's always more invested.

I think I know how to move with females logically, but my emotions always get in the way.

How do I stop giving a fukk?

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Brothas don't sleep on Starbucks as a spot to meet up.

 

[ViShawn]

This is weird...

Girl I've been seeing the doctor is out on vacation to Belize. Stress levels down which is good. She showed me something on IG the morning she left and made a joke about something. I replied "you should check that guy 'myinstagram' out ;)" . She does it later I see. Cool.

Mine is public, I follow her back. Somehow I realized she unfollows me.

So she is out of the country anyway I should chill. When she went to a work conference in MIA she was texting me every day. I should stop thinking dumb and realize she is fukking out of the COUNTRY (dumbass) and let her cook, have fun, miss me a bit. I'm enjoying my family in town and doing stuff.

But damn I'd think she'd hit me up in the DM or something tho...

I mentioned that she was low energy our last date but she was acting the opposite like "I'm afraid you will get the wrong idea seeing me like this ;-)" i.e. being low energy and asked me did I miss her when she was out of town last.

Damn I get mad emotional over chicks I'm into fast even though I can get women..


On a side note I had a BOMB ASS workout just now to help me.

 

[TRUEST]

This is weird...

Girl I've been seeing the doctor is out on vacation to Belize. Stress levels down which is good. She showed me something on IG the morning she left and made a joke about something. I replied "you should check that guy 'myinstagram' out ;)" . She does it later I see. Cool.

Mine is public, I follow her back. Somehow I realized she unfollows me.

So she is out of the country anyway I should chill. When she went to a work conference in MIA she was texting me every day. I should stop thinking dumb and realize she is fukking out of the COUNTRY (dumbass) and let her cook, have fun, miss me a bit. I'm enjoying my family in town and doing stuff.

But damn I'd think she'd hit me up in the DM or something tho...

I mentioned that she was low energy our last date but she was acting the opposite like "I'm afraid you will get the wrong idea seeing me like this ;-)" i.e. being low energy and asked me did I miss her when she was out of town last.

Damn I get mad emotional over chicks I'm into fast even though I can get women..


On a side note I had a BOMB ASS workout just now to help me.

u havent learned much from this thread.