Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Coli, general question: Do you feel like Afican-American/Black culture in the US puts more emphasis on brehs getting multiple chicks than other cultures e.g. White, Latino, Asian etc
 

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you really have to just make your move i find.

if a girl asks for a massage
if a girl is laughing a lot throughout the night
if she's touchy or doesnt mind you touching her

shyt like that...you eventually just go in for the kiss and go from there.


This usually my go tos but Its been times I felt like I wasted a few hours being scary cuz when I did make a move it was no resistance like I could have did my thing way sooner. Just curious if other brehs have any telltale signs where its go time
 

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My ex wants to chill. I suggested we go out somewhere but she just wants to come to my crib while I cook :jbhmm: I feel she trying to get tossed since she rather just come to my spot but we posed to be "friends" now so I dont know how to approach this. She still bad so the flesh is weak
 

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My ex wants to chill. I suggested we go out somewhere but she just wants to come to my crib while I cook :jbhmm: I feel she trying to get tossed since she rather just come to my spot but we posed to be "friends" now so I dont know how to approach this. She still bad so the flesh is weak
what do you have to lose by tryna fukk?
youre a man. impose
 

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This usually my go tos but Its been times I felt like I wasted a few hours being scary cuz when I did make a move it was no resistance like I could have did my thing way sooner. Just curious if other brehs have any telltale signs where its go time

I just go for it.

I set the tone by hugging them real hard so that their titties press against my chest. We're taught to be "delicate" with females, but even they'll tell you that's bullshyt. They love that masculine physical stuff.

If we're watching a movie I usually make them laugh and put my arm around their shoulder.

Sometimes I'll joke around with them and say something borderline offensive and when they giggle on some "how dare you", I'll offer an apology kiss pull them close and nibble their ears, down to their neck slowly. Neck, ear, hip areas.

Obviously I don't handle them like I'm playing rugby, but I'm not physically soft with them either. They're not newborn babies. You're sending a subliminal message that you're in your masculine and can handle your business.

Obviously, I'll know whether the chick is on it like that and not a time waster playing games.
 

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Coli, general question: Do you feel like Afican-American/Black culture in the US puts more emphasis on brehs getting multiple chicks than other cultures e.g. White, Latino, Asian etc

I'm not in America, but cacs are the most sexually promiscuous men on the planet by far and as they control the media and sex is literally advertised everywhere, it's easy to do the maths on that one. They just have the whole world fooled into thinking we're sexual beasts while they're the pinnacle of virtue.
 

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I have a dilemma brehs, When I was in basic training I got a letter from a chick I smashed that said it might be a small possibility that the child she’s pregnant with might be mines

Again a slim possibility, but I try to keep in contact just in case.

Lately she’s been avoiding my messages or giving me short answers.

Usually I’ll delete the number with the quickness but with a kid in the picture it changes things.

Stuck between a rock and a hard place
So pregnant lady hit me up out the blue at 3am last weekend. Just shooting the shyt. Says the baby will be here in a couple of months. You could tell she was being secretive about something.
 

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So pregnant lady hit me up out the blue at 3am last weekend. Just shooting the shyt. Says the baby will be here in a couple of months. You could tell she was being secretive about something.
I dont think its yours breh
 

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Whats some of you brehs go to moves to see if she dtf once yall bqck at the crib


I usually get the sign even before her crib (I never bring back a bird to Space Mountain). Conversation goes a long way. But in general, you'll see the signs;


- Talks about how she never knew/met her dad = Red light for both crazy and DTF.

- Already doing things like touching/rubbing/kissing, etc.

- Lets you FoTF (finger on the first)

-Want to drink

-Keeps mentioning how she lives close by.


You're welcome.
 

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Kinda sucks but I will NEVER get emotionally attached to a woman again. EVER.


After all that shyt last year, any time I even think about giving a chick the benefit of the doubt my conscious be like




Women run off emotions, so every day is a crap shoot. Ain't no prepping for that shyt :francis:
 

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Kinda sucks but I will NEVER get emotionally attached to a woman again. EVER.


After all that shyt last year, any time I even think about giving a chick the benefit of the doubt my conscious be like




Women run off emotions, so every day is a crap shoot. Ain't no prepping for that shyt :francis:

EVERY fukkING DAY

a girl can go from complaining one day that you aint spending enough time with her...to acting like she never even liked you in the first place the next day. my recent ex got my mind fukked up
 

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Whats some of you brehs go to moves to see if she dtf once yall bqck at the crib
foreplay should start when you both sit down on the date.

heavy flirting, speaking in a slow, seductive tone, getting touchy feely and most importantly...that eye contact. the way you look at the chick...she needs to know that if the two of you are alone...shes getting fukked. breh that eye contact is the cheat code.

my friends tease me that i look at these broads like eddie in vampire in brooklyn. lol and theyre right. bc the shyt fukkin works.

when you and the girl lock eyes, looking at the chick the way eddie does...and you hold that gaze on them in silence, they look away, blushing....breh it gets the panties soaked...every fukkin time. shell be dtf by the time you leave the bar

if she reciprocating with the flirting, sitting close and touching, shes down. just ask her to grab another drink somewhere more quiet...which is back at your place.
 
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