Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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foreplay should start when you both sit down on the date.

heavy flirting, speaking in a slow, seductive tone, getting touchy feely and most importantly...that eye contact. the way you look at the chick...she needs to know that if the two of you are alone...shes getting fukked. breh that eye contact is the cheat code.

my friends tease me that i look at these broads like eddie in vampire in brooklyn. lol and theyre right. bc the shyt fukkin works.

when you and the girl lock eyes, looking at the chick the way eddie does...and you hold that gaze on them in silence, they look away, blushing....breh it gets the panties soaked...every fukkin time. shell be dtf by the time you leave the bar

if she reciprocating with the flirting, sitting close and touching, shes down. just ask her to grab another drink somewhere more quiet...which is back at your place.

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Another reason why brehs need to get on they grind and get they own spot, and not have it messy.

I missed out on tons of p*ssy not having a spot, and then when I did I never wanted to take bytches back there unless they were wild young hoes because the spot had bed bugs :mjgrin:
 

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Had a chick crying/whining to me all day thursday about her life/job situation. Gave her the benefit of the doubt & told her we could seriously lock in this weekend and improve her job situation by going over skills, her resume, setting up profiles, etc.....



Stupid ass girl went out partying all day Friday & Saturday. Done offering solutions to women :camby:
Prince told us about these hoes back in 84.

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Ex from 2012 tried to add me on IG. I only dated her for a year but man was that an intense year. She tries to come back and follow-up with my every few years. Pretty pathetic.

I've been dating one woman since October and she's really proving herself. Cooking for me, touching me right, great sex. The only thing is that she is super quiet lol. It's a good change of pace with dealing with women who flake on you, ghost, think they are better than you, and all the bullshyt you deal with dating. Finally with a girl who appreciates me and has high value.
 

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Whats some of you brehs go to moves to see if she dtf once yall bqck at the crib
I just go for it.

I set the tone by hugging them real hard so that their titties press against my chest. We're taught to be "delicate" with females, but even they'll tell you that's bullshyt. They love that masculine physical stuff.

If we're watching a movie I usually make them laugh and put my arm around their shoulder.

Sometimes I'll joke around with them and say something borderline offensive and when they giggle on some "how dare you", I'll offer an apology kiss pull them close and nibble their ears, down to their neck slowly. Neck, ear, hip areas.

Obviously I don't handle them like I'm playing rugby, but I'm not physically soft with them either. They're not newborn babies. You're sending a subliminal message that you're in your masculine and can handle your business.

Obviously, I'll know whether the chick is on it like that and not a time waster playing games.


I was using Jiu Jitsu to my advantage and showed 2 chicks what to do when someone grabs...how to get out of a headlock.

Another one is some hand massage shyt some asian chick did to me at a bar...you press on a spot between the thumb and index finger and it's supposed to ease headaches....be on that

"You know a way to get rid of headaches"....then massage her hand :mjlit:

And don't freak out when yall making out and she is on that "we're going too fast , I don't want you to think i'm some slut:usure: " , shyt either.

Just relax, ask her some questions to get her ass talking so you don't talk yourself out the p*ssy, and try again.
 

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This post was originally going to be longer.
- Going out with a chick tomorrow. Last time I saw her, we flirted heavily at a party; she left with another guy. I felt some type of way about this.
- Her (shared with a gay friend) birthday party is this weekend, I don't really want to go
- My last post, I deleted the dating apps, but I still have the number of a girl I was supposed to go out with. Should I hit her up?

I was a late bloomer in terms of dating (and career success). I feel like I'm just looking for fun and sex and if I make a deeper connection along the way then... cool.

The reason why I mention career success is because some of the women I've dated are super successful. It's weird when they're at such high levels in their careers and I'm the IT guy. I'm a well paid IT guy, but not at their level.
 

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I met this chick while on holiday leave, she’s a sweetheart but physically I’m not attracted to her. Too damn bad she has all the qualities that show she’s a ride or die :mjcry:
 

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Ex from 2012 tried to add me on IG. I only dated her for a year but man was that an intense year. She tries to come back and follow-up with my every few years. Pretty pathetic.

I've been dating one woman since October and she's really proving herself. Cooking for me, touching me right, great sex. The only thing is that she is super quiet lol. It's a good change of pace with dealing with women who flake on you, ghost, think they are better than you, and all the bullshyt you deal with dating. Finally with a girl who appreciates me and has high value.


Yes man when you finally find a woman that wants to prove herself to you and cares about your happinesss that shyt is amazing. My girls still does this and we been talking since 2014.
 

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I met this chick while on holiday leave, she’s a sweetheart but physically I’m not attracted to her. Too damn bad she has all the qualities that show she’s a ride or die :mjcry:
Don’t settle you will be wishing you didn’t for a long time did that with an ex and it was cool for the first year but I got so bored and had to let her go.
 

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This post was originally going to be longer.
- Going out with a chick tomorrow. Last time I saw her, we flirted heavily at a party; she left with another guy. I felt some type of way about this.
- Her (shared with a gay friend) birthday party is this weekend, I don't really want to go
- My last post, I deleted the dating apps, but I still have the number of a girl I was supposed to go out with. Should I hit her up?

I was a late bloomer in terms of dating (and career success). I feel like I'm just looking for fun and sex and if I make a deeper connection along the way then... cool.

The reason why I mention career success is because some of the women I've dated are super successful. It's weird when they're at such high levels in their careers and I'm the IT guy. I'm a well paid IT guy, but not at their level.
Don’t down yourself man, when you talk like that a girl can see that and will try and take advantage. You should go but don’t be stuck on her mingle around and talk to other females but let her know she has your attention.
 

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Yes man when you finally find a woman that wants to prove herself to you and cares about your happinesss that shyt is amazing. My girls still does this and we been talking since 2014.

Real talk. One woman like that is worth at least 10 of these random thots that just get pumped and dumped.
 

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Yes man when you finally find a woman that wants to prove herself to you and cares about your happinesss that shyt is amazing. My girls still does this and we been talking since 2014.

I find myself wanting to do nice stuff for her because she's so sweet and actually does nice stuff for me. I haven't want to do that for a chick in a while! I also, strangely enough, feel 'safe' around her if that makes sense. Not in a protective manner but if I'm with her I feel everything is going to be okay.
 

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I find myself wanting to do nice stuff for her because she's so sweet and actually does nice stuff for me. I haven't want to do that for a chick in a while! I also, strangely enough, feel 'safe' around her if that makes sense. Not in a protective manner but if I'm with her I feel everything is going to be okay.
Who you telling that’s the reason I cuffed my girl I just felt at home with her
 
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