Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

ViShawn

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If that's the case then I'd say kind of hold out, not to stall, but to get to know their VALUES and PRINCIPLES. If you guys aren't on the same page as far as the aforementioned, then it's not gonna work.

The last chick I actually pursued with intent I actually took getting intimate off the table for a while. I felt getting intimate might cloud my judgement as far as core values in that we wouldn't be compatible but just because we were intimate we could gloss over festering issues.

And truth be told, after some digging, I found out some very core things to me she wasn't on the same page so I had to bounce.

Yeah I feel like I should delay sex but sometimes it happens that you do.

I think they are both in line with my values but it's still to be determined.

I don't want to cloud my own judgement either .
Can the neuro chick cook?:mjgrin:

She hasn't cooked for me yet but I'm sure she can.
 

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Yeah I feel like I should delay sex but sometimes it happens that you do.

I think they are both in line with my values but it's still to be determined.

I don't want to cloud my own judgement either .


She hasn't cooked for me yet but I'm sure she can.

you're single do you
only thing i wouldn't do is have sex with the both of em at the same time

but there is nothing wrong with hanging out ad getting to know women.

Put all your eggs in one basket and you may end up with nothing
 

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you're single do you
only thing i wouldn't do is have sex with the both of em at the same time

but there is nothing wrong with hanging out ad getting to know women.

Put all your eggs in one basket and you may end up with nothing

Ha I had sex with one of them already which is the issue. But maybe I'll just keep having sex with the other one I guess lol.

Yeah I feel like to save my ego I have to multi date.
 

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So what do you all think about this? I've been dating this teacher since mid October but I'm still not sure about her. She's caring, sweet, cooks for me, listens but I feel like she can be too shy/meek for me. She's the "whatever you want to do" type. I've been intimate with her.

I've been on two dates with this new chick that works as a neuro tech. She's very sharp and just overall fun. I've had two dates with her. I think she's also more my type than the teacher.

I want to explore more with the neuro tech but I still like the teacher and I'm still not sure 100% even though I feel she's getting closer to me...as am I but I want to continue dating the other.

We haven't mentioned exclusivity. What do you brehs think?

The shy/meek girl is the wifey material. The other girl will play you.
 

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The shy/meek girl is the wifey material. The other girl will play you.

The other girl is not over eager. She even pulled back when she thought I was too sexual. She will text me stuff like "I can't wait to see you / I'm looking forward to seeing you." or "I like spending time with you.", etc. which are words of affirmation which I LIKE. The teacher not so much, every now and then, but ya she does wifey stuff.

I will say both of these girls sort of align with similar values. I guess I gotta proceed with caution and just be completely honest with both.
 

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man, how you accidentally block me girl :what:

i knew it was sum strange cause we were on the phone the night before n it was a normal night


anyways, shorty is still weird but hell all these hoes are.


Shorty with the bf need to go head before i say/do something drastic.

she'd prob want that tho
 
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