If that's the case then I'd say kind of hold out, not to stall, but to get to know their VALUES and PRINCIPLES. If you guys aren't on the same page as far as the aforementioned, then it's not gonna work.
The last chick I actually pursued with intent I actually took getting intimate off the table for a while. I felt getting intimate might cloud my judgement as far as core values in that we wouldn't be compatible but just because we were intimate we could gloss over festering issues.
And truth be told, after some digging, I found out some very core things to me she wasn't on the same page so I had to bounce.
Yeah I feel like I should delay sex but sometimes it happens that you do.
I think they are both in line with my values but it's still to be determined.
I don't want to cloud my own judgement either .
Can the neuro chick cook?![]()
She hasn't cooked for me yet but I'm sure she can.
